How do you feel about your male part?

[whowhatwhen]

GG Disclaimer: This thread is more for people likely a little further down the TG line, please don't take any posts as a measure against your SO if he crossdresses.

Attempting to keep this squeeky clean, how do you feel about it?
Like? Hate? Don't care?

Personally I see it like a Christmas ornament, it's there but you only care about it once a year then put it away in the closet.

The "normal" usage desire isn't there for some reason, and I wonder if anyone else feels the same?
Anyone can chime in, in fact, it would be interesting to see a wide variety of input here.

[daviolin]

He's my buddy, I've had him all my life. I would hate to see him go. Daviolin

[Kelli Ca]

I love being male except for what I have to wear. The organ is part of who I am and I like to exercise it as much as possible. But seriously I love the feel of IT inside a satin panty. Good question

[docrobbysherry]

To sum up MY position 3W: Sherry doesn't like it! But, it LOVES SHERRY!

And, it's MY job to make SURE they play NICE together!

[Pinky188]

I love my male parts! I love my girlfriend so it comes in handy in that department! I suppose Im weird because I feel more like a girl and need to look like one, but I would never loose the boy side of me that lets me satisfy her! Is that strainge?

[Jilmac]

I've become rather attached to it after all these years, and it loves the way it's treated when it's surrounded by the smooth softness of panties.

[Leyna]

I've become rather attached to it after all these years

You stole my line. Now I'm going off in the corner to pout.

:(

[Katelyn B]

I don't like it, I don't hate it, though I wish it wasn't there, most of the time I'm not really aware of it, unlike other bits (like arms) which I'm just generally aware of all the time. It works, and I really rather like the end result, but the process leaves me quite cold most of the time.

[Frédérique]

How do you feel about your male part? Attempting to keep this squeeky clean, how do you feel about it? Like? Hate? Don't care? The "normal" usage desire isn't there for some reason, and I wonder if anyone else feels the same? Anyone can chime in, in fact, it would be interesting to see a wide variety of input here.

OK, since you asked... :doh:

Personally, I LOVE the damned thing! Oh, “he” gets in the way sometimes, both mentally and physically, but, being a submissive individual, I let HIM take the lead. Don’t you know - it’s a pleasure to pull it out and admire, but it’s an even greater pleasure to put it away and pretend it doesn’t exist! Who’s in charge, “him” or me? I can manage six days by myself, but then he demands a day. I’ll be doing just fine, and then something suddenly comes along to hang the towels on...

BTW, if you don’t see me around, you’ll know where I am, or what I’m doing...:o


Personally I see it like a Christmas ornament, it's there but you only care about it once a year then put it away in the closet.

What...like my juicer? :strugglin:

[Jaimie]

I am repulsed by my male sex organ. It doesn’t belong. It is out of place. I am so glad that anti androgens and estrogen have reduced my libido to the point where I don’t have to get erections. When I was a teen I tried to perform an orchiectomy on myself using rubber bands. I hoped that due to the loss of circulation that they would die and fall off. It was stupid. I could have gotten gangrene. I want to get SRS someday so mutilating myself is not a good idea.

[envira/cissy]

I hate it. Its been there all my life,and i take every opportunity to encase it in a chastity cage to suppress the urges.want it removed but need someone whos quite forceful to make me go thru it

I know how you feel.i hate my organ also,i use chastity cages and devices to keep the thing in order but would prefer to not have it.one day i will have it removed

[Cynthia Anne]

i can take it or leave it! I'd rather leave it over there! No WAY over there! Like perhaps in another state! Hugs!

[Kate Simmons]

We tend to get used to things, even if the outside package doesn't match what's really inside.:)

[Amanda22]

I have always detested what is between my legs. Since childhood, it has felt like it completely doesn't belong to me, like a tumor or other abnormal growth. I hate it. I really do. I believe with all my heart that I should have had a vagina instead. I wish I'd wake up in the morning and it would be gone.

[Julia Welch]

I love mine ... and it definately loves girls, as do I :)

[Jacqueline Winona]

I love him! There are times i need him to take a break and hide but I wouldn't want to live without him.

[insearchofme]

We became best friends around the age of 11. We've had so many adventures together.
I was going to say the same thing.

[ArleneRaquel]

I love mine, I've had to sooooo long.

