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Diana High Heels

11-16-2005, 05:20 PM

Does anyone else like me share a passion for wearing the highest heels possible, ok they may NOT look comfortable but believe you me they are if one is use to them. All it takes is practice and patience. I have been wearing heels since my childhood and can now comfortably strut about in 7" heels in a size 9 shoe, ballet heels again are not a prob. 6 inchers are an absolute doddle and 5 inchers, street wear..I adore my heels so much I even wear them to bed,

JoAnnDallas

11-16-2005, 05:28 PM

All I can say is "That's gota hurt the toes". Not to mention the calf musles.
3" heels is the best I can do.

Angela Burke

11-16-2005, 05:47 PM

Diana,
Those shoes and boots just look weird!
I keep thinking of Chinese women and the practice of foot binding !
As for walking in them.
Well with enough determination and practice I'm sure you could, but it must hurt like hell !

Love Angela XX

KathrynW

11-16-2005, 05:53 PM

ok they may NOT look comfortable but believe you me they are if one is use to them.
puhleeeeeeze...
NONE of these heels are comfortable...

Felicity

11-16-2005, 06:16 PM

About the best I have and can do with relative comfort have a 4-1/2" rise ball to heel. They are 6" platform heels.

Kimberly

11-16-2005, 06:53 PM

owweee.

highest I have is 4inches... I'm just a normal, highstreet fashion kinda gal :D

KathrynW

11-16-2005, 06:55 PM

Who (in their right mind anyway) equates "femininity" with wearing extreme heels like the ones posted here? :eek: Hey, if that's what you're into...well...whatever floats your boat. But, this is High Heel Fetishism. That's whole different sub-culture other than cd-ing, transgender, etc. I promise you that no real woman, other than a hooker, or a dominatrix, would ever wear freakish looking shoes like these. They're definitely not comfortable, and never in a zillion years would shoes like these enable someone to be passable. Just my .02 worth. ;)

Michelle Hart

11-16-2005, 06:57 PM

The higher the better!!!

Sadly a 6'1" I reakky stick out when I wear 4" heels but at home.....mmm Yummy

Sedona

11-16-2005, 08:19 PM

Diana,

Be careful. Some women have wear heels so much that their calf muscles actually tighten to the point that they can't wear anything but. Their calves simply won't stretch out to the point that their heels can hit the ground while barefoot.

Make sure you're stretching properly. I know, I sound like your mom.

Good luck!

Nyx

11-16-2005, 08:27 PM

Not to be a troll but... I never saw the point in those. 3" heels look sexy and balanced, but already hurts the toes. 3.5" to 4" is on the frontier of the glamour look and is already pushing it a little (not many women actually wear that). 5", 6", and higher, in my opinion, don't look good, and aren't good at all for your health.

uknowhoo

11-16-2005, 08:37 PM

CDing, heel fetishism, whatever floats yer boat, I say.

I just love my 4" heels, and they are quite comfortable, as long as it's not all night/day. I would like to get a pr of 5" pumps. Ah, one of these days.

Something to keep in mind... 3.5" heels are pretty steep in a size 7. But if you're size 11 like me, you need a 4 or 5" heel to get the same look, proportionately, y'know.

Anyway, happy heel wearing ladies.

Love,

Tammi

michellejean

11-16-2005, 09:13 PM

some of you need to go back and look at what diana said about when she started walking in highheels. when you start that young and do this for all the years that she has then some people do get use to them.i know because i started when i was real young too. yes i to have a thing for highheel shoes or boots i have alot of them and my lowest heel is 3 1/2 inch heel and they are bare back mules and yes i too love them so much i have gone to bed with apair on .,,,,too diana and i and alot of cd woman and alot of gg woman it is a turn on and we like the way they look and feel.we all have things that we like to dress up in more than other things. i have a big fetish for highheels .,,,,,diana i love the pic,s girl those are sexy and hot looking and keep on keeping on. michellejean (MRS.HIGHHEELS):p :p :thumbsup: D :cool: ;)

