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KateSpade83
07-20-2012, 07:56 PM
About 6 months ago I posted an ad in M4W Craigslist, titled, "A Pretty Guy for a Pretty Girl." In the ad I posted my guy and girl pic and one pic of me in a skirtsuit. Stated I was a crossdresser looking for a pretty enough woman my size 4 to 8, and that I could dress her up in my big clothes collection. Said I wasn't gay, just love the clothes.

Response? 3 women emailed me their pics, but they were not pretty enough for me to be interested in them. The other problem was that my email then continued to receive spam / scam emails. But in the end, this shows that there are some women interested in crossdressers!

Have you ever tried a similar thing posting an ad like this? What where your results?

Tracii G
07-20-2012, 08:10 PM
No Kate never done that but as always be careful.

Barbara Jo
07-20-2012, 09:08 PM
Be careful, many women who answer craiglist ads seeking women are just hookers out to make a buck.
In fact, many hookers constanly scan Craigslist to see what males they potentially can riip off/ take advantage of.

KateSpade83
07-20-2012, 09:24 PM
I generally don't trust any online dating and prefer females "caught in the wild," like at grocery stores or shopping malls. But I'll try Craigslist again if I get bored.

PretzelGirl
07-20-2012, 10:40 PM
They weren't pretty enough for you?? Wow Kate. I am speechless at how condescending that is. You want to play dress-up and then they have to pass a "looks test"? If you answered their email stating that to them, I can bet they are no longer interested in crossdressers. :brolleyes:

Cynthia Anne
07-20-2012, 11:00 PM
That's quite interesting Kate! The first time in my life I've heard of love being based on how pretty one is!

Cassandra86
07-20-2012, 11:15 PM
I dont think its rude if u werent attracted to the first few females that replied. Besides whats the first thing anyone notices is someones looks then usually after there personality its himan nature. I do however think u picked a poor choice of words u couldve said a physical attraction wasnt there. Also being a cd we a lot of us or most of us know what its like to maybe not be pretty enough to others or be judged cus of something. so i would think a lot of us wouldnt judge a book by its cover so to say. In the end its whats on the inside that counts. Either way i wish u goodluck and hope it works out.

xoxo
Cassandra

Heather Daniels
07-21-2012, 12:02 AM
I generally don't trust any online dating and prefer females "caught in the wild," like at grocery stores or shopping malls. But I'll try Craigslist again if I get bored.

And just how many have you caught with this method?

Nicole Erin
07-21-2012, 12:48 AM
So Kate has a certain standard of pretty, that is understandable.
Funny how it is not OK for guys to have standards but women ARE allowed to.

One thing Kate - why not at least talk to those women (assuming they are not hookers or fakes) and see what attracts them to CD? I mean the worst that could happen is you may learn something

danielletorresani
07-21-2012, 02:01 AM
That's quite interesting Kate! The first time in my life I've heard of love being based on how pretty one is!

Why are people attacking this? Granted it sounds shallow, but come on! There has to be at least SOME attraction up front. Would you criticize me for being shallow as a 35 year old who has no interest in dating 60 year olds because they're physically a turn-off?

Physical attraction isn't the most important thing, but IT IS IMPORTANT! To most, at least...

Voulez-Vous
07-21-2012, 02:40 AM
3 women emailed me their pics, but they were not pretty enough for me to be interested in them.

Oh boy, I could take this ball and run with it.
Time for some self introspection, Kate...you aren't exactly the catch of the day...

Kaz
07-21-2012, 04:25 AM
OK... my first reaction to Kate's comment was also... whoa! But what is wrong with this? Physical attraction is just that... physical attraction. Yes there is more to attraction than looks and certainly when it comes to love, but most people are turned on or off by looks initially. It may appear condescending, but at least Kate posts her pics and let's people see her/him. And 'not exactly catch of the day' is not exactly politically correct either!!! :)

AllieSF
07-21-2012, 04:32 AM
I bet most "men" are first interested in the look and presentation and then the person behind all that. I know that I am. I need to be physically and then mentally attracted to someone before I would consider them for the long term. If I do not finding anyone that is my problem and not anyone else's. I know it sounds harsh to say it that way, but a lot of women do the same as men. I do think that women from what I have read and heard tend to look beyond the looks and focus more on what is on the inside, who the person really is.