[whowhatwhen]

I hate it. Its been there all my life,and i take every opportunity to encase it in a chastity cage to suppress the urges.want it removed but need someone whos quite forceful to make me go thru it

I know how you feel.i hate my organ also,i use chastity cages and devices to keep the thing in order but would prefer to not have it.one day i will have it removed

I just need to respond to this for a sec.
The thing is, it's your body and no one should ever force you to change it.

If you need SRS it should be your decision on your own terms with proper medical and mental guidance.
Anything else is abuse.

[Lorileah]

its OK. It has its place and is fun sometimes. Sort of not pretty but I have seen a lot worse. I would like it to be detachable

[diannecourtney]

Oh hang it all, what's one to do with it or as Freddie said, use it on the seventh day, a good thought!

[Aylineira]

It's not a question of how I feel about my male part... it's a question of how often I feel about my male part ;)

[GaleWarning]

I think it's wonderful, marvelous, sensational, ..... !!!
As do one or two women I could name ...!!!

All is good!

[Debb]

I was gonna say "meh" pretty well sums it up for me ... but I like Lorileah's idea, it should be detachable; it should be much more convenient.

[christina s]

He has his up and downs and sometimes , gets a little a hard headed .

[darla_g]

It's not a question of how I feel about my male part... it's a question of how often I feel about my male part ;)good answer!

what can i say it was standard equipment!

[goodnhose]

No problem with it here!

[Chloe Renee]

Despite my being TS, I do not hate it. It is part of who I am, I am not one of those unit hating extremely dysphoric trans-women. And frankly, it does come in handy (IE Nasty porta- johns at renn faire) However, given a chance I would trade up to what I and my former counselor felt was my proper equipment

[StacyC]

Strangely enough I wouldn't crossdress if it wasn't for him lol.

[Aprilrain]

I love it! oh wait, you mean MY male part? I thought you were talking about my BFs:heehee:

[kellycan27]

i was ambivalent about it.. I don't however miss it in the least.

[KellyJameson]

Psychologically I have a vagina between my ears and a penis between my legs, for me this means physically/sexually(body influences mind) I'm attracted to women but psychologically/sexually (mind influences mind,yin and yang, laws of attraction,complementary energies,ect...) I'm attracted to men, basically I'm F....ed but cannot, but peeing is certainly easier for me than for a woman. I do not hate my shape but I have become indifferent about sex even though this may change soon thanks to this forum because I'm considering other possibilities as I see the problem more clearly. I think it is time to think outside the box as I realize psychologically it is impossible for me to ever relate to a woman on a level needed for me to want to be intimate with them because they are to much like me and I want my opposite.

[whowhatwhen]

Psychologically I have a vagina between my ears and a penis between my legs, for me this means physically/sexually(body influences mind) I'm attracted to women but psychologically/sexually (mind influences mind,yin and yang, laws of attraction,complementary energies,ect...) I'm attracted to men, basically I'm F....ed but cannot, but peeing is certainly easier for me than for a woman. I do not hate my shape but I have become indifferent about sex even though this may change soon thanks to this forum because I'm considering other possibilities as I see the problem more clearly. I think it is time to think outside the box as I realize psychologically it is impossible for me to ever relate to a woman on a level needed for me to want to be intimate with them because they are to much like me and I want my opposite.

Holy crap!
Are you me?!

One of the most soul crushing things in my life is the fact I have a penis I don't care about using and the fact that I can't physically have sex "the other way"; And this is guaranteed to be 100% permanent in the future if it isn't already now.
Sucks eh?

[Brittany CD]

I love my male side. I like being male. I wouldn't ever give up manhood. But I still love dressing up

[GBJoker]

It's useless. Serves no purpose for me. Will never be used.

As for changing it, still would probably never be used, so... Yeah... No point in spending money.

[thechic]

I find my male parts quit vile and detestable,but thats life, thats the curve ball i was born with.

[Diane Smith]

Mostly I try to ignore it, but since I am not attracted to males as sexual partners in the least, it is probably more useful to me than an "innie" would be.

- Diane

[BRANDYJ]

I love my male side. I like being male. I wouldn't ever give up manhood. But I still love dressing up

Love this answer. And you know, I'm the same way.


