Feeling Natural

[Deann Renee]

Do you all find that the more you go out the more natural it feels. Yesterday I went to the next town over and got a pedi and an eyebrow wax. I used to be terrified but it was more natural. There was another gg getting her nails done and it didn't bother me. Another gg came into the room when I was getting my eyebrows waxed and didn't give a second look. Left the nail salon went by Palais Royal walked through the store but couldn't find anything I liked, went back home and did my office work while en_femme. What a good day just felt natural.

[kimdl93]

I have found that I'm more at ease and that I suppose derives from a confidence in my appearance and a growing awareness that people really don't care - they go about thier business and let me go about my own.

[suchacutie]

Since the very first time as Tina for me was when I was 55, I distinctly remember what it was like to put on feminine attire for that first time knowing absolutely NOTHING! :) Everything was discovery and uncertain.

The more we do anything, the more we become comfortable and familiar.

Now I just wish I could contour my makeup better and with confidence, and feel more natural with word usage! What a change in 6 years!

tina

[Being Paige]

Yes, It certainly does feel more natural as time goes by.

[Cheryl T]

Yes, every time I step out the door it's more and more natural.
At first it was very scary, then it was a rush, then it was a tingle, now it's just me going somewhere.

[Cynthia Anne]

I have gotten' so use to shopping in fem and going to the doctor that way I think nothing of it at all! Seems very natural to me! Hugs!

[Kate Simmons]

Yep and even if we are away from it for awhile for whatever reason, it's kind of like learning to ride a bike, we never forget how.;):battingeyelashes::)

[AllieSF]

I go out a lot and instead of more natural, I will call it more comfortable. Now it is almost routine.

[Paulette]

Going out is all about do it with some regularity so that you become comfortable in your own skin which makes you less visible to others. Once you go out a lot you will notice that it is more of a non-event and it is merely you doing what needs to be done , shopping for clothes, food, or for that matter even the hardware store. Being your female self you learn how to act and react to situations you face as female would.

[DeeJayGram]

Have been dressing and being girl for some time now, i find my self doing girly stuff while in guy mode.

[Deann Renee]

Your answers are exactly how I feel. It is more comfortable the more you go out. I don't get near as scared anymore when out en-femme. I have had a few people look at me but they don't stare or say anything, the more confident you are the more passable you are.

[Alice B]

Very much so. When I go in for a pedi and mani, and waxing I'm totally at ease now. I talk to other women and men there without fear or guilt. I can even carry on a normal conversation with men that are just coming in for a haircut. Sure they see what I'm having done, but that is as far as it goes.

[Deann Renee]

haven't mastered the conversations yet, my voice just don't sound too fem. Hopefully one day I can.