What is this feeling? Corset fairy visited me today.

[Postopadmirer]

I don't know why this happens to me but I find women's clothing out in public places quite frequently. Never the same places.

In this case i found an XL soft corset (at least that is what I think it is) on the side of the road near my work parking lot. It is in nearly mint condition, and if I was 40 lbs lighter it would fit great! It might fit now except the claps are in back and my arms don't work like that.

Now for my question.
I put it on and did one clasp in back. And had the most indescribable feeling. It was a kind of peace I can't describe. It just felt so comforting, and I don't think in a sexual way. I've worn women's clothes before (not often but I have) but this was SO STRONG.

I literally don't know what it was other than a feeling of rightness or comfort.

What is this? I know I'm asking in the right place.

[Sheila11]

That euphoria was the effect of a lack of oxygen to your brain as it was constricting your lungs.

[anonymousinmaryland]

I can not say any thing about your FEELINGS but I certainly hoped you washed it first.
Heaven knows what others here may have to say.

[Postopadmirer]

Maybe I was light headed from the thrill but my lungs were fully functioning. I didn't squeeze myself in as I don't want to damage my corset.

[Karren H]

Clasp in the back?? Strange corset fairy! Lol. That feeling is definately due to the lack of oxygen.... Or blood flow to the brain.... Loosen the laces! :)

[Dragster]

Clasp in the back?? Strange corset fairy! Lol. That feeling is definately due to the lack of oxygen.... Or blood flow to the brain.... Loosen the laces! :)

Sounds like it's a basque more than a corset Karren, so not so constricting and no laces. However, I felt this the first time a put a basque on, hooks attached at the side, and than twisted into the correct position. I was shaking with excitement! Many years ago now.

Tony

[sterling12]

What area do you live in? Man, Corsets falling out of the sky and lying around the side of the road. That's not unusual, that's bizarre! I think you may be the Only Person to have ever had this experience. Grungy panty hose.....not unlikely. Oil-splattered blouse or slacks.....quite possible. But A Corset? Think of the hundreds of millions of Women who DON'T wear a corset, and never will wear a corset! Perhaps the underwear truck passed by your house this week, and trying to avoid a flying squirrel, almost tipped over and voilÃ*, dumped an Extra Large Corset right there at your feet. Be careful, a meteorite just might invade your cranium too. I think the odds would be just about the same.

Well, cheer up! Here's an opportunity to be a good citizen. Poll your neighbors, I'll bet the one you decide is the most likely to be transgendered, has lost this pretty bauble. You can give it back, and make a new friend. If that doesn't work, how about something in The Lost and Found Section. "Found, at Fifth and Main, one zebra-stripped "****wear Brand," size extra-large corset, hardly used." "Call XXX-XXXX and claim your merchandise." Think of the fun calls you will have! Even more opportunities to meet many new and exciting people!

Me, I vote for Fiction. I just ain't believin' it happened.

Peace and Love, Joanie

[Rachel Flowers]

I'm not getting sucked onto passing judgment on the veracity of other members' posts but the feeling you describe reminds me of the first time I put a dress on. Home at last!

[Nicole Erin]

So, the corset fairy left one on the side of the road and you found it.
The corset fairy - oh gyod I don't know why but that is funny.

[Foxglove]

You're lucky. The only thing I regularly find lying beside the road is money. Like the time I found 2 €20 notes and another time when I found a €50 note. What can you do with that?

Annabelle

[Laura912]

You probably found some poor soul's purge and re-cycled it.

[suit]

I don't know why this happens to me but I find women's clothing out in public places quite frequently. Never the same places.

In this case i found an XL soft corset (at least that is what I think it is) on the side of the road near my work parking lot. It is in nearly mint condition, and if I was 40 lbs lighter it would fit great! It might fit now except the claps are in back and my arms don't work like that.

Now for my question.
I put it on and did one clasp in back. And had the most indescribable feeling. It was a kind of peace I can't describe. It just felt so comforting, and I don't think in a sexual way. I've worn women's clothes before (not often but I have) but this was SO STRONG.

I literally don't know what it was other than a feeling of rightness or comfort.

What is this? I know I'm asking in the right place.

I have tried to get others to comment on this idea : you were sucking up the pheramones of the woman that last had it on.....so in a way your reptilian brain was " oohhh this is nice inside this ! mmmmmm :" and then it gave the rest of your awake brain the thumbs up in that endorphin rush. and if she took it off for a serious work out..she was probably over heated and sweating allready.

thoughts ?