Strangely enough I wouldn't crossdress if it wasn't for him lol.

Ditto!


No problem with it here!

None here either.


He has his up and downs and sometimes , gets a little a hard headed .

Me too! But I'd miss it if this was'nt so.

[Leanne2]

Sometimes on the left. Sometimes on the right. And sometimes I just comb it all back. Leanne

[Andie Elisabeth]

If he doesn't wake me up around 5 am then I am neutral with him.

[Trish]

It wouldn't be missed.

[YorkshireRose]

I wouldn't be without it, as much as I love to C/D.

[KimberlyJean]

Wow what a question, this forum always makes me think. My wife has asked me several times if I wanted to be a woman and I always tell her no. But this forum really gets me thinking about things I hadn't considered before. I know I would never transition surgically but you girls have made me think that I am a little more female inclined than alot of other CDs but not TS. So for my answer to the question, it tucks away nice and neat, so it doesn't bother me.

[Andrea Renea]

Some of these comments made me laugh. He's great and been with me for almost 55 years, Handy for creation (two kids) , recycling (coffee, beer, etc..), and recreation. lol

[Claire Cook]

Well, he's a little guy and not as spry as he used to be. Sometimes I think my wife likes him more him than I do. Maybe now I wouldn't miss him if he weren't there, but at least I can hide him when I have to.

[girlygirly]

I like mine most of the time, and have learned to enjoy the way it feels when I start to get a chubby while it's stuffed between my legs. I also like to use it, so I'm not so sure I would want to lose it.

[TGMarla]

I've learned to live with it. There's no point in being at odds with it. It works just fine and my wife seems to like it. (She doesn't have to wear it!) All told, I'd rather have had an innie than an outie, but it is what it is. It services both of us rather well, and I'm not going to change it, so I might as well enjoy it.

[PretzelGirl]

its OK. It has its place and is fun sometimes. Sort of not pretty but I have seen a lot worse. I would like it to be detachable

Reminds me of an old joke where some wives would like it that way. "Honey, I am just going bowling with the guys. Can I please take it with me?"

Me? My personal opinion is if you don't want it at all, you really need to consider if you are transsexual. I don't (at least yet) consider myself transsexual. Therefore......

[Marleena]

Lol..at this thread and some of the replies!:)

My turn?? Oh yeah ..I always wanted a huge one when I was younger so all the girls could see this big bulge in my pants and want me.lol. You know like sticking a sock in there to make it look massive?

Now that I'm tucking it a lot I'm okay with it.

[corrinediane]

I love my "part". I wouldn't want to be without him, or is that her. I like the fact she hides well and comes out to play often. I have an innie too but that's another story.

[Ally 2112]

I have loved it i have hated it .At the moment it is not much use other than using it to pee with :)

[JohnH]

I'm OK with my male bits. Under M2F HRT it takes a bit longer to get an erection.

However, if I woke up and found that I had a vagina instead, that would be OK too. However, the SRS procedure is awfully painful and expensive and it takes a LONG time to recover. So I plan on keeping my boy bits except maybe have an orchiectomy.

Johanna

[StevieTV]

its OK. It has its place and is fun sometimes. Sort of not pretty but I have seen a lot worse. I would like it to be detachable

Yep! Lorileah summed up my thoughts on this entirely.

[NicoleScott]

We've been through some ups and downs together, but like my American Express card, I never leave home without it.

[jessica renee]

I'm pretty much indifferent about it, comes in handy sometimes, but if I woke up one day and it was replaced with it's opposite, i wouldn't really mind. Otherwise, it's here to stay.

[whowhatwhen]

I'm going to be honest here...
I have the sense of humour of a 10 year old so all those penis jokes are really getting a good laugh over here. :D

[Debra Russell]

I was gonna say "meh" pretty well sums it up for me ... but I like Lorileah's idea, it should be detachable; it should be much more convenient.

Yep! me too -- detachable, just hang it in the basement 'till needed...................Debra

[Kristyn Hill]

I love mine. Would never change it but my wife does refer to it as being female parts at times and that doesn't bother me either. Matter of fact, it gets my juices flowing even more during that particular moment.

