ReluctantDebutant
07-28-2012, 09:07 PM
Hello I've noticed a common theme in the posts lately regarding society. It is giving me the idea to play devil's advocate and to try to take up the voice of society as I see it. I hope by revealing some insight into societal nature cross-dressers can begin to stop feeling victim to it.
We, society, have noticed a great interest from cross-dressers in our attitudes towards them and their behavior. We are here to tell you that we regard you with a vast great indifference. There seems to be some confusion in your group as to our role in the world. This can be best illustrated by looking at your own subgroup. You gathered here under one specific and single commonality that is cross-dressing. This small thread is enough to hold this small group together but we society have a much larger group so the bonds of that group must be larger and more common and universal. Cross-dressing is not held commonly amongst the vast majority of people.
We do not understand cross-dressing. You could place us in a classroom filled with experts on transgendered issues, you could talk all day about differences between the minds gender and the body sex and how they can be different, but because of vast majority of people are born with their mind's sex and their body's sex in alignment they would never truly understand what it's like at the core of their being to make it a value common in our society.
They're going to be parts of us that tolerate cross-dressing parts of us that hate it and a vast majority of us who will not care either way. For us that can't understand why folks would cross-dress the idea of one's sex is supposed be immutable and unchanging yet the existence of cross-dressers and transgendered can rock that foundation to the core. Whether it violates God's laws or Darwin it does not matter it is hard for the average person to wrap their head around.
Do not mistake our lack of understanding for hate. Do not take the actions of the subgroup known as haters and homophobes for the views of society as a whole. We in society have a variety of ways of dealing with things we do not understand. We sometimes laugh, we sometimes shrug our shoulders, and we can sometimes grow to fear and hate for that thing we do not understand. But these are just parts of societal response to odd things and once added up, it totals to a great indifference by a society. With varying degrees of positives and negatives being taken up by much smaller subgroups. But rest assured that our tolerance toward the actions of the negative group are not held with high regards by us. Violent action from one subgroup towards another is not a value held by society at large.
Cross-dressing is a group with oddities, but society is made up of many groups with oddities. It is not the various oddities that hold society together but the commonalities. It is only with those common bonds can various groups talk to one another. People's differences may work well for bonding within the group but in order to reach out to the larger world they must unwrap themselves from what makes them different and reach out using a common bond.
Remember don't hate us or our game. We are just the collective conscience and values of billions of people around the world. Nothing personal.
On further reflection so I'm not misunderstood about the clarify a few points.
What I'm referring to societal values I'm not discussing law rights or anything written down it is more that visceral gut reaction that a large group of people would have when confronted with a question. Is that instinctive response with little dissent that will make up the value.
Society needs these values to be as common and universal as possible in order to operate. Cross-dressing is not one of these values. This is not to say cross-dressing is evil or wrong it is just not valued by society because it does not provide society with anything good. Cross-dressing is considered a good essay good to the individual person.
We often like to blame society for evils but society is too large for that. Think of it this way, society produced a mass killer at a Colorado movie theater recently but that same society created the large population that showed an outpouring of grief and support for the victims of that tragedy. It is hard to blame all of society for the actions of a few individuals who commit anti-transgendered/cross-dresser violence even though they are the people that haunt our plans to go out in public.
Cross-dressing is a concept very difficult for a non-cross-dressing individual to try to relate to. It is possible for non-cross-dresser to tolerate or understand at a philosophical level especially if he or she values liberty and individuality. But this takes time to get to know the cross-dresser personally. Since it is highly unlikely for everyone to strike up a personal relationship with a cross-dresser, it is more likely that people will not understand and have an instinctual neutral response to a cross-dresser.
If one wants to make bridges with other societies with a greater society one needs to take the common path.
We, society, have noticed a great interest from cross-dressers in our attitudes towards them and their behavior. We are here to tell you that we regard you with a vast great indifference. There seems to be some confusion in your group as to our role in the world. This can be best illustrated by looking at your own subgroup. You gathered here under one specific and single commonality that is cross-dressing. This small thread is enough to hold this small group together but we society have a much larger group so the bonds of that group must be larger and more common and universal. Cross-dressing is not held commonly amongst the vast majority of people.
We do not understand cross-dressing. You could place us in a classroom filled with experts on transgendered issues, you could talk all day about differences between the minds gender and the body sex and how they can be different, but because of vast majority of people are born with their mind's sex and their body's sex in alignment they would never truly understand what it's like at the core of their being to make it a value common in our society.
They're going to be parts of us that tolerate cross-dressing parts of us that hate it and a vast majority of us who will not care either way. For us that can't understand why folks would cross-dress the idea of one's sex is supposed be immutable and unchanging yet the existence of cross-dressers and transgendered can rock that foundation to the core. Whether it violates God's laws or Darwin it does not matter it is hard for the average person to wrap their head around.
Do not mistake our lack of understanding for hate. Do not take the actions of the subgroup known as haters and homophobes for the views of society as a whole. We in society have a variety of ways of dealing with things we do not understand. We sometimes laugh, we sometimes shrug our shoulders, and we can sometimes grow to fear and hate for that thing we do not understand. But these are just parts of societal response to odd things and once added up, it totals to a great indifference by a society. With varying degrees of positives and negatives being taken up by much smaller subgroups. But rest assured that our tolerance toward the actions of the negative group are not held with high regards by us. Violent action from one subgroup towards another is not a value held by society at large.
Cross-dressing is a group with oddities, but society is made up of many groups with oddities. It is not the various oddities that hold society together but the commonalities. It is only with those common bonds can various groups talk to one another. People's differences may work well for bonding within the group but in order to reach out to the larger world they must unwrap themselves from what makes them different and reach out using a common bond.
Remember don't hate us or our game. We are just the collective conscience and values of billions of people around the world. Nothing personal.
On further reflection so I'm not misunderstood about the clarify a few points.
What I'm referring to societal values I'm not discussing law rights or anything written down it is more that visceral gut reaction that a large group of people would have when confronted with a question. Is that instinctive response with little dissent that will make up the value.
Society needs these values to be as common and universal as possible in order to operate. Cross-dressing is not one of these values. This is not to say cross-dressing is evil or wrong it is just not valued by society because it does not provide society with anything good. Cross-dressing is considered a good essay good to the individual person.
We often like to blame society for evils but society is too large for that. Think of it this way, society produced a mass killer at a Colorado movie theater recently but that same society created the large population that showed an outpouring of grief and support for the victims of that tragedy. It is hard to blame all of society for the actions of a few individuals who commit anti-transgendered/cross-dresser violence even though they are the people that haunt our plans to go out in public.
Cross-dressing is a concept very difficult for a non-cross-dressing individual to try to relate to. It is possible for non-cross-dresser to tolerate or understand at a philosophical level especially if he or she values liberty and individuality. But this takes time to get to know the cross-dresser personally. Since it is highly unlikely for everyone to strike up a personal relationship with a cross-dresser, it is more likely that people will not understand and have an instinctual neutral response to a cross-dresser.
If one wants to make bridges with other societies with a greater society one needs to take the common path.