Shelly Preston
07-21-2012, 05:19 AM
Kate

Whenever you put your email out there for all to see you will always get spam

I am sorry to hear you felt the women were not pretty enough for you to consider.

Women come in all shapes ans sizes as well as personalities.

You may find yourself very lonely if you choose to decide on looks alone.

DebbieL
07-21-2012, 05:31 AM
I placed my add in Match.com - I saw that roughly 1000 women had scanned my profile in less than 3 weeks. Several showed some interest, and 6 were interested enough to go on dates, and one ended up becoming my wife.

A few things I have learned over the years. I have found that heavier women, size 12 to 20, can be very sexy, kinking, and really want a partner who can enjoy what they have to offer. My wife sometimes steals my clothes, but she loves the wonderful things Debbie can do to her body.

Traditionally beautiful "fashion model" types tend to expect much more and give much less. They know that they can get a new man any time they want, and can have sex with men or women, any time she wants. Often, they are very selfish, self-centered, and lack compassion for others. The rare treasure is a woman who was once fat and has lost 30-40 lbs and now looks very good. She has the social skills, compassion, and love for others of a Big Beautiful Woman (BBW) and has a body that she wants to show off and share.

Women who are "tom-boys" are often very attracted to cross-dressers and transgenders. They might wear jeans and pants all week, but when they want to party, they love to dress the way they know men like to see women dressed. At the same time, having a boyfriend who looks as hot and sexy as she does creates all kinds of interesting vibes at a party or social event.

In some social events, a woman can get a LOT of offers from other men just by showing a little interest in me for an hour or so. Dancing with me on the dance floor can also be a great way for a woman to turn herself into a man-magnet. Some men think she's open to a 3-way, others figure if she's willing to make a play for me, then she might really want a "Real Man".

Women who are into cross-dressers tend to be much more open minded in general, and often have some kinks of their own. They might like bondage games, or being in charge of it, they might want to play role reversal, or they might wont to "wear the pants in the family", and let you wear the skirt. Some women are looking for a "sissy" they can control, manipulate, and seduce on their terms. If you are open to it, it can be an incredibly wonderful experience. Putting up a little resistance can be good, because it gives her a sense of "challenge". On the other hand, don't resist too much or she might think you can't be controlled and will give up on you.

Halloween is a great time to go to lots of parties and give girls your phone number. This is a time when it's safe to show interest and if you look almost like a real girl, she will be very interested in taking you the rest of the way. I always had lots of interested women when I showed up in the french maid costume. Several of the women wanted to know if they could dress me up and make me clean their house. When I confirmed that I was willing, I frequently got calls later. To them, the fantasy of making a man do housework and women's work, was a really intense turn-on. Seeing me do it in 3 inch heels, black stockings, and a satin dress with a white lace apron - I rarely did more than one or two rooms. Even today, my wife loves it when Debbie comes and starts house-cleaning. It is so radically different from what "Rex" does that she wants Debbie to come around more often. She also knows that when Debbie DOES come around, and does the cleaning et al, that it is DEBBIE who wants to be rewarded, not Rex. That might mean a night out on the town, a dance, or a night of kinky fun and games, but as Debbie, not Rex.

Yes, there are a LOT of women who are attracted to cross-dressers, especially transgendered cross-dressers, who want to be more feminine in all ways rather than just the wardrobe. And they have a LOT to offer to a cross-dresser, if that cross-dresser is willing to be open minded and indulge HER special fantasies and needs.

Foxglove
07-21-2012, 05:38 AM
I remember one time trying to impart some of my wisdom to my son. I was explaining to him, that, yes, every guy wants a gorgeous wife, but that's not the only thing. Because a gorgeous woman can be a right b****, and if she is, she won't be beautiful in your eyes for very long. It may be hard to imagine, but there are certain beautiful women that you wouldn't want to sleep with for very long. My son didn't believe me at the time. He's a bit older now and has had his own experiences. I wonder if he believes me now. Maybe I should ask him.