[drag n fly]

I like my penis..I have it ringed and prettied up...It's my testes that need to go..They're what tells me and my penis to do bad things (fun things)...So..I ordered some spiro and some estradiol yesterday, a 3 month supply, and plan on becoming a chemical eunuch for awhile, just to see how it is...and feminize a bit...we'll see...smooches all Jackie

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi WWW, I have the best of both worlds.

[Karinsamatha]

I tolerate the thing, but I really don't like having it!

[Cheryl T]

Ambivalence sums it up for me.
At times I've loved it...and at times I've hated it.
At present I'm of the opinion that I wouldn't miss it if it were gone...

[ArleneRaquel]

I'm still attached to mine.:heehee:

[Bree-asaurus]

Its' time here on earth is limited...

From a young age until now, I've gone from ambivalence until puberty, then to disgust for a looong time. When I finally had a girlfriend that wanted to use it, I attempted to live with it... but ultimately it turned into hatred.

[Carroll]

It's my favorite toy and the only toy I will let my wife freely play with :devil:

[whowhatwhen]

I like my penis..I have it ringed and prettied up...It's my testes that need to go..They're what tells me and my penis to do bad things (fun things)...So..I ordered some spiro and some estradiol yesterday, a 3 month supply, and plan on becoming a chemical eunuch for awhile, just to see how it is...and feminize a bit...we'll see...smooches all Jackie

I don't want to be "that person" but I hope you're being medically supervised here.
I bring this up because not too long ago I had a serious complication from my meds that were luckily caught because I get regular blood work done.

Edit:


ambivalence


That's the word I was looking for!
Also why it's not a good idea to write posts when your brain is fizzled.

[drag n fly]

[QUOTE=whowhatwhen;2793812]I don't want to be "that person" but I hope you're being medically supervised here.
I bring this up because not too long ago I had a serious complication from my meds that were luckily caught because I get regular blood work done.

Edit:Thanks for the concern WWW...I get regular bloodwork...I'll mention it to my physician when I see him shortly...and I'm going to make it a moderate program...100 mg daily spiro and 2 mg daily of estradiol...Moderation in all things...particularly your hormones smooches Jackie

[NathalieX66]

Thing gets in the way.....why did God do this to us?

[Kate T]

its OK. It has its place and is fun sometimes. Sort of not pretty but I have seen a lot worse. I would like it to be detachable

Reminds me of an old song by a band called King Missile "Detachable Penis".

[kelsey52]

It is my fav. toy been playing with it for 52 years now.

[Betty M]

Through SRS, I intend to replace it as soon as possible. I can't rid myself of the things too soon.

[debbie409]

you were fair and correct in your opening disclaimer.

for the typical textbook M to F Heterosexual CD it is directly linked to the whole purpose of dressing!

[whowhatwhen]

There are girls here who would argue with you on that. :P

It's been interesting to see the wide variety of responses here though, maybe how I feel isn't as uncommon as I thought.
I put the disclaimer there as not to scare terrified GGs coming here from a search and assuming their SO is going to want SRS.

[charlytuna]

I love him, I need him, I use him, and never abused him, just hide him away when he needs to be hidden

[Lorenqt]

It can be fun sometimes. I don't want to get rid of it. At least, not yet.

[April_Ligeia]

I'm actually quite fond of it, we have a lot of fun together.

[Krististeph]

How do you feel about your male part?

You know that feeling when you are falling asleep and you suddenly feel like you are falling? That's how i it feel about. :-)

[nancy58]

I'm ambivalent about mine. I had prostate surgery three years ago, and the hydraulics have been shot ever since. The upside is that I don't have a problem tucking, but between the member and the jewels, there's still a bulge under most underwear. I could do without it, since it's mainly a bathroom convenience anymore.

[STACY B]

Like mine ,,, Not to big not to small just right ,, Its a wonderful world being a grower an not a shower ,, Just dont kick me in it ,,Oh an my SO LIKES it to .. No good for wearin a thong ,, Cant win em all .

[Davena Doll]

I love my tool......I'm more of the shemail type, but with no boob job, Darn.

[Gabby]

I'm quite fond of mine, and I've never had any inclination to be rid of it...I'm 100% certain that my SO is happy with my point of view!

