what a great day

[xcross23x]

i have been cd for about 6 months or so now. i have been shopping a few times and found it really hard i was extremly nervous and scared to go into shops and buy clothes. yesterday i went to town and found myself in the same situation again, scared and nervous but wheni finally pluck up the courage to go into the shop something happened that i cant just cant explain, all my nervous vanished and i was totaly comfertable. it was amazing:) to be able to shop without the worrie and nervous was the best feeling ever:) cant wait to go shopping again

ps: sorry for the spelling i a have dyslexia

[Tina B.]

Welcome to the shoppers club, I remember standing in front of stores trying to get up the nerve to go in! Walking around the mall, and going home without even looking at the things that got there in the first place, and the thrill of finally saying "what the f**k go for it" I tell true though, getting over that barrier has cost me an arm and a leg. I think it took a couple of years for me to slow down once i got started, every trip just got easier and more fun, and then when SA,s start telling you how good you put things together, and what a lucky lady your wife is for you buying her all that nice stuff, it makes you want to shop till you drop, which I have done a time or two.
Tina B.

[deebra]

This transition from scared to comfortable happened to me a long time ago, the sales people won't bite you and if they direct a slur to you they just might loose their job, it should make sense to them to help you in anyway they can so you'll spend more money which makes their job more secure. If they offer help and you are uncomfortable or afraid they will read you that the female clothing is for you then just tell them you don't need help and you will keep browsing. It's normal for women to shop in the men's department all the time to buy their husbands his clothes, underwear, socks, etc. but most men are extremenly uncomfortable shopping for bras and panties and womens clothing in the women's department. I think it's really cool to do so, I enjoy entering this area where both sexes think this is a" woman only domain", truth is the women are very pleasant and are interested in what they are looking at and pretty much ignore you. At this stage of my life I have gained the confidence to look them in the eye and say these are for me, not my wife, I enjoy wearing them. xcross23x keep shopping and enjoying, it's your right.

[Chari]

We all have had fears of doing something new in our "normal" routine of life that may hold us back, but once that first small step is taken on the long adventure, you will begin to enjoy the facets of your feminine side, wondering "why didn't I do it all sooner?"