So this guy has had his eye on me for years...

[Myojine]

So this guy finally said to me a week ago that he was in love with me... took him like 4 years to do so.
He's so sweet and nice to everyone, he was a friend to me for a while and we played the same video games for YEARS.
Cept i was the dumb girl completely oblivious to his existance and here he is.... taking years trying to figure out how to tell me "I love you"

I feel so bad DX
yet so happy. ^_^

Im so happy to know that I make someone else happy, that Im a value'd person in someon elses life.
Im saving up money to go out and see him...
some happy things have been happening to me lately...it feels nice.

[Asako]

That's good to hear Myo. ^.^ Best of all, the two of you have things in common. =) Like video games! =^.^= <---it's a kitty

[Myojine]

he dumped me, desided that i wasnt what he wanted.

[larry]

So in 6 days it went from love to goodbye ???


he dumped me, desided that i wasnt what he wanted.

[Momarie]

Maybe the problem isn't everyone else in your life.

Perhaps you should take a break and reflect on your own past behaviors that aren't working out.

Become responsible for yourself by setting goals and then working toward them.

You're very young and there is still plenty of time for you to be content and happy with your life.

[Aprilrain]

So in 6 days it went from love to goodbye ???

Yeah, you can't exactly get "dumped" after 6 days Myo. Besides you don't like men anyway! Remember?

[Myojine]

Yeah, you can't exactly get "dumped" after 6 days Myo. Besides you don't like men anyway! Remember?

he talked to his parents about it, trying to convince them that he wanted me to come live with him.
instead the exact opposite happened. he doesnt want me anymore. dropped me like a hot poptart on the cold ass floor.
and it wasnt just 6 days fyi.
i took a while to post this thread because i was unsure.

[sandra-leigh]

he doesnt want me anymore. dropped me like a hot poptart on the cold ass floor.

My sympathies. I've been the one dropped in a relationship, and it was not fun and led to me questioning "What is wrong with me??" (the more so because I was tossed over for someone widely considered to be my inferior.) In my situation being dropped turned out to be a very good thing in the long run, but it took years for me to understand and appreciate that.

[larry]

As I read this I just happen to wonder how "Diclonius Essence " fits into this ??

[Momarie]

Myojine,

You are VERY MUCH VALUED as a person!

We are here to value you, until you can value yourself.

But dear girl, don't expect me to keep quiet when you spout non-sense about the kind of person I know you already are.

You need to get off the pity pot and be the girl we all believe you can be.


And as for your dramatic self-pitying signature quote:

"Judge me not because i hate you, i hate you because you have judged me.
~Myojine Kaawasen
The world has turned my heart cold, my spirit freezes the very air in which i breath.
The pain I feel is the essence of the darkness and nightmare that has been my life.
My blood runs cold and vile, pure poison in the spirit it carries
Burning distain of the fith of men, and gods.
Can you not see what hate hath made me become?"

If this is really how you feel, then you should get out of yourself...and try to help and heal others.
When one experiences such great tragedy as you claim, one has great gifts to give to others.

[Myojine]

[removed]

I forgot to check if this forum had an ignore function.

edit: thats better, now i dont have to see your words in every thread i post
Remember
Judge me not because i hate you, i hate you because you have judged me.

[Tara D. Rose]

he dumped me, desided that i wasnt what he wanted.

Was this after he got what he wanted or did it go that far?
L&R.............Tara

[Myojine]

Was this after he got what he wanted or did it go that far?
L&R.............Tara

Oh he was really enthusiastic, really all for it. then he approached his parents with the situation. And his parents highly disapproved and people were badgering him.
so, screw me.

[Gaby2]

I'm sorry to hear about the relationship that hasn't had a chance to get off the ground.
It's difficult when hopes are dashed, especially when other people interfere because they know better.
I hope that the hurt eases off with time.

Take care
Gaby

[Myojine]

Myojine - your treatment of Momarie is way out of order.

I'm sorry to hear about the relationship that hasn't had a chance to get off the ground.
It's difficult when hopes are dashed, especially when other people interfere because they know better.
I hope that the hurt eases off with time.

Take care
Gaby
no its not, she sent me a REALLY nasty ignornant message via PMs. I have NEVER reported anyone on this forum EVER, EXCEPT for her PM she sent to me.
That was the first time someone had said something that i deamed worthy of a report.
the first time in almost.... 4 years. 4, ****ing, years.

[Andy66]

Awww... :hugs: I don't know this guy, but he sounds immature at best. It's a real bad sign that he could change his mind and turn on you so fast. You deserve someone better, and I'm sure you will find him (or maybe her) when the time is right.

[Momarie]

My "REALLY nasty ignornant message" to Myojine:


You are not a victim...you volunteered for this sh*t.....and you seem to enjoy wallowing in it.

You act as if you are the only one to have ever shed a tear, been abused, beaten, raped, survived unspeakable tragedies etc.

The world does not owe you anything, so it's time to man up and be responsible for yourself.

Get a real job, quit expecting others to take care of you and stop whining.

By the way, people who do actually survive such trauma, don't behave as you do.

On the other hand, those who crave constant attention behave just as immaturely as you.

[Gaby2]

no its not, she sent me a REALLY nasty ignornant message via PMs. I have NEVER reported anyone on this forum EVER, EXCEPT for her PM she sent to me.
That was the first time someone had said something that i deamed worthy of a report.
the first time in almost.... 4 years. 4, ****ing, years.

I still feel your manner was unjustly disrespectful and way overboard towards Momarie.
I'm also a lot older than you - one could put our differences down to the generation gap and/or communication difficulties.
Those are lame-excuses though.

Ignoring someone is the ultimate punishment for me - how often has my opinion been ignored in my life?
That "hurt me" me most of all and how you wrote so publically about it.
That's one of three reasons why I posted... and, I suppose... interfered.

I'm sorry.
Gaby

[ReineD]

OK, That's it.

I'm trying to keep the personal insults (and references to them) out of this thread, and when I do there are more, plus people taking private matters and posting about them publicly.

You all need to do this via PM.

Thread closed.