[Bree-asaurus]

KILL KILL KILL!!!


oh wait... I already posted here :P

[SuzanneS]

Wow, I'm surprised at the replies of "detesting" it or hating it, or even the other end of the spectrum and "not wanting to be without it". I didn't realize it was that way with most of us.
I'm pretty much indifferent about mine...it's there, I use it to pee, because it is there, and every now and then I use it for sex, because that's what I'm supposed to do....and that's about it....Honestly? I would have rather been born with girl parts....I'd rather have them now and look the part, too. Just my thoughts....

Suzanne

[whowhatwhen]

I'd rather mine turn into a butler, then at least it would be good for something.
Alas, they don't do such things for practical reasons.

XD

Edit:
Yeah, it also can be kinda disgusting at times and it never listens to a word I say.

[SusanQ]

It was never terribly big, but it seems to be getting smaller and smaller all the time. It isn't even a good soldier, very rarely ever stands at atention any more. Basically is sort of a second appendice...serves no real purpose whatsoever. It certainly would be easier to try on more clothes if it wasn't hanging around any more.

[Jay Cee]

They're there. I use 'em. They are fun sometimes. They make urinating outdoors (or in dirty washrooms) convenient. Not sure what else I can say about my parts. :)

[RachelZ]

Aside from peeing standing up... I hate it

[noeleena]

Hi,

Thank you all for the great laugh iv been haveing here, I was begining to think is this the funnys page,
What can i say, depending on what side of the fence you on , I dont have that type of said machinery .

...noeleena...

[sometimes_miss]

I'm not genital centered, I rarely think about it.

[Michelle Deere]

For me, I’m a guy first and foremost. I don’t hate my parts. In fact I see it as a challenge in order to present as feminine appearance as possible and take pleasure in that transformation.

[shae]

The guy bits keep milady coming back for more, so I have no problem with keeping the Junk. And m'man has no issues with it, because we spend time when I'm enfemme...

[Kimberlyfaye]

I like it but I do have thoughts now and then that I shouldn't have one. Not often though. I couldn't live without it.

[DCChris]

When you look up friending in the dictionary, there is a picture of mine. Well ... maybe a bit of an exaggeration, but he's met lots of friends over the years and, I for one don't think we could part.

[Sallee]

I like mine I play with it regularly and it isn't to hard to tuck when the pants or skirt are tight.

[Kathy Smith]

I'm a bloke that just happens to like to dress in womens clothes. I'm happy with my bits. :)

[Rachel Renee]

I'd be lost without it. Like an Andorian with his antennae cut off, only mine doesn't grow back. :D

[paulaprimo]

we have been together a very long time and get along just fine. but sometimes he can be a dick...:eek:

[Karinsamatha]

Hmmm let me check. Nope still there still don't want it. Just going to have to tolerate it some more.

[Kerigirl2009]

To be honest, most of the time I would have to say its done its job, up until a couple years ago, now its just there and has caused a few problems in my relationship. He just does not work like he is suppose to work. I would rather he be someplace else. I could live without him and likely be happy with that part of me missing.

[Jessica Who]

I love it! So does my wife! ;)

[arbon]

Don't like it and it will be gone one day.

[Veronnie2]

I have to chuckle, It is a part of me, and I do appreciate its usefulness, and what it had done for me in the past. (4 children-2 boys and 2 girls) They are still my pride and joy. As far as it today, It is a part of me I do not wish to divorce myself from.....at least not yet anyway....(It keeps quiet and never argues with me. Veronnie2

[muzzy]

It came with me when I was born and still does to this very day but it's that small that it's hardly noticable in pretty panties and like anyone,it has it's up and downs but I think it will always be ahead xoxo

[Kaz]

It's kind of 'attached to me' and we have had some great times together over the years. Increasingly these days it just gets in the way and I would be happy to say goodbye if I could find another more amenable playmate of slightly different proportions! But as that is a risky strategy, I am happy to maintain the relationship and continue to work on our differences! :heehee:

[GeminaRenee]

I certainly wouldn't want to be without! We've had our share of good times together over the years, both one-on-one and in larger settings. Furthermore, he seems quite socially adept, and most people he's met have had complementary things to say about what he brings to a party. He sometimes gets in the way when dressing up, of course, but his clumsiness is easily forgiven, because it's clear that he takes a rather earnest interest in the proceedings. All in all, he's a very important part of the whole package (sorry!) that I am. To remove him would change the recipe and alter the end product, and I'm happy with things just the way they are!

