KatieZ
10-31-2005, 11:10 PM
Last spring A couple friends (they are brothers) and I decided to start a new buisness combining all of our skills in the trades. I thought then that I should telll them I crossdress but kept chickening out.
Well the house that they live in sold last week and they had to move out. They each had their own apt. there , one of them is married. So the married one found a place but the other one hadn't. He asked me Sat. if I would consider renting him my basement. My basement is an apt. by itself complete with bath and kitchen. I thought about it and we worked out the details. he will pay nominal rent, work on finishing out the basement, and supply a satalite dish. So I decided I could use the money and get the basement finished out and told him OK.
Sunday I kept thinking I had two choices. Stop dressing and going out, or tell.
Today I told them both. Gawd I was shakeing in my shoes all day. I was on a job with the married brother and kept trying to figure out a way to bring it up. At the end of the day we were headed back to town and I just told him there was something I needed to talk to them about. I was so nervous I just pulled into a parking lot when we got to town and said "well I'm a crossdresser". He didn't seem too fazed by it. He did say he was surprised but he didn't have a problem with it and didn't think his brother would either. He even told me for a period of time he wore panties cause they felt better than mens underwear. After we got to his house we waited a bit and his brother showed up and I told him "before you move in there is something you need to know" and he said oh what is that, and I said well I'm a crossdresser. He was quiet a minute and said Ok and then he told me he used to wear a skirt when he went hikeing in the mountains of Vermont. He thanked me for telling him up front so it wouldn't be a shock when he see's me the first time.
Probably more details than that but at the moments I was too scared to really listen. I was more waiting on negative reactions and the positive ones just blew me away.
Wow what a relief to get that out and I'm so happy they both took it so well.
Another bridge crossed and it just keeps getting easier (although still scarey).
Hugs
Well the house that they live in sold last week and they had to move out. They each had their own apt. there , one of them is married. So the married one found a place but the other one hadn't. He asked me Sat. if I would consider renting him my basement. My basement is an apt. by itself complete with bath and kitchen. I thought about it and we worked out the details. he will pay nominal rent, work on finishing out the basement, and supply a satalite dish. So I decided I could use the money and get the basement finished out and told him OK.
Sunday I kept thinking I had two choices. Stop dressing and going out, or tell.
Today I told them both. Gawd I was shakeing in my shoes all day. I was on a job with the married brother and kept trying to figure out a way to bring it up. At the end of the day we were headed back to town and I just told him there was something I needed to talk to them about. I was so nervous I just pulled into a parking lot when we got to town and said "well I'm a crossdresser". He didn't seem too fazed by it. He did say he was surprised but he didn't have a problem with it and didn't think his brother would either. He even told me for a period of time he wore panties cause they felt better than mens underwear. After we got to his house we waited a bit and his brother showed up and I told him "before you move in there is something you need to know" and he said oh what is that, and I said well I'm a crossdresser. He was quiet a minute and said Ok and then he told me he used to wear a skirt when he went hikeing in the mountains of Vermont. He thanked me for telling him up front so it wouldn't be a shock when he see's me the first time.
Probably more details than that but at the moments I was too scared to really listen. I was more waiting on negative reactions and the positive ones just blew me away.
Wow what a relief to get that out and I'm so happy they both took it so well.
Another bridge crossed and it just keeps getting easier (although still scarey).
Hugs