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Briana90802
06-27-2012, 09:36 AM
Just wondering if anyone else plays online games as their cd self. I do and I don't know if it's a good thing or bad thing to tell people that I cd. Some people are haters and some are cool. Any words of advice?

Kate Simmons
06-27-2012, 01:27 PM
I dunno but unless there are cameras on both ends does it really make a difference? Just asking Hon.:)

gailprice
06-27-2012, 01:40 PM
keep it up i think it adds to all the weird fun of gaming.

The haters hate every one that do not conform to their standards, who cares.

XX

Cynthia Anne
06-27-2012, 01:46 PM
I say enjoy it! I tell everyone it's my life and if you don't like the way I'm livin, you just leave this long haired country girl alone! Hugs!

Stephenie S
06-27-2012, 01:54 PM
There will ALWAYS be small minded bigots in your life. Don't let it worry you even a little bit. On line? Gaming? You can be anyone you want. The vast majority don't give a rat's behind. Have fun!

Annaliese2010
06-27-2012, 02:21 PM
I'm not a gamer but I thought about getting into it. I understand there are games that involve ppl all around the world. I heard it can be addictive like, you can immerse yourself in the virtual world, can get to know and become good friends w/ppl you never meet. They say the digital world is an evolving ever expanding phenomenon. Not just in the billion dollar gaming industry but in all aspects of both our personal and working lives. It's changing the way ppl interact and how we perceive the world and our place in it. How we relate to one another in general. And that it's slowly overcoming what used to be our common everyday face to face 'real world' experience.

In fact it's not uncommon for some ppl to establish virtual friendships that are more vital and meaningful than those they have in the real world. I dont think there's anything 'wrong' or weird about this. It's just a simple fact of life. It's the way we as a global society are evolving. It's the impact of technology on human behavior. Things will never be as they once were, there's no going back. It's only going to continue in time in ways we can't even image or predict, both good & bad.

I would think this is advantageous for us in the transgendered or CD community. It removes the anxiety one might feel in real world interactions wihere as you say there is always the possibility of coming across intolerant narrow minded individuals. Because of the remote nature of virtual interaction you dont have to volunteer the fact that you're transgendered or a CD. You are free to just be yourself, girl, relax and enjoy your virtual friends, expressing and interacting with them freely and completely from the standpoint of your feminine self. They'll just assume you're a girl and treat you as such with no doubts, judgements or second geussing. :battingeyelashes:

Anna Abwaerts
06-27-2012, 02:27 PM
I may have played while dressed... but cant remember, wasnt a conscious act. Now you bring good idea, cause most times I pick female characters in mmorpgs (they look cute).
Now if you give your character a female name and dress each time while you play her... that would be interesting.

Jenn M
06-27-2012, 03:03 PM
I always play while dressed and tell anyone I play with. If they dont like it they can opt out!

FeliciaCDSNJ
06-27-2012, 04:12 PM
Hello,

Every online game I play I always play as myself (girl) even the one I play the most WoW.

Secret_Dresser
06-27-2012, 04:36 PM
Think this got covered in a similar thread, but I think that was mor specific to certain games instead of actually dressing while gaming.

Iv done both funnily enough, played as a female making her as I want and also dressed while gaming. Uusally a corset since I really need to stop this slouching.

Christina89
06-27-2012, 04:59 PM
when i play games whether they are online or offline my characters are always female. and i tend to be dressed when playing them.

GinaMarie
06-27-2012, 06:16 PM
Everything I play as is always male, because everybody questions why I'm using a female character. If I did have a more powerful computer (and I am saving my money for one), then I'd be more open to playing as female characters as it can't handle Call of Duty: MW3 or Max Payne 3. But everyone who uses my computer must not see what I have. I can confess that I do, or did, have the female red bird as my Angry Birds Friends avatar at one point.

wilt575
06-27-2012, 08:26 PM
Just wondering if anyone else plays online games as their cd self. I do and I don't know if it's a good thing or bad thing to tell people that I cd. Some people are haters and some are cool. Any words of advice?

I feel really stupid, when I read gaming crossdressed, I thought you meant casinos, first reaction was who doesn't. My answer is yes to both on line and casinos.

Koncorethemind
06-27-2012, 08:33 PM
Hmm, not sure where to start, I guess I don't have much to say on the topic given ybat I'm new to the whole thing, crossdressing not gaming. Though I was hanging out in teapeaklast night with my friends, didn't tell them because I'm not open about it, nor will probably ever be. Most people wont giive a damn or will be interested, and above all it doesn't matter if you tell them because they xant do a damn thing about it, assumig they don't knnameour legal name. Also there is nothing wrong witb usig a female avatar a lot of people do it regarcless of orientation/gender.

@Annaliese2010
To put it shortly the internet is an ever growing pheonomina. For example this conversation here 30 years ago people would hve not thought this possible. I'm an active member of a video game streaming site and I am a streamer there, another example of tbe things capable of the world wide web. More to your point though, viseo games can be fun, thougb the industry is headinf for a hugh crash. There are plenty of casual games today which you can pick up play and have fun. Give it a tey.

Lorenqt
06-27-2012, 09:15 PM
I love playing PC and online games while dressed.

Sandy Michaels
06-27-2012, 09:49 PM
gaming is part of my drab life, and dressing is my escape from my that, so no gaming for me. i do play play a bit fem while playing though(when not doing it for work). especially games with customization in them like most rpg's and the sims.

Msora
06-27-2012, 11:42 PM
In games of all sorts, I much prefer to play a female character, but I'll play male characters every now and then so no one in my personal life gets suspicious. Whether I am dressed or not at the time depends on whether my roommate is home or not.

Beth Wilde
06-28-2012, 06:34 AM
Always play as a female character. It's normally Evony for me :)

Beverley Sims
06-28-2012, 06:50 AM
I certainly don't play naked.

Cheryl T
06-28-2012, 08:19 AM
I play some now and played a lot years ago but never told anyone I was anything other than Cheryl. They had no need to know and I was always accepted as me.

Babeba
06-28-2012, 09:28 AM
Some games, like Diablo II, used to only let you have certain characters as male or female... I used to have male haracters all the time, and female as well.

I could see it being a good excuse?

BiancaEstrella
06-29-2012, 03:50 AM
Just made a myself a female character on DC Universe Online, a nice chocolate-skinned sista with an afro. Sorceress. Villainess. Look out (DC) world.

kimmyg
06-29-2012, 08:23 AM
I doit all the time .....

Mistybtm
06-29-2012, 08:33 AM
I do it all the time as well Mostly FPS is my thing. and the latest Spec ops the line and call of duty future soldier

Chardonnay Merlot
06-29-2012, 08:59 AM
When I want to have a video game night, I dress in full, wear something skippy and my avatars and characters are all female. :)
Even in the games were I don't have a graphic avatar, I'll take a female name..

In F1 2011 I'm currently in a fierce dual for the championship with Massa, Vettel and Hamilton...Madame World Champion? Stay tuned. :)

whowhatwhen
06-29-2012, 09:53 AM
I'm a casual WoW player and 90% of my characters are female simply because I live enough as a guy as it is.
No ****s are given to the whole G.I.R.L* thing since it's none of their business.
:)

*Guy In Real Life

Ann Thomas
07-02-2012, 11:09 PM
I started out online gaming with male characters, and luckily one had a name that was gender neutral. A few years ago I changed that character to female, and now play using that character most of the time. My other (male) character is a record holder in the particular game, so needs to retain his image and name, as that record will never be beat (due to rules change soon to take effect - he's held the record already for many years).

So, I'm happy playing as a girl on line.

Hugs,
Ann

Jessica86
07-02-2012, 11:36 PM
I do. I am not as competitive when I am online like that though. I usually play shooters, which doesn't feel right dressed up.

Liara
07-03-2012, 01:00 AM
Most if not all of my characters are female when I can create my own. Most people think I'm a girl and don't question it.

Alexisninsar
07-17-2012, 01:29 PM
To start with the few games that I do play I have a female charters. In most games they have better clothes. Not to mention it can produce some interesting situations
I actually found an article that deals with gender bending in games.
http://www.gameinformer.com/blogs/members/b/oni_no_tenshi_blog/archive/2011/08/08/gender-bending-in-gaming-acceptance-or-puzzlement.aspx?PageIndex=2

LaSirenaBella
07-17-2012, 02:42 PM
When I do play "World of Warcraft," my main character is a female Human Priest. I run with a guild composed of a social group I belong to IRL. My cross dressing is an open secret within the organization, so I don't raise any suspicions. Besides, a non-trivial percentage of WoW players cross play.

In "Star Trek Online'" I have a female unjoined Trill Tactical Officer. Same crowd, no flak.

LaSirenaBella
07-17-2012, 02:43 PM
Oh, gaming *while* crossdressed. I think I've done it a few times. It makes no difference. :)

ShoeziQ
07-17-2012, 03:15 PM
I do this all the time. I will be dressed and playing tonight as a matter of fact. And I do like playing with female avatars as well. But, I generally stay off the voice chat.

almisami
07-17-2012, 03:27 PM
I find it utterly HILARIOUS when everyone just pauses awkwardly when I get on audio chat since everyone thinks I'm a girl online.

christina s
07-17-2012, 10:33 PM
While I do play female characters most of the time , I never really dress while gaming . When I'm playing a game like Forza I feel that's my male side coming out so I really don't think about it . But I may be coming back to WOW when mist comes out and idea of raiding while dressed sounds really fun . Especially since when dressed I do resemble my female Tauren .......

Saffron
07-27-2012, 06:10 PM
I like rpg games, specially if you can edit your avatar. And of course, all of my characters are female.

JessicaVal
07-27-2012, 06:31 PM
I certainly have gamed while crossdressed, but it is the exception rather than the rule. Sometimes dressing is relaxing, and whatever activity I decide to do while relaxed is rather random. That being said I've probably also cooked, cleaned, done dishes/laundry, worked out, read a book, studied for school, and anything else you can think of doing alone while dressed.

On the subject of cross-gaming, though, I don't think I've EVERY intentionally choosen and enjoyed playing a character that was male. *Shrugs* I think that article actualy hits it pretty well on the head. Theres more interesting things to look at and it's NOT always just the T&A...sometimes it's just better hairstyles/colors or armor with a shape other than 'Large-block-of-iron-on-chest'.

BTW, almost exclusively WoW player here...played many other games over the years from Atari to PS3, but WoW is what I do now. Of course, I think WoW is dying (Pandas, really?), so maybe that will end in a few years. Wonder what I'll do then?

sometimes_miss
07-28-2012, 02:53 AM
Just wondering if anyone else plays online games as their cd self. I do and I don't know if it's a good thing or bad thing to tell people that I cd. Some people are haters and some are cool. Any words of advice?
Yes. I got a credit card with just my first and middle initials on it with my last name intentionally for that purpose. There are quite a few places that probably have no idea I'm a guy. Unless you're going to meet them IRL, it really doesn't matter. Be aware however, that geeks have a tendency to fall in love with any female that shows them any interest or even is polite to them, so you may have 'followers' in some virtual realities. Be careful what you say and do.

Anna Abwaerts
07-28-2012, 03:01 AM
I also cant play shooters dressed. In shooters you got to be aggressive, active, goal oriented... and for some unknown reason to me - I sweat and heat up in shooters, I sort of feel the adrenaline running, and it exausts me. And after that I will feel tensed and tired (not relaxed at all).
And this does not feel feminine at all, so I will skip shooters while dressed.

KlaireLarnia
07-28-2012, 04:03 AM
Just wondering if anyone else plays online games as their cd self. I do and I don't know if it's a good thing or bad thing to tell people that I cd. Some people are haters and some are cool. Any words of advice?

Yes. I play a few games online and all of them I am Klaire. Because I do not use any voice/webcam systems for any online games I see no harm and allows to me to express myself in ways I cannot as a male. I find it both helpful and enlightening to do it and I see no harm in it at all..

Rebecca Star
07-28-2012, 04:33 AM
I have a female avatar for Second Life but also have a male alt too.
As far as anything else such as Call of Duty MW3, Alan Wake, Max Payne3, all those type of games, it's all male mode.