[whowhatwhen]

This thread was worthwhile even if just for the numerous penis puns.
:)

[serinalynn]

At my age I'm not likely to get rid of it now, If I were say 20-25 Y/O knowing what I know now, and in the current year. He very well could be on the way out. Womens clothing is so much fun put on and wear. Lately though he has gotten smaller and my boobs got bigger. It's at times easier to sit to pee.

[Launa]

I like my male friend. The only time he's a problem is when I wear somthing tight and I can't hide him.

[Marguarite]

Though it is rarely of much use my wife still loves 'it", and in fact says it is hers and she just lets me carry it around.
She also lets me carry around her purse. my wife also likes to play with knives.
I'm just trying to keep her happy, and not piss her off, so that she is not having me carry "it' around in her purse.

[donnalee]

I find it aesthetically challenged; it seems to be an inside out version of the proper thing with lesser capabilities, though at times, it's been fun!

[Nitas]

Most of the time I wish it weren't there...no more tucking and panties would fit better, funny how something that can bring so much pleasure can be such a pain.

[Bobbie224]

I hate it. Wish it was never there. I have used it but never will again. I want to look like a woman and with that thing hanging there i cant really be one. wish i never had it.

[gerdaberlin]

I certainly wouldn't want to be without! We've had our share of good times together over the years, both one-on-one and in larger settings. Furthermore, he seems quite socially adept, and most people he's met have had complementary things to say about what he brings to a party. He sometimes gets in the way when dressing up, of course, but his clumsiness is easily forgiven, because it's clear that he takes a rather earnest interest in the proceedings. All in all, he's a very important part of the whole package (sorry!) that I am. To remove him would change the recipe and alter the end product, and I'm happy with things just the way they are!

beautifully said, I am with you here!

[DebbieL]

When I was born, I didn't have testes, and I wasn't really aware of "it" until after I had been cross-dressing for a while (I started at about 3 and noticed it about 5). I didn't know until my sister was born, when I was about 6, that girls didn't have one (yes, I was THAT sheltered). When I found out that girls didn't have one, I wanted to get rid of mine.

When I was 11, the testes dropped down, and I realized that meant that I was about to start Puberty. I did everything I could to push them back up as far as I could, but they kept coming down. When I had my first ejaculation, I was wearing pantihose and a teddy. and had tied my waist extra tight with stockings, so I couldn't get out. I hated the mess it made, and about an hour later noticed the smell. Yuck.

I wanted a sex change, but back in 1968-1972, I was told that I wouldn't be able to experience pleasure "down there" if I did. They hadn't yet worked out how to create a clitoris that had all those wonderful nerves.

When my voice dropped to bass, I just wanted to switch bodies entirely. Testosterone, which I didn't have until I was 11, was ruining my body. Eventually, I turned to drugs and booze, and attempted suicide several times (still not sure how I survived).

I kept on dressing, and kept it a very well kept secret. My mom found my stash a few times, but had no idea how much I liked to dress, or how much I wanted to change.

When I started having actual sex with a woman, and needed to wear a condom all the time, I became acutely aware of how small it was. Even erect it was only about 3 inches, and I often had to use a "ring" or rubber band to keep the condom from falling off.

Eventually, I got married, and was having sex more regularly. My wife said she was OK with my dressing, but after about 3 years, it was clear that she not only didn't like the dressing, she didn't like sex either.

After 9 years, my wife decided to marry her boyfriend, and I decided to get a vasectomy. I tried to get an orchiectomy, so that I could naturally transition, or at least wouldn't fight the hormones, but in Colorado, in 1991, this was considered medical malpractice. They wouldn't do it, even after I told them why I wanted it.

If I could trade "little willie" for a fully working clit and full breasts, and have all the hair permanently removed from my face and legs, and have it paid for, and done under sedation, I'd go for it in a heartbeat.

Over the last 50 years, I've been all over the spectrum. I've always considered myself a "Closet Transsexual" and tried to start the transition process several times, but consequences, such as loss of job, wife, and children, including visitation rights (but no change in Child Support and day-care payments to her husband) and possible career impacts made the price too high.