TeriAnn

11-16-2005, 09:39 PM

I to wear 4,5 and 6 inch heels. I can`t do without them. You can di anything you set your mind to. I just bought a pair of 5 inch heels and have two more pair on the way. I love the way that they make my legs look so firm and tight, I may not wear them out but I have worn them around the house for long periods of time. What can I say I enjoy the feeling they give me.:thumbsup:

Rachel Morley

11-16-2005, 11:12 PM

Hi Diana,

Phew! my hat is off to you! I have a couple of pairs of 5 inch stilettos and I can only walk around (and occasionally sit down) in for about 3 hours before my feet hurt too much.

I did try on a pair of six inches heel once but they were so high that it was too much for my toes. Also I tottered a bit too much. Anyway here's a pic of me in my 5 inch shoes. Btw this is me with my old wig and no make up :eek:

http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/5634/angel31ek.jpg

Wenda

11-17-2005, 12:02 AM

I have some nice heels,but I broke a toe in a fundraising Human Foosball tournament, so anything over 4 inches looks great but is not comfy. Good for you. I have worn my heels to bed a few times as well.

andreaboots

11-17-2005, 12:58 AM

Hey girlfriend, awesome pics!!!:eek: I really WANT those boots!!!:dom: I can walk quite well in both four and five inch heels whether they be spikes or other. I do have a pair of chap boots with a 51/2 inch heel and it's a barely can do act.

Yes, to a certain degree it is a fetish for the heel height. But I think it still fits with the CD experience. When I CD I definitely wear the high heels, it makes me feel the fem thing more acutely. I love the feel, looks and the way they sound on the floor.

Most of my foot wardrobe is of the high heeled nature. I do have some one inch heels and a couple of 3 inch heels as well. Depends upon the outfit and where I'm going. So, next time you post pics, let's see ALL of you darling!!:D

Diana High Heels

11-17-2005, 03:06 AM

Ok, so SOME of you do not like wearing very high heels, that is totally your preference and I WILL not knock it but, WE are ALL different and my personal enjoyment is wearing heels that to others seem silly, if thats the case how come the market is so huge for us to buy such delicious shoes. Yes, I DO NOT wear such high heels out publically but I do wear them out along quiet lanes. I enjoy the feel of them and get immense satisfaction from the ability to walk like a lady in wonderfully high heels. I LOVE the look and feel of an extreme arch and NO, I have yet to injure myself. If you practice and take reasonable care then it can really be a truly enjoyable experience. My daily heel height is 4" which to me is frankly low but nice..

cdsandy

11-17-2005, 03:23 AM

I too adore walking around in my 5" heels. It does take practice but so do a lot of things worth pursuing.

I thinks theymake my legs look great, and even the saleswoman complemented me on how ell i walked in them.

So, here's to all us High heel fans.:)

Love, Sandy

hjt101

11-17-2005, 06:41 AM

I feel the most comfortable in my 4 inchers, but can wear my 5's out for a while. The 6ers are fine for short periods, mostly on soft carpets. I have gone for hours in my 4 inch boots, as they are my most comfortable height.

The stride and gait changes dramatically as the heels get higher. The steps are shorter, but the swagger gets bigger.

But to paraphrase another member, it doesn't matter how high they are, as they are all the same height when pointing towards the sky

Candy Heels

11-17-2005, 09:08 AM

Hi Ladies:D

I was away a few days but would love to send a warm welcome to Diana. I just love your high heeled pumps. Like you I have worn high heels since childhood. It was probably wearing my mother's gorgeous stiletto heeled pumps (and she had closets full) that started me on my feminine life. And you are also right that wearing a very high heel comfortably is only a matter of experience and practice.

To those who would criticize, why is it necessary to rain upon another's happiness?

Hugs to all.

