wife was too accepting or was she I don't know?

[Gerrijerry]

I always believed that I was a CD from an age before I can remember. My wife new before she have very little problem with it. After the kids were grow and out of the house my wife told me that. She actually felt I made a better female then a male and insisted I was TS. From then on the part time dressing went slowly to full time except for work. She helped me to look more and more feminine until three years ago after going to a salon with her she had told me to just let the hairdresser do what was needed to be done. My hair was colored highlighted styled my eyebrows were waxed. Of course I was dressed as a woman at the time. I left there looking the best I have ever looked. once home I realized that I totally looked like a woman. Even without the makeup I looked totally feminine. It was decided that I would go full time from that day on. Yes Even at work I was fully dressed 24/7. After that She suggested hormones. A year later I had small breasts and the effects of the hormones had helped to feminize me a lot more. Finally I had my surgery and have been a total woman since then. Yes I am still happy about the way I am, we are still married, but I do wonder what would I have done had I not meet my wife. I write this because I always read about so many that want an accepting wife. I just wonder how many are not ready for real acceptance.

[JessHaust]

Wow! sounds almost too god to be true.

[Badtranny]

Wow! sounds almost too good to be true.

LOL!

Gosh, I wonder what happened when some friends came over?

[Marleena]

When I first read this it looked like a story from a forced feminization site. If your wife coaxed you along and you wanted this then it's great! You have an exceptional wife.:)

[BRANDYJ]

Sounds like a fantasy story to me. If any of this is true, there must be a lot more to it then the way it was presented. Very much embellished in my opinion. A wife forcing, coaxing or desiring a 24/7 CD or TS husband? Got my doubts.

[Gillian Gigs]

Sounds like the question is, are you what you want to be, or are you what your wife wants you to be? Are you both still close? Are both of you happy? Every ones defination of acceptance is different, are you happy with your choices?

[Beverley Sims]

Before I make up my mind I would like to read more. You have already posted a lot on here so I am curious about the skepticism of others.

[nancigirl]

Hi Gerri, I got to know you via our private correspondence a while back, as well as from your many postings on this forum. Thanks for posting this concise summary of the major events in your life over the past several years. I can't understand why so many of the replies seem so skeptical about the veracity of your story. You have been straightforward about everything from the time you started posting to the forum.
I hope you and your wife are doing well and enjoying retirement.
Best Regards,
Nancy

[Cynthia Anne]

Too many times a story that's sounds to good to be true is not true! But, I can beleave this one to be true unless someone can prove otherwise! All I can say is I wish it could of been me! I envy you! Hugs!

[Shawnc]

It is true. My wife is sitting right here next to me as I am in my dress!

[ReineD]

How did your boss and coworkers react to you showing up dressed at work, and what type of industry was it? Are you retired now and what did you do for work?

Where did you get your hormones? Did you seek gender counseling and did you see an endo, or did you self medicate? What hormones do you take, exactly?

Also, how are your children reacting to this and do they have kids? Are they OK with you dressing around your grandchildren?

[Tina B.]

I do feel I have total acceptance, I pretty much dress as often as I like. My wife will be the one, to suggest that I should take the time to change into something "pretty", often. The difference, is I have no desire to take it as far as you have. If I did, I think there is a good chance, at this point in life, she would say, if it's what you need, do it.
I'm glad you found suck a great women, being accepted for who you are is the best feeling there is.
Tina B.

[kimdl93]

You are a very fortunate person. Its wonderful that your wife has been so supportive - obviously, she was and remains in love with the person inside. Very best wishes to both of you.

[Barbara Ella]

I truly hope you are who you really want to be right now, and have not been coerced into complying with a wife's wishes on something you had not thought about. As it stands you are one lucky woman to have a wife this accepting and insightful. The number of wives who would encourage their husband to do this is small, but the number who would stay with the person they love as a woman is even much more smaller.

Please give your wife a hug.

Barbara

[Janelle_C]

You make it sound like it was so easy. You don't talk about how your kids felt about you becoming a woman. Was your work okay with it? I think it's great that your wife is so supportive, it sounds like you got your cake and got to eat it to. That's what I would like but I don't see the fairy tail ending for me. But I'm truly happy for you and your wife. Hugs, Janelle

[Jill Devine]

The poster has been with the site 5+ years with a thousand posts. So we shouldn't be too skeptical. I think she basically just summarized her life on one page.

[DonnaT]

Yes I am still happy about the way I am, we are still married, but I do wonder what would I have done had I not meet my wife.
I believe you would have found someone else to take the lead in feminizing you. You did it in your teens, did you not?
Yes, you managed to get married without telling her, but once you did, things took a turn you seem to like, being led. IMHO ;)

Had she not lead you into transitioning, I think you would have remained a CDer, if that was as much acceptance she would have had.

[Alice B]

That is the ultimate in total acceptance. Everyone is different, so not all of us could let things go that far. But there are many here that would jump at the chance. Will lookforward to seeing some shots of the new you.

[candicd]

This was the short version to your life. Good for you finding yourself. Life is a journey. We do better to glide down the slope instead of race straight down. You went with the stream of life and are living. Every day is an adventure. Enjoy it.

-Candi

[Jenniferathome]

I don't see this as acceptance by her but acceptance by you into something she wanted. Of course, this sounds like a fantasy story and not reality.