Mia001
11-14-2005, 04:47 PM
Hi everyone,
A few weeks ago i was talking with my best friend and she said something during the conversation which made me think she had sussed about my crossdressing. I didn't say anything at the time and, as it turns out, it was a totally innocent comment.
Well, I thought, if she suspects something then maybe I should say. A combination of losing my nerve and not seeing an appropriate opening in a conservation meant that I didn't say anything for a couple of weeks. We were in the pub on the Sunday afternoon for a quick drink on our way into town and we got chatting and when my chance came I dropped the fact that I crossdress into the conversation real casual like :cool: NOT. I kept on with the rest of what I was saying and she let me finish. I knew she wouldn't freak out or anything as she's really open minded and really accepting of other people but I was still really worried about what she's think or how she might be with me.
Well, it turns out she was really cool with it. She said she had seen something on my PC a long while back which had made her think I might be crossdressing but, as I'd never said anything over time, she's put it to the back of her mind and eventually dismissed it. She said it's not really a big deal and if I enjoy it then why not as it's perfectly harmless.
Needless to say we had a long chat and never made it into town. She really went out of her way to make me feel comfortable talking to her about crossdressing, was really supportive and made it very easy one me.
We went into town the next day and were going through the lingerie section of a clothes shop when she turned to me and said "Well, do you see anything you like? Coz if you do just let me know and I'll take it up to the cash desk for you". I was really pleasantly surprised but, Sod's Law, I couldn't see anything remotely nice and had to say so. I could've kicked myself but I didn't want to take soemething just for the sake of it. She said she wasn't keen on any of herself but, if I did see something when we were out anytime just to say.
She also said, though, that my timing's crap and that If I'd said before Hallowe'en then we could have got dressed up and gone out. She did say we can do it next year though.
I was always of the opinion that unless people really needed to know for some reason then there was no need to tell them. I saw crossdressing as private for me and kept it to myself thinking that there was no real reason to come out to anyone about it. I'm so glad we did talk about it. I never thought she would let me down. I'm just really impressed with how supportive she has been and that she made such an effort to make sure that I was alright when I'd just have been happy if she'd said "Oh right" and never mention it again. She showed herself to be a really good friend and made me feel lucky I had someone like her to talk to.
Well, enough of my rambling for now. I just thought I'd pass on my news.
Mark.
A few weeks ago i was talking with my best friend and she said something during the conversation which made me think she had sussed about my crossdressing. I didn't say anything at the time and, as it turns out, it was a totally innocent comment.
Well, I thought, if she suspects something then maybe I should say. A combination of losing my nerve and not seeing an appropriate opening in a conservation meant that I didn't say anything for a couple of weeks. We were in the pub on the Sunday afternoon for a quick drink on our way into town and we got chatting and when my chance came I dropped the fact that I crossdress into the conversation real casual like :cool: NOT. I kept on with the rest of what I was saying and she let me finish. I knew she wouldn't freak out or anything as she's really open minded and really accepting of other people but I was still really worried about what she's think or how she might be with me.
Well, it turns out she was really cool with it. She said she had seen something on my PC a long while back which had made her think I might be crossdressing but, as I'd never said anything over time, she's put it to the back of her mind and eventually dismissed it. She said it's not really a big deal and if I enjoy it then why not as it's perfectly harmless.
Needless to say we had a long chat and never made it into town. She really went out of her way to make me feel comfortable talking to her about crossdressing, was really supportive and made it very easy one me.
We went into town the next day and were going through the lingerie section of a clothes shop when she turned to me and said "Well, do you see anything you like? Coz if you do just let me know and I'll take it up to the cash desk for you". I was really pleasantly surprised but, Sod's Law, I couldn't see anything remotely nice and had to say so. I could've kicked myself but I didn't want to take soemething just for the sake of it. She said she wasn't keen on any of herself but, if I did see something when we were out anytime just to say.
She also said, though, that my timing's crap and that If I'd said before Hallowe'en then we could have got dressed up and gone out. She did say we can do it next year though.
I was always of the opinion that unless people really needed to know for some reason then there was no need to tell them. I saw crossdressing as private for me and kept it to myself thinking that there was no real reason to come out to anyone about it. I'm so glad we did talk about it. I never thought she would let me down. I'm just really impressed with how supportive she has been and that she made such an effort to make sure that I was alright when I'd just have been happy if she'd said "Oh right" and never mention it again. She showed herself to be a really good friend and made me feel lucky I had someone like her to talk to.
Well, enough of my rambling for now. I just thought I'd pass on my news.
Mark.