KlaireLarnia
07-29-2012, 06:12 AM
Today I had top go to my local hospital with my wife and daughter. Nothing serious my wife has a routine scan today and I have taken her as she does not drive.
Difference is that I have did not get changed at all. I was wearing the female clothes I put on when I got up (Blue jeans, striped top, briefs, bra, female socks, etc). Okay I put on a female striped hooded sweat top to help cover my appearance a little, but it was very obvious I was not wearing male clothes. I also had my shoulder bag too which I held i my hand as we walked in (I did not feel happy with it on my shoulder).
My wife did not ask me to change and I wonder if it was due to the very low chance of seeing someone we know or if she was waiting for me to make the first move. But either way she seems comfortable with how I look. This is the first time I have been out in public with her in obviously female clothes and had my bag on show rather than being concealed - previously I have only worn female jeans and trainers which at first glance most people ignore and assume are male unless they look a little closer. Anyhow I will talk to my wife later about things as the last thing I want to do is get her feelings wrong on it. There are three other people in the waiting room with me and my daughter while we waited for my wife and bar an initial look, they are happily ingoring me.
My wife is now at a Christening with my daughter (thankfully I didn't need to go for a few reasons so again this may also be part of why I was not asked to change). Also being a Sunday she may have expected the hospital to be empty this morning - which it pretyy much was.
I feel good about this but also a little nervous in case I have overstepped the mark. But I know I can talk to my wife later and will get and honest answer from her. I will post something else when I have taken all that in.
For now. I will just be glad and enjoy the moment. Thought it may be worth sharing something positive for once.
Difference is that I have did not get changed at all. I was wearing the female clothes I put on when I got up (Blue jeans, striped top, briefs, bra, female socks, etc). Okay I put on a female striped hooded sweat top to help cover my appearance a little, but it was very obvious I was not wearing male clothes. I also had my shoulder bag too which I held i my hand as we walked in (I did not feel happy with it on my shoulder).
My wife did not ask me to change and I wonder if it was due to the very low chance of seeing someone we know or if she was waiting for me to make the first move. But either way she seems comfortable with how I look. This is the first time I have been out in public with her in obviously female clothes and had my bag on show rather than being concealed - previously I have only worn female jeans and trainers which at first glance most people ignore and assume are male unless they look a little closer. Anyhow I will talk to my wife later about things as the last thing I want to do is get her feelings wrong on it. There are three other people in the waiting room with me and my daughter while we waited for my wife and bar an initial look, they are happily ingoring me.
My wife is now at a Christening with my daughter (thankfully I didn't need to go for a few reasons so again this may also be part of why I was not asked to change). Also being a Sunday she may have expected the hospital to be empty this morning - which it pretyy much was.
I feel good about this but also a little nervous in case I have overstepped the mark. But I know I can talk to my wife later and will get and honest answer from her. I will post something else when I have taken all that in.
For now. I will just be glad and enjoy the moment. Thought it may be worth sharing something positive for once.