I just went on YouTube and typed in Crossdressers. I wish I hadn’t.

[suzy1]

I found horrible video’s of crossdressers trying to look sexy.
I am still a bit naïve I suppose.

The really good thing about it is coming home. To come back to this site that’s so clean and nice.
Doing that really helps you appreciate this site.
Thanks girls. I appreciate you even more!

Suzy still learning.

[Gizmo, Debbie]

Yup. I been there and done that, looking at "crossdressers" on Youtube. Sure you get the odd nice video and the odd helpfull video on make up and stuff but the hard part is finding the good stuff in amoungst the drivvel.

[NicoleScott]

Some people (crossdressers are people, too) march to a different drum.

[Sophia Claire]

yeah, it's a bit depressing. There are a couple of good ones, though. Granted, they're mostly of younger people, but they're still not too bad.

I hesitated to put any on here because in some I think her feminine voice is awful her wig looks ridiculous, and she's not that convincing, but for those of us (such as myself) still unconvinced that we could ever pass, there is proof in the transforming power of makeup and fake hair. Plus, her eyebrows are natural. GTFO!! I personally appreciate that because I don't think it looks good to have your orbital ridge bare and poking out (hair grows there for a reason, ladies). I also find that the women that men find most attractive tend to have natural eyebrows, just well managed. And it's so easy to go overboard! Taylor Swift is an excellent example. VERY pretty girl. But she keeps her eyebrows arched so high that it looks a little weird. Just my opinion.

And I'm off my soapbox.

[kimdl93]

its a mixed bag. There are a few CDrs who post informative and entertaining videos - even a few who look incredible (in a good way). I do appreciate the decorum shown by the members....sometimes with a little reinforcement from the mods ;)

[Stephanie47]

I've found some decent cross dressing clips on YouTube. Some are for refining a person's presentation. Many are just plain fooling around. You get what you pay for! :) I also review some of the ladies on Flickr. What you get on the Internet is a wide range of material. That's why I suggest, if you are going to tell your wife to research cross dressing on the Internet, you do not tell her to just key in 'cross dressing.' There's a lot of gross porn out there.

[RADER]

I have seen a few nice video's and I have seen some "Drag queen" type that is not very nice to watch.
But that is the World Wide Web for you.
Rader

[Eryn]

Type in just about any topic on YouTube and you'll find people behaving badly. Camera on, Common sense off. That's the penalty for having the freedom to post just about anything they want.

OTOH there are some amazing videos out there. Just like diamonds, you have to process a lot of worthless rock to find them.

[Maria 60]

It really is a shame that if someone has any interest in learning about crossdressing and they end up on some of those flickr or site's that only show pic of crossdressers with there you know what hanging out, they would get a real bad impression of what we are really all about. Nothing like that.

[whowhatwhen]

It really is a shame that if someone has any interest in learning about crossdressing and they end up on some of those flickr or site's that only show pic of crossdressers with there you know what hanging out, they would get a real bad impression of what we are really all about. Nothing like that.

Well...
Some people do crossdress for sexual reasons, and it's not any less legitimate than just going out for a stroll.

People should know by now the internet is loaded with penises, thousands upon thousands of penises.
Wait, where was I going with that...

Anyway, anyone getting a bad impression of a group of people from a shallow internet search isn't worthwhile anyway.

[darla_g]

Well...


People should know by now the internet is loaded with penises, thousands upon thousands of penises.
Wait, where was I going with that...



i was wondering too? jk

[whowhatwhen]

I'm not a fan of my winkie, but I'll defend to the death their right to be a fan of theirs!
- Benjamin Franklin

[Jilmac]

I've never seen crossdressers on youtube, and I don't think I want to. If it's anything like the over-the-top sensationalism we see in the tabloids, I'll stick with this forum.

[darla_g]

Let's just say that people who post videos on youtube tend to be more exhibitionist and that of course would be true for CDs too.

[Suzy Parker]

If you want to find out how to get latex paint to bond to stucco you could always do a search for "Latex Bondage"


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9R-2X9Bl5w

[Cynthia Anne]

Suzy! Keep repeating; There's no place like home! There's no place like home! Hugs!

[Xrys]

Unfortunately, I went to Youtube before finding this site. Everyting I found on youtube was extreme in one sense or another. I did find lots of information on makeup, but it was that super heavy, dramatic, Drag look. Idont want to be dramatic, or super sexy, or a bombshell, I just want to be cute. So I gave up on youtube and came here. More content, and less filler.

Thank you all for your support and advice,

Xrys (pronounced like Kris)

[NathalieX66]

With the exception of Jessica Who, who is a member of this forum, and also very funny :thumbsup:, I have no interest in these other videos about crossdressers.....with the exception of Captain Crossdresser cartoon.
Those who are documenting their status of transitioning, and at various stages (HRT, FFS, SRS), do interest me because they are real people who are living and experiencing real life, and I want to hear their stories.

[Barbara Ella]

I have only been looking/thinking about crossdressing for 9 months, and when I realized what i was, it was shocking to me what I found. I was just so lucky to find this forum very shortly after my awakening. We are a very lucky group of girls here. I thank you all so much.

Barbara

[JessHaust]

Like everything in life, there are extreme versions of everything, from rleigon to politics, to sports fans to crossdressers. Try to remember that not all football games ( yes I mean the one you actually play with your foot) end in fans being crushed. Not all cross dressers act like fools, but the extremes rise to the top of our awareness, they represent a small minority of our population.
And yes, there are shining examples of wonderful people who happento be drossdressers, you just have to find them. Jessica Who is one, Amnesia Sparkles is another. Ignoer the trash and look for the gems.

[Wildaboutheels]

ALL CDers are Human.

ALL Humans are unique.

The end.

[docrobbysherry]

OMG, Suzy! U mean there's actually ANOTHER site for crossdressers besides this one? Who knew? Those interested better check it out now! It'll likely be closed down soon!

[Chazity]

I know the feeling, its just that you are new and didn't know that this could be a fetish. :(....I'm a little new so it was kinda a shocker to see people in dress with there junk in hand .......not that I think. That its wrong just not for me. You can find ladies where. You live you just have to be patient. Try going to yahoo and search groups you might find what you're. Look for .....keep your head up

[Noemi]

I have scanned the web too. Oh I am on this computer way too much.

IMHO youtube waters down the talent. Anyone can post on there, thus piles and piles of drivel. There are some beautiful Tran sexual women advertising for porn sites(not that I ever look at them, wink, wink, nudge, nudge, tilt of the head)

It is phenomenal that every piece of music you ever wanted to hear is on YT, that is great, but all the amatuer postings are very bad, including of course the cd'ers.

A real cd'er would not care so much about being seen on you tube as they are always dressing, there is no need for internet documentation.

[Foxglove]

I'm not a fan of my winkie, but I'll defend to the death their right to be a fan of theirs!
- Benjamin Franklin

I thought this was Voltaire.

Don't worry, Suzy. Always remember this: whatever good idea you have, at least a million people have had it before you. And whatever bad idea you have, at least a billion people have had it before you.

YLS, Annabelle

[StaceyJane]

Since I've got about 50 crossdressing videos on youtube I would like to think mine are pretty good. I try to show myself in interesting places to show it's okay to go crossdressed.

[sterling12]

So, should we start a Campaign where we demand that any site on The Web that features, or shows pictures of T-People also runs a PROMINENT DISCLAIMER, right at The Beginning of The Home Page:

"Transgendered People represent A Spectrum of behaviors and clothing choices. Individuals on these pages who are hairy, slothful, fat and ugly, wearing only panties with their willies sticking out, DO NOT represent all of the individuals who would call themselves transgendered. For more information about "Tasteful TG Women," click on this link or go to _____ _____." "And, we thank you for your participation!"

We will have to start A Public Relations Campaign, (Go on Nightline, and stuff like that) but it's possible to get this done! Course' it's likely that very few people are going to click on Those Links. It's just possible, that "Hairy Guys in Panties" is exactly what they want!

Peace and Love, Joanie

[whowhatwhen]

I can't say I agree with trying to sweep the fact that transgender people have sex (sometimes even sex with the same gender!) under the rug.
We're all human and there is no race/gender/sexuality barrier to posting your junk online.

If someone makes an assumption about us by stumbling upon a porn site then they're going to be useless anyway.

[Alice Torn]

I have over 250 videos on Youtube, now, under longtallcdlady. I don't get a lot of response, but when i do it is usually positive.

