April Lyn
06-01-2012, 06:36 PM
Hi All, First I wanted to share that I went to my first therapy session on the 30th. What a great experience, I really bonded well with the therapist and felt quite comfortable talking, which is quite a rare thing for me, although I’m fast discovering that my Femme side is where 99% of my self confidence and assertion is. The first time really is just a lot of paper work and brief getting to know each other time to determine if it’s a mutual good fit, which I strongly feel that it is, so look for more updates there after the next session.
My other update, and the one with all of the questions, I’m now out to my Mother!!! I’m not sure exactly how well it’s being received, and mainly since I don’t think that she has any idea what exactly imp talking about. She first spoke with my Wife who helped me with breaking that ice after I tried unsuccessfully several times. when she talked with my wife she was very supportive and caring ( and my wife was great about it too), but when my Mother spoke with me it was more of a "do you understand what your doing to your family?" thing, and an "are you just jealous of your sister?" she also said that she never suspected any issues with me growing up at all and this is quite a surprise to her. So my questions; has anyone else here had a difficult time coming out to their mother? I have read a lot of "coming out to Mom" posts here and they all seem pretty positive. Is mine unique? Also is it common for a parent/Mother to have had no idea about a child's TG/TS feelings and be shocked at it, or do they more commonly seem to have known all along? I am 37 and have been like this since roughly age four. I feel that this part of myself has always made me keep my mother at arms length and therefore have not had the close relationship I could have had. Any similar experiences out there?
Hugs, April :straightface:
My other update, and the one with all of the questions, I’m now out to my Mother!!! I’m not sure exactly how well it’s being received, and mainly since I don’t think that she has any idea what exactly imp talking about. She first spoke with my Wife who helped me with breaking that ice after I tried unsuccessfully several times. when she talked with my wife she was very supportive and caring ( and my wife was great about it too), but when my Mother spoke with me it was more of a "do you understand what your doing to your family?" thing, and an "are you just jealous of your sister?" she also said that she never suspected any issues with me growing up at all and this is quite a surprise to her. So my questions; has anyone else here had a difficult time coming out to their mother? I have read a lot of "coming out to Mom" posts here and they all seem pretty positive. Is mine unique? Also is it common for a parent/Mother to have had no idea about a child's TG/TS feelings and be shocked at it, or do they more commonly seem to have known all along? I am 37 and have been like this since roughly age four. I feel that this part of myself has always made me keep my mother at arms length and therefore have not had the close relationship I could have had. Any similar experiences out there?
Hugs, April :straightface: