comment on my "weight gain"

[JLynn17]

So a friend of mine who doesnt know I am on HRT commented to me that it looks like I am gettin fat I was IMMEDIATELY offended, (guy friend of course) so I asked why and he said it looks like Im growin man boobs... which I then of course was very happy!!! Im pretty skinny 5'11 28" waiste so bein called fat is way out of oridinary for me but it made my day :) :) <3

[Aprilrain]

Guys are always so considerate in their assessments aren't they? Not, are you gaining weight but you look fat LOL.

[Shelly K]

Tell him they're not Man boobs...they're girl boobs.

[Sandra1746]

It takes a lot of practice for a guy to learn to be subtle, most don't bother to learn or are so clumsy it is almost funny. Except when it hurts. Still, as a backwards compliment this was a winner in how it turned out. A funny story too.

Best of luck,
Sandra1746

[melissaK]

Yea. When they grow they show. :-)

Im not out (lets not go there ok) so not showing is some days my goal. (somedays the opposite). Some tight (too small) wife beater t shirts can help compress them if you need stealth for a while longer. Danskin sports bras are cupless (available at Walmart) can work too - but a shirt pulled against it will sometimes show the lower band line and that gives it away as a bra. When vompressed the bulk is where pectoral muscles from weight lifting would be and I've been accused of working out.

And since I actually put on weight, kinda common with MTF HRT, it prompted one kid to say mine were from "too much beer."
(that hurt - I really don't drink often!)

One poster once said he'd lost his pool privileges. :-). I thought it was funny.

And although I'm not out, I am so content on HRT and I love my breasts. They shoulda been there my whole life.

Hugs,
'lissa

[Shananigans]

Give him back an honest assessment of himself.

Whenever my friend likes to hate on fat people at the bar, I critique his eating habits and tell him that his arteries probably look like a fry vat. Shuts that behavior right up. :)

I don't make fun of people because I'm not perfect either. I think some people just need to be reminded/taken down a few pegs....and, you can usually do this in a very subtle manner.

[docrobbysherry]

First, CONGRATS, Lynn! U must be thrilled!

Second, I believe that's how it looks when u have breasts! One reason I DON'T like using large forms is, they makes me look FAT! Even if I have on the exact same figure below them! DD's r fattening, C's r slimming! Don't believe me? TRY IT YOURSELF!

[JLynn17]

Give him back an honest assessment of himself.

Whenever my friend likes to hate on fat people at the bar, I critique his eating habits and tell him that his arteries probably look like a fry vat. Shuts that behavior right up. :)

I don't make fun of people because I'm not perfect either. I think some people just need to be reminded/taken down a few pegs....and, you can usually do this in a very subtle manner.

Haha we are like best friends and he weighs close to 300 lbs, i think like 280, he was at like 350 so i give him shit all time, but he's doin better now so i gotta keep congratulating him here as recent as he's lost 75lbs on new diet, annnnnnywayyyy lol umm yeah I like the weight gain especially where i've gained it

[Inna]

if HRT fat distribution worked only there I would be at MacDonnals everyday chowing down a Big Mac....would you like french fries with that.....Heck YEah! Supersize it babe!