[Angiemead12]

I got a few videos on youtube too, last time I posted it was taken down for being to revealing! :P

[KateSpade83]

I didn't find a Youtube crossdresser search so bad; what's bad are those Craigslist crossdressers that advertise for gay sex.

[whowhatwhen]

I didn't find a Youtube crossdresser search so bad; what's bad are those Craigslist crossdressers that advertise for gay sex.

Why?
They're consenting adults and some consenting adults want some hot mansex.

There is nothing wrong with that, and I don't think anyone curious about transgender issues is checking the M4M section for detailed information.

[Tina B.]

Suzy, you have to be more specific, Instead of typing in cross dresser, try something like transformations, many CD's doing make up, or walking in 5"heels, many CD's like those tall shoes! But some of them are not that wholesome, your right about that. That's why after all these years, this is the only CD site I go to except on rare occasion. All you need to know about cross dressing, can be found here, or at least here, someone will send you in the right direction no matter what you are looking for.
Tina B.

[suzy1]

I am impressed Dalena!

Well done girl with all the YouTube videos.

Hugs.

[Katie83]

Whilst i agree that there is a lot of cd related videos on youtube i have no interest in watching. There are some very good ones.
Search for Jessyfanto. She is a cd, all her videos are of her dancing to pop music. She is very good, she's very convincing and the videos are well choreographed etc. She's also gorgeous. I'm so jealous...
Katie

[Beverley Sims]

Generally for me You Tube supplies some relevant music and uses up my bandwidth.

[Dalena]

I am impressed Dalena!

Well done girl with all the YouTube videos.

Hugs.
thanks:) glad i could help

[Krististeph]

I actually found these videos useful... These give me excellent examples of how not to dress, how not to use makeup, how not to behave.

Helps me from going too far: i would never want to look like that.

[Kaz]

Hey Suzy, have faith... yeah there are weirdos out there, but then are these other weirdos like us!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Suzy, Be careful what you wish for.
I've mistyped ((crossdressers fourm)) and got some weird sites.

[Nicole Erin]

There are a lot of idiots posting pure crap on youtube. If you search "transsexual" on youtube you get a whole host of TS who feel the need to ramble on mindlessly about their progress. Not even coherantly but something like -

Uhh then I like uhh, went to uhh, the store and this woman was looking at me funny and uhhh, I don't get why people, uhhh, like why they are so rude. Then uhh I went to my hormone doctor and uhhh... ...and here are my 38 triple D boobies after 14 months on hormones (completely flat chest showing)

Or maybe it is a sappy song and photos of some dude becoming a woman after some traumatic event like his emo girlfriend dumped him for whoever.

For real though, search "transsexual" on youtube and you will see REAL annoyances

[NathalieX66]

The only thing I like on youtube is jessica-who, a few other cd'ers , and those who post their (ffs, grs,) transitions online. That's about it.

[Amy Fakley]

The only thing I like on youtube is jessica-who

Jessica Who ... I second this.
I completely randomly encountered one of her "Vickie Vigoda" videos a year or so ago ... I was in such a painful, depressed place at the time, and it was like ... I couldn't stop laughing. It was so funny and uplifting.

I gots love for Jessica Who :-)

but yeah there's some really awful stuff on the youtubes, too.

[Ava Tryptyk]

Search for Jessyfanto. She is a cd, all her videos are of her dancing to pop music. She is very good, she's very convincing and the videos are well choreographed etc. She's also gorgeous. I'm so jealous...
Katie
She's awesome! Not only is she a great dresser but she's quite a talented video editor. I'd love to be able to make videos look that smooth and fluid-looking.
I find that YouTube isn't a great source for looking at crossdressers. Most of them use low-quality cameras and don't show their face, and are doing it only for sexual reasons. I'm more interested in people who are willing to talk about things, discuss and give tips. I like VeraWylde - she has been giving a series of crossdressing tips for beginners.

[erickka]

Hey Suzy... I know what you mean. There is a plethora of really trashy stuff like what you are speaking of on YouTube. There is a lot of narrow minded mockery of the LGBT folks on there, and unfortunately that helps to proliferate those opinions of us that we must endure. That is the reason I also come back here....Great people, caring and compassion, and a sense of family.