Candy

CDtv

11-17-2005, 09:27 AM

Wearing my high heels is a daily event and almost a ritual. i can't spend enough time in them except when i lose the keys LOL i'm getting much better at walking in my ballet heels too and like Sandy i wear my shoes to bed often. Such a lovely addiction to have.

KathrynW

11-17-2005, 09:34 AM

Wearing my high heels is a daily event and almost a ritual. i can't spend enough time in them except when i lose the keys
KEYS?????
You lock your heels on????? :eek:

CDtv

11-17-2005, 09:36 AM

just check out my avatar. These are my favorite shoes. i have others that lock too and am saving up for a pair of locking ballet ankle boots. Christmas is coming and i have been naughty:D :D :D :D :D

KathrynW

11-17-2005, 09:43 AM

just check out my avatar. These are my favorite shoes. i have others that lock to and am sving up for a pair of locking ballet ankle boots. Christmas is coming and i have been naughty
I suppose "forced feminization" would be the title of a whole different thread, eh? :angel:

CDtv

11-17-2005, 09:53 AM

I suppose "forced feminization" would be the title of a whole different thread, eh? :angel:

back a while someone posted about the aspects of bdsm and our perspectives. it isn't forced if one accepts it willingly it is a fetish if one seeks it for pleasure. i am very shy and submissive and addicted to high heels and have a Mistress/Wife who is my Love and my Life and i am humbly Hers to command

She also likes me in heels

i will do anything for a new pair of heels;) ;) ;)

KathrynW

11-17-2005, 10:03 AM

back a while someone posted about the aspects of bdsm and our perspectives. it isn't forced if one accepts it willingly it is a fetish if one seeks it for pleasure. i am very shy and submissive and addicted to high heels and have a Mistress/Wife who is my Love and my Life and i am humbly Hers to command She also likes me in heels
This is going in thread drift here, but...
I wasn't talking about bdsm. I was referring to "forced feminization" in regards to cd's who visualize this as a means to remove the shame & guilt of cd-ing from themselves. Still kind of in the sub~domme vein, somewhat. I guess you could call it role-playing or whatever. Kind of a grown up version of "petticoat discipline". ;)

CDtv

11-17-2005, 10:16 AM

(picking up wig from floor) why didn't You say so! That's a horse of a different color. (and any other Wizard of Oz cliches one can think of) it is a step before moving into the full bdsm thing possibly definitely a realm for imagination and fantasy that allows one to escape into our real selves without the stigma and guilt You mentioned

Not being held accountable or responsible for one's actions is a great pressure release and lowerer of inhibitions i think

Plus i get to wear heels more often or did i already mention that?????

Wendy me

11-17-2005, 10:39 AM

i never saw the wanting to wear them real high heels the talest ones i own are 4 inch heels ....but who knows i never had a pair over 4 inches but i could like them ....now thinking i need to go shopping......

CDtv

11-17-2005, 10:54 AM

Diana High Heels

11-17-2005, 03:26 PM

It is so nice to see that others share my views re high heels, I also adore wearing rubber with my heels and often dress as a rubber encased lady, perhaps I will start a thread on that theme later. I live in the country and often walk out in my 4", 5" and 6" heels. The problem with the later is that the heel tips are often soft and do not last 100 yds on a hard road surface, have yet to pluck up the courage to take them into a shoe shop to have steel tips put on. Mind you, I am silly really because I try heels on in shops so why should a cobbler worry me... More pics of me in my heels, in all I have about 12 pairs now...nice

Anita

11-17-2005, 05:15 PM

I love high heels Highest about 4.75" andI struggle (happily) in them
we mustn't rain on anybody elses parade and if they like and enjoy 5" 6" or whatever I say get on and enjoy.

Thats my 2 bobs worth as we say in Yorkshire so put it in yer pipe an smoke it :rofl:

Stormgirl

11-17-2005, 05:36 PM

ouch! My feet are aching in agony just looking at those pictures.

sissy stacy

11-17-2005, 08:32 PM

(curtsey)

i usually wear 5". i can manage 6" for only a short time. i haven't tried anything higher. i can walk around in 5" all night and day. i don't have anything lower than 4".