On the other hand, the last woman I saw that I found very attractive was one who I don't think many people would rate as particularly pretty. As I said on another thread, she was the sort I would call "pleasant". She also had something about her that let you know that she was an absolute sweetheart. She's the sort, the longer you know her, the prettier she becomes. I was going to say, a pity she was far too young for me. Actually, she wasn't. It's just that I was far too old for her.

Best wishes, Annabelle

WifeofWrenchette
07-21-2012, 05:39 AM
I found my CD husband off of Craigslist and I'm not a hooker or scam artist or whatever. I am BBW and also stated that in the ad. Now I've lost a lot of weight, but we are still married 6 years later. Sometimes those ads do work.

luscious
07-21-2012, 05:55 AM
w4t,t4w,w4w


women for transsexual or women for transgendered

those or the search terms to find the women interested in CD,TS,TG,DQ,DK etc


you will get so many more responses if you use the w4t,t4w and w4w search terms

STACY B
07-21-2012, 06:08 AM
Oh yea I agree with alot of yall ,, An you betta not Judge a book by its cover cuz yull get FOOLED . Those little LOVELYS come in all different sizes an shapes an looks ,, Ohhhhh I could go on FOREVER ,,, I like the ones that everyone else threw away ,,, Thats the CRAZY ,,SEXY ,,FREAKY,, LOVEABLE ,,, HONEST,, LOYAL,,, Ones so go ahead an judge um if ya want too ,,I see some of you smart ones dont ,,,lol,, But the one that LOOKS ODD,,FUNNY ,,UGLY ,,, Mite be a diquse ?? Maybe shes a CD ? Trying to look different or makeing herself ugly or unatractive on purpose ? Just to see how shallow you are ? So be careful cuz the GOOD one mite get away ? I look an read between the lines ,,Young old fat skinny pretty ugly ,,Thats all BULL !! Im a big girl/boy ,,,I can break threw all that kiddy crap ,,An peal back the layers an get to the prize inside ,,,An jus see what ya workin with ,,, Judge not less yee be judges ,,,,,,,,,,,LOL,,,,,,,,,,,,,:devil::devil::devil:

BRANDYJ
07-21-2012, 07:39 AM
I know the way Kate said it, it sounded wrong. I wonder if she would have simply said that based on their picture, she was not interested. Or maybe that based on the emails she did not see an attraction. Don't be so hard on her. We all have certain things we are and are not attracted too. I wonder...how many of you will see a woman that you are not attracted to, be it her looks, weight, or even her heart and what she is all about, just to have someone to dress with? Sadly, some of you will. That's a whole lot worse then having looks we like and don't like to ghet involved with. Are we not allowed to be picky?

Marie-Elise
07-21-2012, 08:43 AM
They weren't pretty enough for you?? Wow Kate. I am speechless at how condescending that is. You want to play dress-up and then they have to pass a "looks test"? If you answered their email stating that to them, I can bet they are no longer interested in crossdressers. :brolleyes:

I think that's just physical attraction which we all deal with. It probably could have been stated in a more sympathetic way. Then again, maybe the original poster did mean it that way.

Jackiefl
07-21-2012, 08:58 AM
I have said it before.........If you settle for less than you want...you will get less than you deserve!

Tina B.
07-21-2012, 09:56 AM
It is what it is, at least Kate was being honest, how many times have you said she just wasn't my type, when what you meant was, I want something better! Not that you might not be missing something great by not giving it a chance.
Tina B.

Confetti
07-21-2012, 11:12 AM
I adore cross dressers and usually find the doll side- dress-up side charming and the dude side awful. Craig s list for anything was a can of worms bad and worse people ever.All the other dating sites the people make it clear "fun" what ever that means any more. Even worse was e harmony, where my profile specifically requested those who were cross dressers were welcome above all.The only one it found was never wrote back aside from that it seems a rarity finding hetro cds on dating sites than anything else.

Ressie
07-21-2012, 12:22 PM
If I ever find another SO, this may be the approach to take. I'm at a point where I don't want to date someone for a while, then try to find the right time to tell her I'm a CD. I don't want it to be a secret with my partner, but I also don't want to be outed to everyone. If she rejects the idea there's a good chance she will have to share it with someone. "OMG, he's a crossdresser!"

Badtranny
07-21-2012, 12:47 PM
back in my crossdressing days, (the crazy summer of 2009) I was going out a LOT and my friends would always comment on how much the ladies loved me. A couple of the guys would joke that they were gonna start wearing dresses too. I don't really know why I attracted attention, I was clearly a dude in a dress (still had beard shadow back then even) but I would venture a guess that it was because I was having a good time. It's been said a hundred times, women go out to have fun. If they're not interested in having a good time, they generally don't go out clubbing. My guy friends would hang out around the dance floor and wonder why I'm dancing with three chicks and they're not, and all I would say is, I don't know, maybe because I'm dancing instead of watching.

Ya gotta go where the fish are guys. I'm not even attracted to women but they would still rather hang out with me laughing and dancing than sitting in the corner with Gloomy Gus. The crossdressing is secondary. You guys keep saying it's only a PART of who you are, but many of you (the lonely ones) put it front and center when you're out and about where you could potentially meet someone. "I'm a man who just likes to CD" is a constant refrain around here, but when you meet a potential partner you're more concerned about pretending to be a girl than you are about enjoying yourself. That is NOT attractive. Let your guard down, be vulnerable, be awkward, just don't be SHY. Try and be somebody that a pretty girl might want to hang around with.

Nicole Erin
07-22-2012, 12:16 AM
What if Kate's thread was posted on another forum but by a GG saying she didn't want someone who was broke or jobless.
No one would call her "shallow" or say her standards are too high.

Men want an attractive woman, they do not want to be stuck dating the dogs. No more than than a woman wants to date Mr no-cash.

Vickie_CDTV
07-22-2012, 12:46 AM
What if Kate's thread was posted on another forum but by a GG saying she didn't want someone who was broke or jobless.
No one would call her "shallow" or say her standards are too high.


That is an excellent point, there is a real double standard there. On the other hand, while it is true most people would not say anything to that hypothetical GG, perhaps they should...


Men want an attractive woman, they do not want to be stuck dating the dogs. No more than than a woman wants to date Mr no-cash.

A lonely man might have his individual preferences in a woman, but at the same time, eventually most learn to be flexible. Not completely compromising, but at least flexible.

The pool of GGs who are attracted to dressers is very small, and the pool of dressers looking for GGs is, by comparison, huge. It makes it a buyer's market, and when one is in a buyer's market one learns to be flexible with the terms of the deal; it is just basic economics.

Confetti, you might be able to meet a dresser though this site or one like it, I am sure there are plenty of folks downstate here.

Shananigans
07-22-2012, 01:18 AM
This is preposterous...there are billions of women in the world...I just can't bring myself to believe that out of billions of different women with different views and personalities, that any of them would be interested in crossdressers. And, definitely not a large number out of those billions of women...no way.

Sarcasm aside...

In comparison to men, there are much fewer women online. I bet the pool of women answering crossdressing ads is pretty small. But, this doesn't mean that there aren't women interested in dating CDs. It just means that if this is your method of getting a date with a woman, you may be disappointed. But, I do believe that there are needles in haystacks and that it does happen...but, those are the surprising instances.

I think dating sites are gaining in popularity...however, women aren't really answering those types of ads. Though I am a person open to dating TG people, I am not specifically looking for someone TG. I look for people that share my interests and that are attractive to me...you wouldn't find me answering an ad like yours in a million years. I'm willing to bet I'm not the only woman that is like that. I'm also willing to bet there's plenty of women interested in dating CDs...but, they're not stalking TG dating sites and ads.

WifeofWrenchette
07-22-2012, 01:57 AM
Good point Shan.

Even though I found my husband on Craigs l I wasn't specifically looking for a CD. I didn't find that part out until 6 months into the relationship.

He was, however, looking for a BBW because that's his preference and I just happened to post my ad. The rest is history :D

Shananigans
07-22-2012, 02:24 AM
Good point Shan.