[Karren H]

I'm not getting sucked onto passing judgment on the veracity of other members' posts.......

Come over to the dark side......... or I'll pass judgment on you! Lol.

[Vieja]

I have never owned a corset and I recently ordered one. It should be here any day now and the anticipation is unbearable. Sizing is all guesswork at this point but after I have it

on I can figure out what changes need to be made. On another note I found a size chart for woman's dress sizes, they all assume an hour glass figure. I require an inverted hour glass. LOL



Vieja

[Postopadmirer]

I had a long post but then my browser crashed. This will be shorter.
Yes I think it is a Basque. It has clasps in back and no laces to tighten.

I know much of the comments are in jest, but honestly why would I make up a story like this one? What would be the point? You are right about one thing though, may e I should buy a lottery ticket befor my strange luck runs out.

I can't explain why a basque was on the side of the road in an office/industrial park area. If I had not parked there I never would have seen it. Yes it is in great condition almost new. Yes i washed it. I'll try to post a picture of it when I learn more about how this forum works. I. Afraid of the forum guards throwing me in prison for posting something I should not in a areas did not know is forbidden.

Back to the feeling. It was wonderful. No I could breath just fine. I will have to try the side clasp idea. I was a fraid of getting stuck in this thing and then having to explain it to the SO at a very awkward time. I really do want to understand. I always thought I was a transexual who was just unlucky enough to be to big and masculine to ever transition well. I figured I would rather be an unhappy closet TS who passed well as a man, than an unhappy TS who did not pass at all as a woman.

I'm not happy with the choices, but I don't feel the alternatives are really that desirable. I do feel like I have a choice. I do worry about having a midlife crisis and all the pain that goes with it, but I think I know me well enough to know this is my only real option right now. At least I thought I knew me and then I had the experience described here and I wonder WTF happened to me? That was a strange almost religious feeling. Wearing the basque felt right, in a way that nothing has felt right in years. I'm not in a place in life where I can explore these issues openly or often. But I know now I must do more to understand them.

Thanks for the helpful comments.

Wendy

[Postopadmirer]

This is the piece only in purple. Looks to be between 18 and 28 dollars from sears.

http://www.sears.com/true-desire-flocked-leopard-bustier/p-018VA9942701P

I got the side twisty method to work to get it on. It fits (well sort of) Sadly I do look like a football lineman in it.

No Garters, no panties, just the main torso of the Bustier.

[Postopadmirer]

So laying around in this thing is so bitter sweet. On the one hand I love how it feels and the feelings it evokes. But I'm sad when I look in the mirror and know I do not have a shred of sex appeal in it. I'm not even your average ugly house wife. I'm a big fat old man with broad shoulders, stuffed into a bustier who has no hope of every looking like he belongs in anything but a big house dress, with a big floppy hat and sunglasses.

I know I'm not the first person who ever found them self in this situation, dressing I mean. How do/did you deal with it?

I try to suppress it but it comes out at the most unpredictable times.

[Postopadmirer]

I think I need to be more clear. I'm not expecting to look like a supermodel. I just wish when I looked in the Mirror the gulf between what I am and what I want to be were not so great.

[RADER]

Come over to the dark side......... or I'll pass judgment on you! Lol.

That means Karren wants you to wear Jeans with your corset.
Rader

[Postopadmirer]

That means Karren wants you to wear Jeans with your corset.
Rader

Can somebody direct me to where people leave women's jeans by the side of the road?
I promise I'll wash them.

[docrobbysherry]

I'm sorry, Wendy! The Bustier Fairy may have been playing a prank on u! However, here's some GOOD NEWS! If u liked how it felt, the Corset Fairy may charge u more, (maybe $75 to $100 for a starter corset), but, if u thot that bustier felt hot, wait until u get laced up in a real corset!

It will REALLY take your breath away! And, lineman in your mirror or not, you'll look slimmer for sure!

[RADER]

Can somebody direct me to where people leave women's jeans by the side of the road?
I promise I'll wash them.

You can contact Karren or just drive around South Western PA. and watch the road side.
It has been rumored that Karren uses jeans to wash the garage floor with, and oil spills.
So if you want free jeans, go to PA. It might be worth the trip.
Rader