(curtsey)

-sissy s.

Ibuki_Warpetal

11-17-2005, 09:08 PM

I have no problems with any size heel as long as the ankle isn't too stiff. I just got a pair of 4'' boots and they are mondo difficult to walk speedily in.
I'll just have to spend time breaking them in. (:

Julie

11-17-2005, 09:20 PM

Diana, maybe if I was younger, or a rock climber :rolleyes: . What I've found lately is a love for flat or platform shoes with little or no raise in the heel. Last night I wore these pink suede boots that have a platform sole. They are so comfortable I wore them all day today too. That's where I'm at now. :p

Karren H

11-17-2005, 09:42 PM

Not me, over 4 inches and i fall down!!! and how do you get your feet to bedn in those heals??? Mine don't!!
Love Karren

Julie

11-17-2005, 09:47 PM

Not me, over 4 inches and i fall down!!! and how do you get your feet to bedn in those heals??? Mine don't!!
Love Karren

No kidding Karen! Those heels look painful! And I did once fall down in 4" platforms :o and this guy I was talking to just watched me fall :rolleyes: . MEN! :gg:

lee james

11-17-2005, 09:59 PM

I,m quite comfortable in 4 inch heels-can even run in them for a short distance if need be as I,ve almost been "outed" a couple of times by people I wasn,t expecting to visit!

Fives?-I only have two pairs of those,a pair of black patent ankle boots Ican walk in o.k and a pair of black patent stillettos that I,m learning to walk in.The boots are better as they support my ankles more.
Must try some sixes next!

KathrynW

11-17-2005, 10:04 PM

I'm quite comfortable in 4 inch heels-can even run in them for a short distance
geeesh, it's getting deep in this thread...if this keeps up, I'm going to Wal-Mart and get some hip waders...instead of heels... ;)

Tara Jordan Campbell

11-17-2005, 10:10 PM

THESE babys are one of my favorites, a 4 inch platforn and an 8 inch heel.

I can walk in them alllll day !

http://us.f1.yahoofs.com/users/54ecef5c/8792/__sr_/1fcb.jpg?phghUfDB1woFC4Oi

YIKES !! They are on SALE
http://www.sub-shop.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2801

For SOME reason I cannot post pics on this forum grrrrrrrrrrr:dom:

andreaboots

11-17-2005, 11:31 PM

Me neither Tara! But I'm gonna figure out why! Durn, I got my black patent thigh high boots on right now with a five inch heel...delicious!! Say, do they make hip waders with a five inch heel??? (tee hee):rofl:

suchacutie

11-18-2005, 12:03 AM

but I thought my 6" heels with a 2" platform were luscious. Those 8" heels with the patent leather up the front...mmmmm..lovely!

tina

Candy Heels

11-18-2005, 02:15 PM

It seems we all love feminine shoes but there is clearly a wide variance in heel height and style.

I am a little older and when I grew up, high stiletto heeled shoes were very in vogue. The movie stars such as Marilyn Monroe, Jane Mansfield etc offered a glamorous look that always included high stiletto heels.

My mother wore very high stiletto pumps everyday to work and her shoes may have been the start of my feminine desires. I was so young at the time but as a latch key child with time alone every day, I can remember rushing home to slip my feet into her dressiest and highest heeled evening pumps. It was not long after that I sought out lingerie, stockings and her most feminine dresses. Thankfully she had wigs for those evenings when she did not want to do her own hair. But most importantly to me, walking well and gracefully in her high heeled shoes was the expression of my deepest desires. It has continued to be a wonderful source of joy thoughout my life.

I have the greatest respect for all tgirls and I know that higher heels are not for all but I hope that you can understand how for Diana and other girls like me, it can be a wonderful feeling to wear them well.

Thanks.

