Caught by neighbor

[joank]

Now I'm out to alot of folks but not my neigbors until now. I just was back from shopping and went to check the front door for a package at exactly the same time Lisa walked aroung the corner or the wall (sunken door). I said "you caught me " and she said "is that really you?" She has observed me from a distance (some of my dressing) but has never said anything (but not 2 feet off my nose).

She then asked 'why do you do this' an I said 'because I want to' I then asked for this to be our little secret.

The funny or strange part is I am not upset, nervous or any of the reactions I thought I would have from this kind of chance discovery.

Something happen like this to any of you and what were the consequences? BTW my SO is accepting in the privacy of our home but not out and about.

[I was wearing a black skirt, yellow top, yellow wedge heel canvas espadrilles, full makeup and wig. ]

[Chari]

Your neighbor may have first been attracted to your cute (sounding) outfit, then noticed it was you! Great that neither of you got upset, and IMO you handled the situation with class! Perhaps she is more accepting and open to helping your feminine side than you think. Would she be willing to be a consultant to help in choosing clothing, makeup, etc.? All she can do is say "No".

[kimdl93]

Yes, I'm out to several neighbors. The first was a bit of a surprise, because my wife invited a neighbor lady to join us on the patio for a glass of wine. I was fully en femme, and not given a warning! I survived and it turned out that my neighbor already had seen me through the fence a few times. The second accidental outing was in the parking lot of the local grocery...a young woman and her kids that live next door happened to be walking from their car just as I got out of mine. She was a bit surprised, but very friendly and encouraging. The other "outings" were more deliberate...I just walked out the front door, got the mail and encountered another neighbor...rather than dash back in the house, I walked up to her and we visited for maybe 10 minutes.

[Cynthia Anne]

When you accept yourself for who you are you don't get upset overthings like that! Rather your neighbor keeps 'your' secret or not, keep smiling and your head in the air! Be proud of who you are! Hugs!

[STACY B]

When you accept yourself for who you are you don't get upset overthings like that! Rather your neighbor keeps 'your' secret or not, keep smiling and your head in the air! Be proud of who you are! Hugs!

Great Advice ,,, Me too ,,,Its all about you and your situation,,,Everyones different for there own reasons its not that bad once your out in all in your head ,,HUR,, RAY ,, Im Free ,,,, Your Free ,,We all can be if ya wanna be ...

[joank]

Lisa (neighbor) came back about a half hour later, confirmed it was not a big deal to her and she came in for ice tea and a 20 minte visit. We talked about alot of stuff, mostly me and acceptance and said I looked 'hot'. We laughed about that and she then said I looked very acceptable. Life can be very good sometimes.

[katie_barns]

The funny or strange part is I am not upset, nervous or any of the reactions I thought I would have from this kind of chance discovery.

I have been there done that. Only, I was outted at work by a co-worker with pictures of me. I was devastated until I found out that most didn't care. After that I wasn't mad but almost satified, knowing others knew. A really unexpected and strange feeling. So I know what you mean.

[dominique]

Yes it happened to me a few weeks ago. She was very non plussed about me dressed. Said it was none of her business. Yes we still get on after this.

[Lorileah]

I don't throw it in my neighbors' faces, but I am sure they know. I doubt any really care. I am still one of the first to help when they need it. That's what neighbors are for (and keeping secrets:))

[Raina G]

I have been caught, it's hard not too when I go out in the late morning if I have the day off of work, it is not a big deal, I still get along fine with them.

[AndreaSC]

No, I have not been caught as of yet, but my question to joank is, have you told your SO yet and if so what did she say or if NOT, will you tell her? BTW, LOVE the sound of your outfit!!! :)

[Miriam-J]

I'm glad you had the second conversation as it provided a much better opportunity to establish a mutual understanding and trust. If she hadn't stopped by it would have been good for you to stop by, in male mode, to discuss. Now you'd better make sure your wife is in the loop.

Miriam

[lingerieLiz]

I'm sure most of my neighbors know. I've been out to get the paper with gown and robe on only to have the wind blow the robe open and show my long black nightgown as a neighbor down the street walked by. She knew me just said hi as she walked by. I've gone over to one neighbor to help her with moving something only to have her ask me to take my shoes off before walking on her just cleaned carpet. So I took off my girly sandles and displayed my bright red toenails. It didn't suprise her because I had on a tight fitting stretchy top that clearly displayed my bra and the girls projection. I answer the door with whatever I have on too.

[cathie pantyhose]

I walk around the outside of my house quite often in a black skirt or go for a run in a pair of womans running shorts (cut shorter than men's) and even work on the laptop in the backyard dressed en fem. We just bought our house here in January and I'll be damned if I'm not going to enjoy the spring and summer the way I want to. Nothing beats a cool rocky mountain breeze up a skirt or dress. If they know oh well, I dont flaunt it

[joank]

Andrea,
Lisa asked that I not share the contact with my SO at this time. She said she would not want this to get in the way of her freindship with both of us. I have to respect that request to hold her confidence. Thanks for the comment on the outfit. The girls as Sally's Beauty Supply Like it as well.
Joan

[joank]

Neighbor Lisa was just over again today (bearing gifts, eggs and berries). She expressed how happy she is to have my trust in the dressing catagory. BTW, she is enthusiastic about everthing so this is no different. Anyway, we talked fora bit and I complimented her on the cover-up she had on (heading for the beach). She checked me out and although this is house cleaning day, she said I looked good. Navy skort, navy sandles, white t-top with white flowered SS shirt, full makeup and wig and coordinated accessories (which I try to do each time I dress). She was over on Sat. as well but I was in drab doing 'guy' things. We joked aroung then too. Nice to have a GG friend who is accepting and supportive.

[rian]

To be cought offgard is bad and dangerous ,,in my envirement...I take tons of precaucious measures...et I hope you gained more confidence to go public next time ...to me it is impossible to go public...