For many years, I just "settled" for being a cross-dresser, going out in public from about 1990 to 1995, almost every day, and stopped from 1996 to 1998 - when I gained over 150 lbs.
After I stroke and wrestling with my weight, I decided to let Debbie out more often, and lost 85 lbs in about a year.

These days, I often dress "girl below and under" and wear a man's dress shirt and coat - which create the illusion of dressing masculine, even though I'm wearing women's pants, shoes, knee highs or trouser socks, panties, a camisole, and earrings in both ears, as well as a feminine ring and women's watch (my wrist is too small for men's watches).

I'm not particularly fond of "little willy", but given the cost, pain, and time required for the alternative, none of which is covered by insurance, I just have to live with it.

[Vieja]

Throughout my life it has served me well but at my advanced age all it does is stretch my panties out of shape and rob me of the smooth contour I would love to have.


Vieja

[NatashaCD]

I love It.................................

[BillieJoEllen]

As Kate said above. We tend to get used to things. I guess I'm used to mine but I really don't like it. It has served its purpose with my SO but then again deep down inside I wish I had 'something else'.

[whowhatwhen]

When I was born, I didn't have testes, and I wasn't really aware of "it" until after I had been cross-dressing for a while (I started at about 3 and noticed it about 5). I didn't know until my sister was born, when I was about 6, that girls didn't have one (yes, I was THAT sheltered). When I found out that girls didn't have one, I wanted to get rid of mine.

When I was 11, the testes dropped down, and I realized that meant that I was about to start Puberty. I did everything I could to push them back up as far as I could, but they kept coming down. When I had my first ejaculation, I was wearing pantihose and a teddy. and had tied my waist extra tight with stockings, so I couldn't get out. I hated the mess it made, and about an hour later noticed the smell. Yuck.

I wanted a sex change, but back in 1968-1972, I was told that I wouldn't be able to experience pleasure "down there" if I did. They hadn't yet worked out how to create a clitoris that had all those wonderful nerves.

When my voice dropped to bass, I just wanted to switch bodies entirely. Testosterone, which I didn't have until I was 11, was ruining my body. Eventually, I turned to drugs and booze, and attempted suicide several times (still not sure how I survived).

I kept on dressing, and kept it a very well kept secret. My mom found my stash a few times, but had no idea how much I liked to dress, or how much I wanted to change.

When I started having actual sex with a woman, and needed to wear a condom all the time, I became acutely aware of how small it was. Even erect it was only about 3 inches, and I often had to use a "ring" or rubber band to keep the condom from falling off.

Eventually, I got married, and was having sex more regularly. My wife said she was OK with my dressing, but after about 3 years, it was clear that she not only didn't like the dressing, she didn't like sex either.

After 9 years, my wife decided to marry her boyfriend, and I decided to get a vasectomy. I tried to get an orchiectomy, so that I could naturally transition, or at least wouldn't fight the hormones, but in Colorado, in 1991, this was considered medical malpractice. They wouldn't do it, even after I told them why I wanted it.

If I could trade "little willie" for a fully working clit and full breasts, and have all the hair permanently removed from my face and legs, and have it paid for, and done under sedation, I'd go for it in a heartbeat.

Over the last 50 years, I've been all over the spectrum. I've always considered myself a "Closet Transsexual" and tried to start the transition process several times, but consequences, such as loss of job, wife, and children, including visitation rights (but no change in Child Support and day-care payments to her husband) and possible career impacts made the price too high.

For many years, I just "settled" for being a cross-dresser, going out in public from about 1990 to 1995, almost every day, and stopped from 1996 to 1998 - when I gained over 150 lbs.
After I stroke and wrestling with my weight, I decided to let Debbie out more often, and lost 85 lbs in about a year.

These days, I often dress "girl below and under" and wear a man's dress shirt and coat - which create the illusion of dressing masculine, even though I'm wearing women's pants, shoes, knee highs or trouser socks, panties, a camisole, and earrings in both ears, as well as a feminine ring and women's watch (my wrist is too small for men's watches).

I'm not particularly fond of "little willy", but given the cost, pain, and time required for the alternative, none of which is covered by insurance, I just have to live with it.

I would love for SRS to be a basic healthcare right within my lifetime, it sucks that there is so much opposition from ignorant "people" who find it easier to be insufferable pricks than educate themselves.

