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flicka
09-09-2004, 03:34 PM
A recent question - which I did answer - enquired who is gay and who straight. There is much obfuscation in the responses, so I specifically now ask ... who has a male partner or male influencing their CD behaviour?

My inspiration for dressing has moved from years of closet fantasy to a very recent reality. He helps me with make-up, clothes selection, styles, jewellery etc. etc. We have a wonderful relationship, but unfortunately cannot cohabit permanently .... well, not yet anyway.

There must surely be other couples "out there" in similar situations, we would love to know how many and even exchange experiences and notes. Feel free to contact privately if you prefer.

Perhaps members generally may care to comment.

Amelie
09-09-2004, 05:38 PM
There's this guy I've been seeing lately. He doesn't really like my dressing, he is of the mindset, if your gay it should be man and man, no women. I feel different, in that I feel like a woman and not a man, I feel like a woman wanting a man. he definitly doesn't help in my dressing. We mostly hang out together, we laugh a lot, which I like. I enjoy the mushy stuff, the little things we do together. I wish it would be more serious, but for now I'm happy he is my friend and lends his shoulder when I need it.

Love Amelie

flicka
09-09-2004, 10:47 PM
Amelie
Most interested in your comments. Many gay men are very much male/male. I once donned a pair of black lace tops in a gay sauna and never was so isolated in my life!
I hope your male friend expands, and accepts you, to discover the lovely person within. My partner, John, realised there was another person within me who cried for release. His love for me, his perception and understanding, all contributed to a realisation of my dreams and needs. Love is an involvement of understanding each other ,and fulfilling their needs in a shared life. I do so wish that you can realise your ambitions with this man. It sounds to me that you are going down the right track. Good luck, Amelie My thoughts are with you.

Charlette
09-09-2004, 11:47 PM
I think I understand your situation----however perhaps not as much as I should.
The reason I am saying that is that I have both a female partner and male partners.
I am committed to crossdressing and in my femininity in all situations and always wear my feminine clothing while having sex(lingerie).
While I enjoy my female partner;I must admit that I enjot my male partners more.

Love, Charlette

geronto2
09-10-2004, 06:10 PM
Well Ficka I think you are a very lucky I wish I had some one to make me up.

lots of lov

geronto xoxoxox

geronto2
09-16-2004, 03:27 AM
Hi! Flicka I suppose we all have a partner, as a C/D it realy depends on your mind set, (I'm a widower with three sons ) and no doubt you may have a family, you have never said, If your mind set is that of a fem then it is only natural that you should want a male partner, for that period of time when you are in that state of mind, when you revert to your normal style of life,you will be as you were, SO DO I HAVE A PARTNER OF THE SAME SEX!!!!!
WELL...... THE ANSWER IS..........Y E S are there any other G out there that can relate?? AND WHAT DO YOU DO!!!!!!! When you are thinking !!!!

lots of lov

your G

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