Changes and Feelings

[linda allen]

For those of you following my latest story: http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?170479-Changes-at-the-Allen-Household

I'm now wearing bras and panties every day, all day (underdressing) and have my own in my dresser, as well as stretch shorts, girl jeans and shorts, and nightgowns. My wife is fine with this and provided most of the clothes. I wear the bras, panties, and jeans in public with a male shirt.

My point in posting is, I've noticed a big change in my feelings and attitude. For one thing, I no longer have the desire to wear forms, wig, dress and go out in public that I had before (not that I could anyway because my wife isn't going out of town anytime soon. I'm content just to underdress.

The other change is in my general attitude. I feel like a much nicer person now. I help with the housework, wash my dishes instead of just leaving them for my wife to pick up, open the door for her, and am much nicer to her friends. I'm even looking forward to visiting her family out of town this week.

I'm constantly telling my wife how much I love her.

It's hard to believe the changes, it's almost like I'm taking a "nice" drug. I love it. I'm not going back to my old self. :)

[anonymousinmaryland]

I know what it's like to "go through the change: get dressed and feel like a whole different person." It's a great feeling. And good for you. I also go through stages where I have to do this, or I want to do that. Or try this. Best wishes.

[ronda]

i agree you feel much better when you get up in the morning and put on your bra panties heels and house coat then sit and have your coffee just makes my day start off on a good note. the change in yourself is amazing HAPPY

[Being Paige]

I use to have to go all out before going out, there are times now that I will throw on a pair of skinny jeans and a top and out I go with maybe some foundation on and lip gloss.

[Foxglove]

The other change is in my general attitude. I feel like a much nicer person now. I help with the housework, wash my dishes instead of just leaving them for my wife to pick up, open the door for her, and am much nicer to her friends. I'm even looking forward to visiting her family out of town this week.

I'm constantly telling my wife how much I love her.



If word gets around about this, GG's might start requiring us to CD!

Well done, Linda.

Best wishes, Annabelle

[Julie Martin]

Women are much nicer than men! With me the female persona is more like a character I assume. When I become Julie it's an all out effort, like stepping into a role, including dress, mannerisms, attitude, and interaction with others, which is fun and a challenge. The rest of the time (most of the time), I'm probably guilty of the typical guy behaviors that GG's roll their eyes at!

[kimdl93]

I do think that allowing oneself to express your CDing in some manner, particularly with a degree of acceptance from the SO, has a positive impact on behavior. Repression seems to contribute to a more angry, tempermental demeaner. In my experience, however, the ability to underdress or wear women's items only whetted my apetite for more.

[RADER]

Linda;
I am much the same as you; My wife does not want me to going out of the house dressed.
But I do under dress as often as possible. Like you, I am wearing panties, a bra with out forms,
and my Fem jeans from Lane Bryant. And my drab shirt.
When doing House work, i sometimes wear a skirt or a dress, just makes doing house work
a little more enjoyable, If that is possible. Since my wife is somewhat disabled, All the house
chores is on me, so I might as well be com-fee.
Rader