Who do u dress hot for? If u do? (For both CDs and GGs!)

[docrobbysherry]

TSs, please reply, too! (Sorry Bree!):straightface:
I've often heard it said that GGs dress up to look good for and compared to, other women!:battingeyelashes:

So, if u occasionally dress up to look hot, who do u do it for? GGs? CDs? Men? Yourself?:straightface:
I dress Sherry for ME primarily!:D

I know some of u prefer to dress, "to bland(sic)"!:sad:
NOT my style! But, whatever blows your hair back!:thumbsup:

IF u EVER try and dress sexy, who's it for?:daydreaming:

[May(be)]

Myself right now. I'd dress sexy for my wife, if she was into that sort of look on me. Maybe one day, after years of Pavlovian training?

[Bree-asaurus]

Not a CD or a GG... but i'll post anyway ;)

I tried dressing sexy a couple times to try and make myself feel sexier when with my boyfriend but mneh. It didn't really do anything.

I make myself look nice and pretty when going out for dinner and stuff, but I never dress 'hot.'

[kimdl93]

Gosh, I guess no one. My wife and I do like to dress up in matching lingerie, but outside the bedroom it's pretty much all casual, not sexy. Boring, eh?

[Diana Bain]

Dressing sexy at home with my wife is fun and exciting for both of us. In the real world it depends on where we're going...sexy might not be the right word...so l'll just say "dressed to the nines" will do.

[Marlana]

I'm in agreement with May(be). For now, it's just to amuse myself and escape from my alter ego.

[monalisa]

I dress for myself and try to look or at least feel sexy whether it is a bikini, nightee, lingerie or short skirt. It would be nice to be out and find someone who would enjoy a sexy me but their perception is probably not the same. I think natural women like to dress nice and do appreciate men and women noticing. It makes them feel desireable. Otherwise we would all wear gray sacks.

[Mistybtm]

I dress up Hot and sexy for A private date for my male friends, :mooning: But most the time I do it for myself just to see how far I can go and to get some practice in. :doll:

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Sherry, I only dress for myself but I have many styles and moods, Maybe something like sherry herself.

[Ann Thomas]

That's such a good question! I'm not one to dress 'hot' out in public, as you've seen many times, I tend to dress sporty. So, I guess it's for myself when I'm at home. I guess I could use some lessons in dressing hot? :battingeyelashes:

Ann

[Marleena]

Hi Sherry, I don't fall into your categories either. I do like to throw on a short mini dress and heels every once in a while for me. You see I'm getting up there in age and I feel like I missed out on so much of my younger years when life got in the way. I like to see what could have been and it does help a little.

[Brittany CD]

I dress just for me and only me

[Karen_Ski]

Damn you Sherry you made me actually have to think on this one! :eek:My initial instinct was to just say my BF and leave it at that but I realize that as women we not only dress for others but also for ourselves! Why do you think a woman, and I am guilty of this, would change from a pair of old ratty jeans to a nicer, dressier pair to go out even though her destinaton is the drive-up ATM? :D

[Cynthia Anne]

Gee! If I had someone to dress sexy for I would have to buy a whole new wardrobe! So I guess it's no one!

[GinaD]

I dress hot for me, whether it's for the attention I get, or just the feeling I get by feeling sexy.

[bridget thronton]

Not sure I try to dress sexy at all - I do wear what I feel good about wearing

[Diane Smith]

I pretty much dress to please myself, and then make adjustments depending on where I'm going, what I'm doing and who I'm with. Others will have to judge whether any of my looks are "hot," though. My clothes tend to be fairly conservative and business-like, but I do like my heels, nails and jewelry a bit on the flashy side.

- Diane

[joanna4]

I just want to dress better than other GGs. Like how some of the dressier GGs tend to cause others to be envious of her while shes out and enjoys the way she looks.

