Jessica86
06-25-2012, 02:17 PM
A little over a month ago, my wife got laid off when her company folded without notice. :sad: Good news is we have a two month old, so she can spend time at home with him. I also have a three year old, who is daddy's buddy. LOL. Through this time, my wife has been home 24/7 and has loved every minute. She is selling AVON to get extra money for us as I told her I have no problems paying the bills. She does good because of the time she has now to really dedicate to it. This has meant a DRASTIC cut down on the number of times I dress. I used to once or twice a week. I don't dress fully really, just go to sleep in my hair and pink pajamas or something. I don't dress in lingerie or anything crazy. I work at night, so waking up, walking out while she has friends here, would be a bad idea.
I don't mind the cut down, or at least....I thought I didn't. :doh: I talked to my wife, and she wanted Jessica to go out with her on Saturday. That didn't happen because our baby sitter backed out. Again. With my wife home all of the time, something has started happening that even I have noticed. My wife said something the other day, in a positive way, but made me think....here goes the start. She told me, seeing me shopping on ebay for clothes, "You must be really looking for something. Seen you twice on there today," and she teased me. I have been shopping lots more, but that's just the start.
I used to have dreams where I would just be walking in a park with other women or something. Doing silly things like sitting by a fountain, running my hand in the water. I used to dream like that maybe once every month.
Now, since I haven't dressed in....I don't even know how long, I'm having very....VERY erotic dreams almost every night. All of them, when I am dressed up. For example, last night, I had a dream where I was in a club, dancing with other women on stage in a sexy school girl outfit. I would be a liar if I said I didn't love every second of the dream. :daydreaming: Thing is, it is always women I am dancing with/for or doing something with. My wife is always in the dream also, usually a very dominating figure. This may seem stupid, and some may think "What are you complaining about?" It's one of those things where, in the dream, everything is real. It scares me when I wake up and enjoy what I just experienced. My wife knows that I don't plan on transitioning. I do too, but I always think I'm getting closer with a mind set like this. I looked at myself in the mirror this morning, and asked myself again....transition? Quickly, the answer was no again. My wife and I have a very active sex life (as guy/girl) also, and these thoughts just keep returning, even sometimes just right after that.
I'm not sure why I associate these things with transitioning. I'm scared of even the thought of doing that. (No offense to anyone.) I don't know. I just feel bad, even down. :sad: Maybe I am thinking like that because I'm in a drought?
I don't mind the cut down, or at least....I thought I didn't. :doh: I talked to my wife, and she wanted Jessica to go out with her on Saturday. That didn't happen because our baby sitter backed out. Again. With my wife home all of the time, something has started happening that even I have noticed. My wife said something the other day, in a positive way, but made me think....here goes the start. She told me, seeing me shopping on ebay for clothes, "You must be really looking for something. Seen you twice on there today," and she teased me. I have been shopping lots more, but that's just the start.
I used to have dreams where I would just be walking in a park with other women or something. Doing silly things like sitting by a fountain, running my hand in the water. I used to dream like that maybe once every month.
Now, since I haven't dressed in....I don't even know how long, I'm having very....VERY erotic dreams almost every night. All of them, when I am dressed up. For example, last night, I had a dream where I was in a club, dancing with other women on stage in a sexy school girl outfit. I would be a liar if I said I didn't love every second of the dream. :daydreaming: Thing is, it is always women I am dancing with/for or doing something with. My wife is always in the dream also, usually a very dominating figure. This may seem stupid, and some may think "What are you complaining about?" It's one of those things where, in the dream, everything is real. It scares me when I wake up and enjoy what I just experienced. My wife knows that I don't plan on transitioning. I do too, but I always think I'm getting closer with a mind set like this. I looked at myself in the mirror this morning, and asked myself again....transition? Quickly, the answer was no again. My wife and I have a very active sex life (as guy/girl) also, and these thoughts just keep returning, even sometimes just right after that.
I'm not sure why I associate these things with transitioning. I'm scared of even the thought of doing that. (No offense to anyone.) I don't know. I just feel bad, even down. :sad: Maybe I am thinking like that because I'm in a drought?