Nothing like blowing stuff up or fragging a few enemies to relieve some stress :D

KlaireLarnia
07-28-2012, 08:34 AM
I have a female avatar for Second Life but also have a male alt too.
As far as anything else such as Call of Duty MW3, Alan Wake, Max Payne3, all those type of games, it's all male mode.

Nothing like blowing stuff up or fragging a few enemies to relieve some stress :D

In some ways it would depend on what you want to get out of the game and who you will see there. If I was going to play a game where there would be friends I knew online and looking for me I would stay male - as they don't know what I do. But with things like Second Life, Star Trek online where I don't know anyone in RL, then I am Klaire as I am more comfortable playing the female role in these.

Carole Cross
07-28-2012, 08:59 AM
Always play as a female character. It's normally Evony for me :)

I play Evony, server ss62. I recently came out to the people in my alliance that I was TS and the response has been fantastic. No one has said anything negative and I have made a couple of friends, one on facebok and the other I will be meeting when I go up to London. She has promised to visit me when I go for my grs too. :)
In other games I have always played as female characters.

RachelRoxx
07-28-2012, 12:01 PM
I always play Battlefield 3, Modern Warfare 3 and Tiger Woods PGA Tour 13 dressed. Its funny cause the people in my clans all know what I do. We will be in a match and ill kill someone and the kid gets all pissed and calls me a fag and one of my clan members will say "actually hes a crossdresser, not a fag" Its great. Any CD's here that play those games on PS3 message me and we can trade online id's.

RachelRoxx
07-28-2012, 12:05 PM
I also cant play shooters dressed. In shooters you got to be aggressive, active, goal oriented... and for some unknown reason to me - I sweat and heat up in shooters, I sort of feel the adrenaline running, and it exausts me. And after that I will feel tensed and tired (not relaxed at all).
And this does not feel feminine at all, so I will skip shooters while dressed.

Playing shooters dressed is the best! They think Im a chick cause im using my male voice, then i tell them im a dude who dresses like a girl and it throws them off bigtime and screws up their gameplay. Thats when i come in with some semtex and ruin their day!

KaTanya
07-28-2012, 12:25 PM
Some games, like Diablo II, used to only let you have certain characters as male or female... I used to have male haracters all the time, and female as well.yeah, but the female classes in D2 were generally more fun than the male classes. I'd say robably 1/2 my D2 toons were Amazons, just because there a lot of fun mutations possible, some of them I made just to do a build based a cool bow or jav I farmed with another toon. Can't say that about barbs or pallys or druids. That said, one of my fave toons was a Dentist necro- all bone skills, rimary attack skill of Teeth. Pure. Evil.

JessicaVal
07-28-2012, 12:26 PM
I have to say I love the idea of people playing shooters and such while dressed, especially if it gives them an edge. *Kudos to Rachel*

I think it's a pretty interesting sneakpeak into the psyche if you like to dress while playing less aggressive games but feel out of place while playing more aggressive games dressed as a woman. I wonder, do any GGs have similar issues when they play? Is it awkward to play MW3 while dressed feminine? Do you tend to dress more 'male' instead? Might be reaching into something unique to the CD/TV mind that doesn't exist in either gender alone.

In the meantime, I think I might start to play WoW dressed...not really a feminine game, but not bad. Not going to do it anytime soon, though (wife and I are still working things out and now is NOT the time to make things more difficult).

I will say for those of you interested, Eve Online has a voice-chat feature built-in with masks that protect your actual voice. They have a male to female and a female to male voice converter that is surprisingly good.

Kitty Sue
07-28-2012, 12:27 PM
I used to play Second Life with a female character. Same with Everquest. The latest game I played was World of Tanks, and choosing the gender of tanks does not seem to be an option.

I generally have not gamed dressed, aside from some underwear or maybe a dress etc. But, nothing to elaborate. Frequently I just game in the buff, as that is the most comfortable way of all. Yes, I live alone, and I do not use webcams. :)

rise1212
07-28-2012, 06:32 PM
Its so much fun just to sit back relax all dressed up and play some cod3 I could do it all day lol