[Kaz]

I dress for me basically! Although my wife and one daughter know, they don't want to see Kaz. I am not 'out' to anyone else, but I do like to go out sometimes and get back feeling that I looked passable. However, I do like to see nice pics of me and I then like to share them with the members here, so I guess I am also dressing for you? Or maybe it is all for me really and I am just narcissistic :)

I'll be honest... I just love the feeling, but I also like to see the good photos (not so sure about the bad ones... they put me off!)

[noeleena]

Hi.

My normal day to day wear is pretty normal though i do have lovely clothes.

So what changes then when im in my Renaissance garb now thats a little different.

As a wench quite different. ill let others judge me on that the other is as a Chateline lady of the castle very stand out so again ill let others say.
so i spos in my own way im a bit of a show off though its not my intention at all its just im more at home in those clothes . garb. i do have other garb as well .

I dought i could dress ....sexy... even if i tryed , yes i have the figure & thats all.

For who do i dress To show others i have different clothes than normal & im one who does wear them for the populacs er people.yea its fun .

...noeleena...

[Cheryl T]

When I feel like getting dressed all sexy it's for me. It just matches how I feel at that time.
If someone else enjoys it then that's a bonus.

[NicoleScott]

The girl in the mirror dresses for the guy looking at the mirror.

[Gena Gurl]

Good question, first I dress sexy for my self, second for my girl friend and third what crossdresser does not want to be affirmed by an other Gurls ( I think that's why some of us are here)

[Thera Home]

I have no idea :eek:

Thera

[Ressie]

Mostly for myself, and the camera. My photos have been seen by men, women and other CDs online. Dressing classy rather than sexy is something I'll have to work on.

[Beverley Sims]

The only time I dressed to look "HOT" was when I was eighteen.
The Girls my "entorage" six of them, wanted me to look hotter than any of the other girls at a party.
The idea was to see how many of the other girls were made jealous and did their partners turn their heads.
It was a resounding success heads were turned, I was made visible with little fuss. Smiled and talked to the boys in a group around the bar. Made jokes and laughed in a husky voice, I had "Laryngitis". I actually had a boy audience around me as others were curious as to why all the guys were around this girl.
The other girls were in another group asking my friends who I was. They had vague ideas who I was bit I didn't because the left me alone with these MEN.:)
It was at this moment that I wanted to get a bit more practice in being a girl.
I have had plenty now.

[Lorileah]

I dress to please ME first. But I hope the result will be to please others who see me. There are a couple people I really want to please....uh look nice for

[Stephanie47]

Well, I only wear dresses. I'd say I try to dress tasteful in casual attire. That's dresses ranging from just above the knee to mid calf with three to four inch heels. I guess I define 'hot' as being alluring. My concept of 'hot' is that "little black dress" with black hosier and heels with matching undergarments. Being "hot" requires the appropriate deportment.

[cathie pantyhose]

i dress for me...to nervous to dress for someone else

[sometimes_miss]

Unknowingly, I think most women pick out their clothes with a bit about how other women think about them. Think about it; so many women make nasty comments about others and the way they're dressed. The single women DO keep their image in mind when dressing because they're still trying to be attractive to men. Me? I know what attracts women (in general): The look of 'old money'. Casual doesn't do it for every day wear; a nice suit, quality dress shirt, dress shoes, and an expensive looking watch (yes, that means go buy a replica yellow gold rolex, breitling, etc. with a white face, and while you're at it, a real nice alligator leather band from 'thewatchprince.com', virtually no one can tell the difference without you taking it off your wrist and few even then, a chinese rolex is virtually indistinguishable from the real thing until you open it unless you're a watch expert). Sure, you can get a woman's interest if you are built like a pro athlete, but few of us are. But any guy can look good in a nice suit. Good haircut and grooming helps a bunch as well. That all said, I dress for women. I don't give a crap about what men think of me unless I'm at a job interview (I wear the company uniform at work so it doesn't matter there).