[Jessie29]

I wish I was a woman so badly. But I have to act like a man with my friends and family as the other side to me would not be accepted by them so even though it kills me to be a man thats the way ill be for a long time yet.

[kelsey52]

Yep love mine too, so do the girls and guys, everyone says the frosting is the best.

[IamSara]

it served it usefulness. have 4 kids and it has brought me pleasure. Have I particularly always enjoyed it NO. I have wished many a night that I would wake up a girl with all the girl parts.

[HannahF6]

I hope this isn't a second post, I think I wrote this once but something went wrong.

This question reminds me of a cartoon, a cartoon that is pretty funny really, but awefully accurate with 20:20 hindsight. A little boy is naked and carefully examining his testicles, then asks "Mommy are these my brains?" Mommy replies, "No, not yet."

I hate what these parts do to us. Some years ago I realised that testosterone was a drug that allowed half of the population of this planet to dominate the other half. Evidently, if this drug had been developed in a laboratory there would be illegal sales of testosterone for the dominant feelng it provides, and it would quickly be determined to be an illegal drug.

As a young teen I deeply wanted these controls to end and truly wished that I could rip the offending parts from my body. With age little willy and I have developed an accomodation, not always a happy one, but an accomodation none-the-less. I did get married and I do have two children, so willy has been exercised though my wife has told me that it has not been as often as she'd anticipated. That I think is OK with both of us, we are very good friends.

Had it been easy to lose the little guy long ago, it would not have been a hard decision. I am 65, such things are not easy now, and were distinctly less easy 50 years ago.

Hannah

[pickles]

Pretty much what others have said, I'm not crazy about it but I don't find the idea of having a pussy any better. The surgery's not there, still too many risks/side effects for me to consider it, and too many "it's just like having a real one but..." caveats, such as the fact that it can't produce its own lubrication. That'd drive me nuts.

If I could have both however....

Once I get on the right hormones for my brain it and the boys should soften and shrink into a cute little package, I hope :)

[MaryAnn40c]

I really wish I could rid of it for ever...its always in the way.

[lilith.comunera]

I love my boy parts, but I wish I could take off in times when its not as convenient or feel like being more girly.

[KIRA ANN]

I do love my boy part as well. They have been a good friend for a long time. All through like lilith above, it would be nice if one could take them off at times to feel more girly?

[wilt575]

Don' really care for it because it makes me a ******* insted of fe- that I really want to be have everything else needed except for outie insted of innie to feel and be complete. To bad I was'nt born intersexed could just wack it off.

[whowhatwhen]

caveats, such as the fact that it can't produce its own lubrication. That'd drive me nuts.


In all fairness neither does the other one...
And that still comes with it's own set of problems.

[Bree-asaurus]

Gonna chop half of it off next month! Will still have the more expensive half though :( :( :(

[whowhatwhen]

Gonna chop half of it off next month! Will still have the more expensive half though :( :( :(

Congrats!
You also get the side bonus of never having to worry about accidentally sitting on them, which SUCKS.

[morgan51]

Would like to have srs just as soon as possible, will probably have to settle for an orchi, soon I hope!

[jazmine]

it's ok. I don't hate it. I'm used to it......but i really do wish I had a vagina.

[Crossdresser500]

I love mine. I mean it is part of me. Sure it is a problem sometimes when I am dressing but just something to work around. And being able to hide it better make me feel like I am getting better at dressing :)

[NathalieX66]

In my earliest days of my forays into crossing the gender line, I can remember at the age of 17, that when the little one spoke up too much, I tried to douse him heavily with Anbesol tooth ache medication hoping I could shut him up so I could be a girl for a while......to my dissapointment, it didn't work.

[gabe]

I like my little guy.

[karigal1]

I've learned to deal with it, though I'm considering transitioning, hormones, and the more exciting stuff!

[Bree-asaurus]

Congrats!
You also get the side bonus of never having to worry about accidentally sitting on them, which SUCKS.

Luckily the 2 years of HRT has shrunk them to the point that it is no longer possible to do that :P

[whowhatwhen]

That makes me wonder about phantom limb pain...
If someone gets an orchi, can they get phantom testicle pain?

[Andria]

Sometimes I wish I could take it off and save it for another day. But its a part of me.