Even though I found my husband on Craigs l I wasn't specifically looking for a CD. I didn't find that part out until 6 months into the relationship.

He was, however, looking for a BBW because that's his preference and I just happened to post my ad. The rest is history :D

Y'all are that needle in a haystack lol. I actually have met one other couple fairly recently that met on CL. I really do hate that site for anything dating related...BUT, I really do see the appeal because you don't have to answer dumba$$ arbitrary questions about your "personality." It would be amazing if more people looking for legit relationships beyond a s*ck fest went on there...but, there's a huge disproportion, so it makes it really hard for people like you two to meet (the needle in a haystack thing).

Fun story...my SO went on eHarmony before we met to see his "match." He did the personality question thing...and, they found no matches for him based on his answers. I find this endlessly amusing STILL...and, it just goes to show how dumb dating sites that try to be legit can be. So, CL has way more appeal because it's free and you don't have to put up with that BS...but, then, you have the endless line of freaks on there. I'm not sure which route I would go if I had to...honestly. It's fun to hear about people that met online that end up compatible...it gives me faith in online dating. My mom is considering this route, and it scares me...she tells me "it's the future" and it makes me feel strangely old-fashioned. So, it's good to see people who actually had it work out.

April_Ligeia
07-22-2012, 03:02 AM
Ya gotta go where the fish are guys. I'm not even attracted to women but they would still rather hang out with me laughing and dancing than sitting in the corner with Gloomy Gus. The crossdressing is secondary. You guys keep saying it's only a PART of who you are, but many of you (the lonely ones) put it front and center when you're out and about where you could potentially meet someone. "I'm a man who just likes to CD" is a constant refrain around here, but when you meet a potential partner you're more concerned about pretending to be a girl than you are about enjoying yourself. That is NOT attractive. Let your guard down, be vulnerable, be awkward, just don't be SHY. Try and be somebody that a pretty girl might want to hang around with.




What great advice. I also don't get why so many here act as if crossdressing is an unsurmountable barrier to dating, I met someone who encouraged crossdressing before I even moved out of living with my ex-wife. And when I go out, I DANCE. Everyone should.

Beverley Sims
07-22-2012, 05:05 AM
Kate, I think you went fishing and then threw the catch back in the water.
That really doesn't work.
For other posters here Melissa in particular has done the right thing.
Gone out and have fun. You dont call attention to yourself and go around sad and gloomy you just get up and go.
The girls will follow and those that are interested in your CDing will be catch of the day.
I practiced this unconciously when I was 20.
I stood out as an interesting individual who could masquerade as a girl and look good.
I did not giggle or do overtly girly things and NEVER talked about myself without being asked.
Always ask others about themselves and show interest in their replies.
You have fun and blend in well because they (GGs) forget about you being a man in a dress and think of you as another person.
You have to make yourself transparent to the rest of the company.
Men included. They will sometimes joke about you and to you, but they accept you as a person, not as a guy in drag.
The bonus, they buy you drinks as well.:)

Donniesr
07-22-2012, 05:41 AM
I've been on c-list, and there is no t4w catagory..also, I've had ads on there in other catagory's, m4w, m4t, even under the casual encounters section,,all I ever got was guys, and girls( if you could call them that), that wanted my CC # and sign up for some xxx dating site..
Maybe I'm just unlucky with all this but spam is spam...when all they want is your money....

sometimes_miss
07-23-2012, 06:04 PM
They weren't pretty enough for you?? Wow Kate. I am speechless at how condescending that is. You want to play dress-up and then they have to pass a "looks test"? If you answered their email stating that to them, I can bet they are no longer interested in crossdressers. :brolleyes:

See, this is what it all comes down to. People simply think everyone should be attracted to everyone, and life simply doesn't work like that. Sue, how do you know what Kate likes, physically? Maybe Kate likes short, fat, ugly, smelly women with bad attitudes and nasty dispositions. And simply wouldn't be attracted to what YOU think is appropriate! What I'm trying to say, is that there are certain things that are basically turn offs for each of us (I find big breasts a turn off for example, would you expect that? Or insist that I somehow just 'get over it', or close my eyes and think of England when it comes to having sex?), and to expect us to simply ignore that would be foolish, because when that occurs, sex simply will never be a possibility, and if that's the case, why would you pursue a relationship with someone like that?