[Robinkay]

The girl in the mirror dresses for the guy looking at the mirror.

Iam with Nicole on this one !:yt:

[Janet77]

Just for my camera, and to post here!

[MissTee]

I do it for the wife and for me. That said, the wife calls it flirty. Not hot. :daydreaming:

[heatherdress]

I find that I dress for me. I also always try to dress up in clothes and make up that my wife will find attractive.

[darla_g]

Since i don't dress all the time I go all out. Full makeup, foundation garments and multiple outfits. My wife tells me if i had to do it all the time that would change in a hurry. But i usually only dress if my wife is around so of course i want to look sexy like she does for me.

[Barbara Dugan]

When I dress Hot is alway for a guy...the feeling when a masculine guy express a Wow after seeing me, its really nice

[Miranda09]

When I dress "hot" it's always for myself and then, a fun photoshoot!!!! That's enough for me! ;)

[KellyJameson]

Being out in public and dressing "hot" as you say simply scares me so I absolutely will not do it unless I feel protected by being with people I trust and who are usually
very big.

That said.....

Something creates the mood as if I'm feeling an unusual connectivity to everything like my body is channeling an energy that is coming from somewhere else and entering me at one point and leaving from another so flows through me.

Usually when this mood washes over me I come out of myself where I prefer to live and move out into the world and I seek out experiences in nature, with music, being
near animals, being in water but if it turns to movement such as dance than I wear the clothes that best expresses this sensual energy.

It is extremely private in that even though I may be surrounded on the dance floor by people I'm still dancing by myself in that I seem possessed by it much like how
I have seen people having a religious experience seem to be somewhere else and I have always felt this energy as being spiritual but yet very earthy.

I do not dress "hot" for anybody but will be drawn to it as an expression of something else, it is not done consciously but in reaction to a change that happens on its own that I follow by being pulled. The picture on my profile was one such night when this mood (energy) was flowing through me.

Sorry Doc , Wish I could give you a simple answer but I do not find anything simple about being this way.

[DebbieL]

TSs, please reply, too! (Sorry Bree!):straightface:
I've often heard it said that GGs dress up to look good for and compared to, other women!:battingeyelashes:

This is true, women do dress for other women. The most dramatic example of this is in Saudi Arabia. When in public, the women wear the abaya, a black robe and veil that covers the body from head to toe, and the veil covers the mouth, the eyes, and if a husband things his wife is too beautiful - covers her entire face in translucent sheer veil. The fabric is very thin, even sheer, but opaque, men cannot tell what the woman is wearing under the abaya.

When women go to the family areas of a restaurant, single unattached men are not allowed in the family area. They can only be there if they are there with a sister, mother, wife, daughter, or other close relative. If a single man enters the family area without a female family member, he can be beat up by the husbands, brothers, and fathers of the women who are there, or by the religious police.

Men rarely compliment women on their looks, and when they do, the woman usually assumes that he's making a pass, that he wants what's under the beautiful dress or skirt, and not complimenting her fine taste in clothes. If they know or think that the man is gay, they will accept the compliment as a compliment from someone who appreciates fine fashion, but even then, it's a short conversation.

Women on the other hand, routinely look for ways to compliment each other, and when they receive a compliment they share their little secrets - the store where they got it, how much money they saved, the retail price they would have had to pay, and the likelihood of finding something equally desirable at similar savings. The recipient will then look for ways to complement the other women, especially the one who complimented them. It's one of the ways women bond, a quicker and simpler version of the "pajama party" or "sleep-over" they had when they were young girls doing each other's hair and make-up, trading clothes, and shopping together.


So, if u occasionally dress up to look hot, who do u do it for? GGs? CDs? Men? Yourself?:straightface:
I dress Sherry for ME primarily!:D




I know some of u prefer to dress, "to bland(sic)"!:sad:
NOT my style! But, whatever blows your hair back!:thumbsup:

The term is "Situation Appropriate" - If you are dressed similar to the other 2,000 women shopping in the mall, the attention of both men and women shifts easily from you to the next woman in the parade. There is nothing special about you, so you don't get examined too closely, which makes it very easy for a transgendered MtF cross-dresser or transsexual to easily pass.

