Barbara_Jean
06-20-2012, 11:35 AM
I got to thinking about something that happened to me and thought I’d share it with you.
To give you a little background on me, NO ONE knows about me being Transgendered and my dressing, NO ONE!! This is something I have hidden from the world all of my life. I have decided to confide in a good friend, a GG, but that will be another story for another time.
A little over a year ago, I met a woman on an on line dating site. We e-mailed for a while then she gave me her phone number and I called her. We talked several times then decided to meet so I invited her to a very nice restaurant for a fancy dinner with wine, and told her since it was a special occasion, I was going to wear a suit and tie. She said she was going to wear a dress. I told her how refreshing that would be since most women I see don’t wear dresses. She said she needed a new pair of shoes though since she did not have a nice pair of heels. So we got to talking about dresses and heels, I asked her what kind of heels she was looking for, sling backs, Mary Janes, and how high a heel. I said I thought a 3 inch would look nice. I can’t remember the whole conversation, but after a couple minutes she said to me “How do you know so much about women’s clothes? Are you a crossdresser??”
I was shocked and didn’t know what to say. I hesitated for what seamed like an hour, but was really only a second, then I said “Would that be a problem if I was?”
HA, Now the ball is in HER Court! She hesitated for a few seconds, and then said “Well, no…. but it would be kind of a shock!”
Well I decided to let her off the hook and I told her I was not, as I said NO ONE knows!
Well we dated for about a month and it didn’t work out (like always for me) but that is OK. She was not right for me any way and really only wanted someone to take her out and spend money on her. However, I did find out that she helped start “The Out Center” in our local town which is a GLBT center and they have all kinds of activities for people to do in a safe environment. (Our town is VERY Conservative and no accepting) She is straight, but does a lot of charity work like that.
Well it just goes to show you, that you need to be careful when talking that you do not “tip your hand”!!
To give you a little background on me, NO ONE knows about me being Transgendered and my dressing, NO ONE!! This is something I have hidden from the world all of my life. I have decided to confide in a good friend, a GG, but that will be another story for another time.
A little over a year ago, I met a woman on an on line dating site. We e-mailed for a while then she gave me her phone number and I called her. We talked several times then decided to meet so I invited her to a very nice restaurant for a fancy dinner with wine, and told her since it was a special occasion, I was going to wear a suit and tie. She said she was going to wear a dress. I told her how refreshing that would be since most women I see don’t wear dresses. She said she needed a new pair of shoes though since she did not have a nice pair of heels. So we got to talking about dresses and heels, I asked her what kind of heels she was looking for, sling backs, Mary Janes, and how high a heel. I said I thought a 3 inch would look nice. I can’t remember the whole conversation, but after a couple minutes she said to me “How do you know so much about women’s clothes? Are you a crossdresser??”
I was shocked and didn’t know what to say. I hesitated for what seamed like an hour, but was really only a second, then I said “Would that be a problem if I was?”
HA, Now the ball is in HER Court! She hesitated for a few seconds, and then said “Well, no…. but it would be kind of a shock!”
Well I decided to let her off the hook and I told her I was not, as I said NO ONE knows!
Well we dated for about a month and it didn’t work out (like always for me) but that is OK. She was not right for me any way and really only wanted someone to take her out and spend money on her. However, I did find out that she helped start “The Out Center” in our local town which is a GLBT center and they have all kinds of activities for people to do in a safe environment. (Our town is VERY Conservative and no accepting) She is straight, but does a lot of charity work like that.
Well it just goes to show you, that you need to be careful when talking that you do not “tip your hand”!!