That said, we all know that there are women out there who are attracted to guys who crossdress. There are simply not enough of them, and there's no way to know who they are. I ran two identical ads on AOL when their dating site was active; the only difference was that one mentioned crossdressing, and one did not. The one that did not mention crossdressing got over a hundred hits over the time it was run; the one that mentioned crossdressing, well, I got responses from men, prostitutes, and that's about it. That was back during the height of AOL's popularity, so there were plenty of people on their dating sites. No GG responses. None. Zero. That showed me how many women there are out there for us. So those of you who have an accepting SO, never forget just how lucky you are; you've basically won the lottery, because the odds are pretty much the same!

Sheren Kelly
07-23-2012, 07:13 PM
Kate,

You missed an opportunity in my book. They may have not been apealing to you (based upon an internet pic...like those are ever reliable) but they had the grace to respond to your posting. In a situation like this I would at least exchange a few emails and perhaps meet just to acknowlwdge their kindness and in accepting our uniqueness. If there is no chemestry then, there is no harm/no foul. But if there is some chemestry, it may take you well past the physical to an even better foundation for a relationship.

I do know if you never try, you will never succeed, and if you are waiting for perfection in a mate, you will be waiting a long, long time.

PretzelGirl
07-23-2012, 09:49 PM
See, this is what it all comes down to. People simply think everyone should be attracted to everyone, and life simply doesn't work like that. Sue, how do you know what Kate likes, physically? Maybe Kate likes short, fat, ugly, smelly women with bad attitudes and nasty dispositions. And simply wouldn't be attracted to what YOU think is appropriate!

I am standing my ground on this one. I never said she was looking for pretty by my definition. What she has done is complained for years here how no women can accept her and when they answer her, she doesn't give them the time of the day because "but they were not pretty enough for me to be interested in them". Her words, not mine. Doesn't matter what the definition is. If you want to complain about something and then sabotage it when the good thing comes knocking at your door, you don't have room to complain anymore. There are many accepting people out there. All it takes is a good attitude and a little effort to go out looking.

luscious
09-09-2012, 05:12 AM
I would of wrote you back


I adore cross dressers and usually find the doll side- dress-up side charming and the dude side awful. Craig s list for anything was a can of worms bad and worse people ever.All the other dating sites the people make it clear "fun" what ever that means any more. Even worse was e harmony, where my profile specifically requested those who were cross dressers were welcome above all.The only one it found was never wrote back aside from that it seems a rarity finding hetro cds on dating sites than anything else.

luscious
09-09-2012, 05:14 AM
you have to search in the personnels and type in t4w or and w4t w4w t4t


w4t and w4w or some of the best ways to see

Raychel
09-09-2012, 06:00 AM
you have to search in the personnels and type in t4w or and w4t w4w t4t


w4t and w4w or some of the best ways to see

Not that I am looking, caise I certainly am not, Happily married.
But I tried that search, That take you to a pretty scary place.
I will bet that you will eet very scary people using this avenue.

It was said, get out on the dance floor and have fun. That is the best way to meet fun people.

Jenniferathome
09-09-2012, 10:34 AM
, but they were not pretty enough for me to be interested in them.

That's a bold statement. A Craigslist add is a dubious method to find any companionship so that speaks volumes about you. How about try meeting someone in the real world and get to know them beyond seeing only their face?

famousunknown
09-09-2012, 03:54 PM
But I tried that search, That take you to a pretty scary place.
I will bet that you will meet very scary people using this avenue.


ABSOLUTELY TRUE.
Sure, anyone can get responses on craigslist. I bet these are the same type of people who hang out in adult book stores.

Marlana
09-09-2012, 05:01 PM
I would like to believe this is true. But frankly, the thought of going out into the dating pool these days is more than I can deal with. I just want my wife to be ok with this and support me.

melisa-melisa
09-09-2012, 05:54 PM
Being true to yourself always reduces the dating pool, being anything other than true to yourself reduces you.