HaleyPink2000

11-18-2005, 02:54 PM

I'd love to wear really tall High Heels. But I have pins in my right ankel and just can't. So 2" heels are the most I can do, and at that they have to be wide heels. Pouting here:(

Haley:)

HaleyPink2000

11-18-2005, 11:07 PM

Is the water on the Heels thing to make them fit better? I do that to any of my leather shoes and wear them till they dry.

Haley:)

Candy Heels

11-21-2005, 11:36 AM

lydia7

11-23-2005, 11:21 AM

I think KathrynW is on the right track in her earlier reply. There are two things going on here...a sexy feeling of being in the heels and a functional element to wearing them out in public. I would say 0 percent of GG wear higher than 4" unless for special situations or profession (dancer, etc.). If you are trying to pass, I also recommend having jeans or pants that come within 1in on the floor when standing in the heels. Just the toe should peek out and you should never see the heel of the shoe unless you are wearing capri pants.

I wear 4in heels only because I have rather large feet-size 10-11. If you are going for personal gratification or sexual excitement, all bets are off---wear 7in spikes if that is what you like. But for passing or general public attire, you have to keep with current styles (clunky heels and thick platforms are out) and stick with medium rise heels (2-3.5in). Buy a women's fashion magazine at least 2x per year to keep up with styles that are current. Nothing says CD like wearing out-of-style shoes that look more painful than sexy...on second thought, the pants not long enough thing is a big one too.

Emma Brownings

11-26-2005, 10:06 AM

Most of the time I wander around with 3 or 4 inch heels and am very comfortable (contrary to what my wife thinks).

But sometimes I just have to raise the tempo and wear these. I certainly wouldn't try to walk far in them, but I can walk and maintain my balance easily.

They do feel very sexy.

McLegs

11-26-2005, 11:56 AM

Just love those pumps with the triple straps. Gotta get me some!

Michelle

KathrynW

11-26-2005, 12:31 PM

Most of the time I wander around with 3 or 4 inch heels and am very comfortable (contrary to what my wife thinks).

You *wander around*, huh? ;) kind of like the equivalent of house slippers to you? Let me ask you a question. Do you cd in public? :confused:

Emma Brownings

11-27-2005, 05:28 AM

You *wander around*, huh? ;) kind of like the equivalent of house slippers to you? Let me ask you a question. Do you cd in public? :confused:

Not yet!!!!:hiding:

BrendaChristine

11-27-2005, 05:55 AM

3 inches is good for me, although I would like to try on a pair of those 6 inchers some day.

TGMarla

11-27-2005, 08:44 AM

You know what? If you like 'em, you like 'em. But they just aren't "normal" shoes. They are very noticable, and draw a lot of attention to themselves. They certainly don't look comfortable. All of the shoes I have are 3" ot 4"...somewhere in that range...I haven't measured them. They are quite comfortable, and to me, rather elegant. They look good, and appropriate with a dress or a skirt. Any higher, or more outlandish, and it borders on (or goes way beyond) fetish wear, and I'm just not into the whole fetish thing.

But that's just me...

Tiffany Tuesday

11-27-2005, 09:19 AM

Hi heels, hello boys!

the higher you get used to the higher your mirror says you need to go. For evening wear I once thought 3" heels looked yummy then 4" and now i find 5" min is essential or my mirror says MISS FRUMPY. Tho' I can cope with less if the shoes are particularly gorgeous.

I think, visually, the higher the heel the slimmer you look in proportion and the daintier your foot. The only drawback, for 6"+ heels you need to size up, which is a sin against femininity!

There is no heel height limit that can be measured in inches, the limit is a visual one where your shoes might start to look coco the clown and detract from your femme. But hey dressing drag or fetish can be a great look for a giggle too!

If you need to wear heels with an outfit, don't ask how high or how comfortable, ask how gorgeous!

Footloose 'n fanny free x

Piccie of me in OTT heels, but they suit the OTT outfit and were fun!

sweeting

11-27-2005, 09:26 AM