Rom
02-28-2012, 06:11 PM
Hi all,
Im in my early twenties from the UK and have been an on/off lingerie cd since my early teens. I am still firmly in the closet on what I do and am comfortable being there for the forseeable future. However, now that I know my passion for crossdressing in lingerie is not going to go away, i've started making tentative steps in coming to terms with what I do.
The first step was joining here and i've now set myself a target of starting to build my own fully fledged lingerie collection within 3 months. I've never been shopping before and hope to first start out online before progressing onto the face to face kind later on in the year.
(I still live at home and my parents are both very conservatively minded and would not approve of what I do - so am hoping an opportunity will arise within this time for me to purchase something without risking it being delivered as to when either of them could be home). So as I am a total novice on this experience, I first of all would be grateful for any advice/tips on how I should approach online shopping?
Being rather inexperienced in the world of crossdressing, I am sure you can all appreciate that I remain somewhat naive and although i have learnt a fair bit reading around the forum - I was wondering if I could obtain some further insight from some of the more experienced users on here.
As may have already been guessed from the fact that Ive never previously been shopping - my crossdressing exploits like many ive been reading about, began with an exploration of a known female's clothing (and i guess will be sustained until i begin shopping).
In my case specifically most of that experimentation was done with an aunts lingerie (panties mainly), whom id visit regularly (with a few years break for when i moved for university).
In all this time, my aunt has never commented on what I do for which in my teenage years I took as a sign she was unaware.
However, although ive explored her undies less in recent years and after reading around the forum, I now find it hard to comprehend that she hasnt had even the of faintest of suspicions.
Now she is also rather conservatively minded much like my parents and if she did know for certain, I cant imagine that she would ever encourage me to take such an active interest in her underwear.
Now, my question is - if she does know, why do people think she has chosen to have kept quiet on the issue?
And for those with experiences in dealing with "significant others" - I am also curious to gain an insight as to how she may have been affected by/felt through the years and her possible perceptions of what and why I experimented with her underwear?
Thanks
Rom
Im in my early twenties from the UK and have been an on/off lingerie cd since my early teens. I am still firmly in the closet on what I do and am comfortable being there for the forseeable future. However, now that I know my passion for crossdressing in lingerie is not going to go away, i've started making tentative steps in coming to terms with what I do.
The first step was joining here and i've now set myself a target of starting to build my own fully fledged lingerie collection within 3 months. I've never been shopping before and hope to first start out online before progressing onto the face to face kind later on in the year.
(I still live at home and my parents are both very conservatively minded and would not approve of what I do - so am hoping an opportunity will arise within this time for me to purchase something without risking it being delivered as to when either of them could be home). So as I am a total novice on this experience, I first of all would be grateful for any advice/tips on how I should approach online shopping?
Being rather inexperienced in the world of crossdressing, I am sure you can all appreciate that I remain somewhat naive and although i have learnt a fair bit reading around the forum - I was wondering if I could obtain some further insight from some of the more experienced users on here.
As may have already been guessed from the fact that Ive never previously been shopping - my crossdressing exploits like many ive been reading about, began with an exploration of a known female's clothing (and i guess will be sustained until i begin shopping).
In my case specifically most of that experimentation was done with an aunts lingerie (panties mainly), whom id visit regularly (with a few years break for when i moved for university).
In all this time, my aunt has never commented on what I do for which in my teenage years I took as a sign she was unaware.
However, although ive explored her undies less in recent years and after reading around the forum, I now find it hard to comprehend that she hasnt had even the of faintest of suspicions.
Now she is also rather conservatively minded much like my parents and if she did know for certain, I cant imagine that she would ever encourage me to take such an active interest in her underwear.
Now, my question is - if she does know, why do people think she has chosen to have kept quiet on the issue?
And for those with experiences in dealing with "significant others" - I am also curious to gain an insight as to how she may have been affected by/felt through the years and her possible perceptions of what and why I experimented with her underwear?
Thanks
Rom