KateSpade83
09-09-2012, 06:14 PM
Gee, everyone criticizing my preferences... I'm a good looking enough guy in real life and I can attract good looking enough women too. The problem is my confidence; I'm suffering 4 YEARS of long term unemployment and my only income is my $1135 monthly SSDI. So I don't have the confidence to date the pretty women I want, because my job situation HURTS!

Now you guys all made me look up the pics of these women I rejected; here they are! Let's see if you like them too! I posted the Craigslist ad 8/30/2011

I wasn't attracted enough to these women to pursue them.

Here is the text of my ad:

A Pretty Guy for a Pretty Girl! 42 Wicker Park

Hi – I'm Filipino 5' 4” weigh 160 lbs and look fit and slim enough for my height. I'm searching for a woman around my height too, and if you're a size 6 that would be awesome since I could dress you up in a women's clothes collection of mostly size 4 to 8 stuff. I'm a bit of a crossdresser, and when I put a wig and makeup on I look beautiful and I'm passable enough to go out in public and be treated like a woman. I'm a “straight” crossdresser and I only like women. I'm not one of those lowlife Craigslist crossdressers that post on Craigslist to have sex with men – I'd never do that! I just like being beautiful and the feel of wearing women's clothes. It's a habit I feel like quitting but it's so hard to quit.

I'm searching for a woman 30 to 42 years old and I like Asians the most [I'm 42]. Whites and some Hispanics are ok too. But I want you to have a college degree as I have one too - from the Univ of IL at Urbana – Champaign, - a Mechanical Engineering degree. I don't want someone broke with a $100,000+ student loan either.

So here you see 4 pics of me. Please reply with a pic of yourself too to this ad. If we get along well I have a Skype account where we can do video chats to conveniently talk to each other for free.

My other interests are bicycles, traveling, investing, cooking, and video games.

Now if you see this ad and see me in a workplace don't say “I'm gay.” I've been discriminated and lost jobs because they thought I was gay. I never touched a man in my life and never got funny with them either. I devoted myself to having a career so I can marry a pretty enough woman of my dreams, and when people discriminate me for employment they destroy my dreams of marriage.

So if your tired of macho guys that use and abuse you try a guy like me! Maybe we can be tennis workout partners too! I don't like fat women and send a pic of yourself in your response!

megan163
09-09-2012, 06:41 PM
Wow! Kate, I've read your prior posts and am always amused. I'm not sure but I think it's against rules to post pics of people without their permission. That said, these women are gorgeous. No offense, but I think you need some professional help with relationships or at least an eye exam! BTW, I wish you the best re-entering the workforce.

AngieStone
09-09-2012, 06:48 PM
Hope you got permission from them to post their pictures Kate.

Originally Posted by sometimes_miss
See, this is what it all comes down to. People simply think everyone should be attracted to everyone, and life simply doesn't work like that. Sue, how do you know what Kate likes, physically? Maybe Kate likes short, fat, ugly, smelly women with bad attitudes and nasty dispositions. And simply wouldn't be attracted to what YOU think is appropriate!

The quote had nothing to do with being attracted to them Sometimes_miss the quote was that they were not pretty enough for her, we all know the difference between ATTRACTED and PRETTY, and pretty doesn't mean short, fat, ugly and smelly women with bad attitudes and nasty dispositions. Beggars really should not be choosers, specially without talking to them and getting to know them a little better. All three look attractive to me, and I will guess to most others on here as well. Even if I did not talk to them.

Marleena
09-09-2012, 07:02 PM
Sheesh! If I was single I'd sure be meeting those girls! You're joking right???

roby54
09-09-2012, 07:17 PM
those woman that answer ads on craigslist are mostly scammers and not for real

Marleena
09-09-2012, 07:19 PM
those woman that answer ads on craigslist are mostly scammers and not for real

You're probably right but Kate is judging those based on looks. Ah well..

famousunknown
09-09-2012, 07:32 PM
Sheesh! If I was single I'd sure be meeting those girls! You're joking right???
You're forgetting that these women also saw Kate's pics. Now do you see why they didn't meet?