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Anne2345
08-03-2012, 06:13 PM
Over the last 150 days, I have done and experienced a lot of things.

As a result, everything is now different. Of course, I can say the same about the 150 days that preceded the last 150 days, but that is not really the point . . . .

Maybe it’s not different per se, but rather I have become (I believe) a more authentic, honest, real, and truer person. Don’t get me wrong, I still have far to go, but I’m getting there. Or at least, I am working hard towards a destination, whatever that destination may be.

Anyways, back to the theme of 150 days (I’m trying to keep this post short so that Marleena does not have to scroll too much :heehee:) . . . .

March 5th was 150 days ago. March 5th was a magnificent, glorious day for me. March 5th was an incredible victory in my life. March 5th is the day that I walked proudly (if not nervously) into the outside world as my real self. It was huge for me. It was a breakthrough. It was monumental. It had level upon level of meaning for me. And it was just plain right.

The funny thing about March 5th, though, is that is the last time I dressed en femme. I have touched nary a breast form since that day. I haven’t even been interested in doing so. I have not missed it. I have not wanted it. I just have not done it. In fact, I think this may be the longest I have ever gone without dressing since I first began as but a wee little person way back in the day.

This is not to say, though, as I began this post with, that I have not walked further down my path, whatever path that may be. Because I have. I just haven’t dressed. The thing is, as you all know and intimately understand through your own experiences, the clothes, makeup, breast forms, jewelry, and shoes do not make me (us). I make me, because I am me. I do not need these things to convince myself of my Anneness (and yes, I just totally made that word up, but I like it).

Tonight, though, after I complete this post that has unintentionally grown to an exceedingly painful length, the streak hereby ends. And for the first real time within this 150 day span, I really, really want to do this.

My apologies to Marleena and her mouse scroll wheel. I was well-intentioned, girlfriend. I really was . . . .

JessicaVal
08-03-2012, 06:44 PM
I have to say, though I am not Marleena, that I find a certain inspiration and comfort from your story of 150 days. I am on a journey myself, but many days behind. I hope to find myself as you have.

Congratulations!

Marleena
08-03-2012, 07:08 PM
It's okay Anne, I am prepared now. You did well.:)

I'm happy you found your Anneness! For many of us it's more than the clothes and stuff..It's much deeper.:)

docrobbysherry
08-03-2012, 08:22 PM
It's ok, Anne! We all have our fem compulsions to dress AND our, "I've had enuff for awhile!", feelings! I've been looking forward to seeing the girls at the SCC in Sep. I've attempted to book the hotel and flights for 2 months and have gotten VERY STRESSED each time!

Last nite, I decided to skip going this year and felt a HUGE sense of relief! I don't know why and I don't care! I only know I'm doing the rite thing for ME! Altho, Sherry is NOT HAPPY!

Please use my SCC experience as a guide. If it FEELS GOOD, you've done the rite thing! Anne, not withstanding!

LeaP
08-03-2012, 08:31 PM
The funny thing about March 5th, though, is that is the last time I dressed en femme. I have touched nary a breast form since that day. I haven’t even been interested in doing so. I have not missed it. I have not wanted it. I just have not done it.

Me neither. It somehow seems irrelevant at the moment. The last time I dressed was a frustrating reminder.

Let us know how it goes.

Kristy_K
08-04-2012, 12:44 AM
Congrats Anne..... I have gone as much as two years in the past.... But that is all in the past now....