On the other hand, if you are the best dressed girl at the mall, with beautiful curly hair that looks like you just came out of the beauty shop, and you are wearing make-up that makes your face look flawless and desirable at the same time, then you will get a LOT of attention, instead of the 10 second look from 20 feet away, you will be studied, and others will even alter their path slightly to get a closer look. They will start looking for faults, for how you did what you did, for pantie lines, for details. If they look long enough, they will see the few bits of stubble, the neck that moves, and eventually the Adam's apple, they may even see the tiny bulge of the tuck, and the lack of cleavage, or the tape lines creating the cleavage under the breast forms.


IF u EVER try and dress sexy, who's it for?:daydreaming:

When I want to dress up, I go to a situation where there will be other beautiful women dreassed in really hot sexy outfits. I personally like to go to NA and AA conventions, dances, and other events where I know that the girls will be really dolled up, and I don't have to worry about what's in the drinks. Sometimes I'll go to lesbian bars, where I know there will be lots of lipstick lesbians, or gay bars where there will be lots of beautiful women as well as lots of handsome men. In the gay bar, I'm more likely to be read as a "drag queen", but when I come back with a soft femme voice, it can sometimes throw them off, since most drag queens are more than happy to let you know they are "men" under that hair and makeup, and that there is something "big" tucked under the gaff.

Often, when I show up at these events, I will get a few compliments, and will share my little shopping victories, and ask them about their fabulous fashions and jewelry. Before long, I'll be hanging out with a group of women, watching each other's purses, I'll even listen to them sharing about their experiences with men, their real desires, and their personal fantasies (not just sexual). There will be gossip as well, but I often ask about what's great about their lives, or who impressed them the most, or what they like about different people. There have been times when I have been in a circle of women for 20 minutes before they realize that I'm a guy, or before they acknowledge it. They often have dozens of questions, which I answer as honestly as I can, and before long, I'm one of the girls again.

I also went to an all-girl school - my freshman year, there were only 25 males in the school, and most of them were gay or in relationships with faculty or other female students. I was a virgin, and before long, they started treating me like a "Little Sister", and even invited me to join as an honorary member of the Mu Phi Epsilon sorority. I was accepted unanimously.

Even when I did have a girlfriend my sophomore year, I was her "lesbian lover", it took her about 3 days to figure it out. I told her I was a virgin when I was ticklish and when I started shaking - convulsing actually, when she tried to reach for my male parts. I was a virgin "from the waist down". I could do wonderful things to her sexually, but would shake when she tried to reciprocate. Eventually her previous boyfriend threatened to kill me if we actually "did it", which have me a legitimate excuse for not needing reciprocation. We'd do a couple of hours of foreplay, then she'd go "earn her tuition" with some man with a large member who could fill her up. After a month, she said "When we're together, and I close my eyes, I realize that you make love very much like a woman" - I gave her a great big ear-to-ear smile - and she smiled back and said "don't ever stop doing that". She kept my "secret" - and we continued our relationship for most of the rest of that year, until she met a man she wanted to marry and we ended it.

That relationship made me officially one of the girls, I could even go on the girls-only dorm any time I wanted, without escort. I even helped some of the girls with hair and make-up, and I even helped them pick out outfits for parties and special events. When someone who didn't know me asked if I was gay, I'd say "yes, I'm a lesbian", and the other girls knew I was telling the truth.

[RachelF]

I dress primarily for me, secondly for my wife (or at least trying to look sexy to her). She told that I look sexy, but I do not know if it is only a way to follow my dressing hobby. I know she likes to tease soft clothes, like satin things.

[docrobbysherry]

Debbie, what an incredible life you've lived! I feel certain I'm not the only one captivated and jealous of your experiences with and as, a woman!


Being out in public and dressing "hot" as you say simply scares me so I absolutely will not do it unless I feel protected by being with people I trust and who are usually
very big.

That said.....

Something creates the mood as if I'm feeling an unusual connectivity to everything like my body is channeling an energy that is coming from somewhere else and entering me at one point and leaving from another so flows through me.

Usually when this mood washes over me I come out of myself where I prefer to live and move out into the world and I seek out experiences in nature, with music, being
near animals, being in water but if it turns to movement such as dance than I wear the clothes that best expresses this sensual energy.

It is extremely private in that even though I may be surrounded on the dance floor by people I'm still dancing by myself in that I seem possessed by it much like how
I have seen people having a religious experience seem to be somewhere else and I have always felt this energy as being spiritual but yet very earthy.

I do not dress "hot" for anybody but will be drawn to it as an expression of something else, it is not done consciously but in reaction to a change that happens on its own that I follow by being pulled. The picture on my profile was one such night when this mood (energy) was flowing through me.

Sorry Doc , Wish I could give you a simple answer but I do not find anything simple about being this way.
Kelly, many may not understand a word of your post. And, while it has nothing to with looking hot, I have felt something, maybe similar, when I've been out in public as Sherry? That means wearing a mask!

For me, it is like I'm enervated with power and strength that I've never felt before! The hair on the back of my neck stands up and I feel capable of nearly ANYTHING! I've never felt like that before in my life! Not with booze, drugs, or jumping out of an airplane!

The first time it struck me was on the last nite of the DLV 2011. The last dinner/party was over. It had been such an incredible experience for me, I felt comfortable enuff to bring Sherry along in my purse and even became her for awhile at the party for pictures with the girlfriends I had met and made there!

The evening ended and I thot I was quite content to return to my room and recall all the wonders of the week. I parked the car in the parking building and walked toward my room. I suddenly felt I had unfinished business! Altho I had walked around in public all week as myself, often alone, it was simply ME dressed to blend, not Sherry!

I became Sherry and turned toward the casino. Walking first, thru the well lit shopping mall in the IP. It was then I was overpowered by this unique and frightening sensation! I walked boldly, purposefully! Anyone that looked directly at me got a stare rite back! I felt pretty. I felt amazing! I felt invinceable! No one said a word to Sherry and no one laffed at me as they had as I walked around all week as myself in a dress. As I walked around in the casino, I asked a couple of people to take my picture. One nodded his head sideways, turned and walked away without a word! The next looked dumb struck but clicked the button anyway! Here's one of his pics!

Since then, I've felt it overwhelm me a couple of times when Sherry's been out in public. To be honest, I don't enjoy, want, or understand it! It scares the daylites out of me!:eek:

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[Jenniferpl]

Only dress for myself. Sometimes for my wife but it has been long time since that has happended.

[DAVIDA]

When I dress hot, it is usually at the end of Summer and the weather is not cool enough for long sleeves, but I wear them anyway.:doh:
It is hot sometimes wearing my wig too.:heehee:

Wait! OH! You meant sexy hot!:eek:
Well, you can see my avatar, I couldn't be "hot" if I tried!:brolleyes:

[Kelley]

I dress for myselfe. When my wife looks at the things I buy she reminds me that I will not look like the models in the adds. I tell her everyone (at least us girls) likes to put on pretty things and feel pretty no matter how we look. Even though the clothes don't make me look like a model they make me feel good about myselfe.

[kristinacd55]

I faced this very question last night before going out.....don't know who I was dressing for but I must of tried on 20 different combo's and still wasn't happy with the end result. Of course, all I did was go to a dark dance floor and dance so who really cared? :)

[Brenda Freeman]

I dress hot for me mainly! I have always enjoyed the view of a hot girl in a hot outfit and I guess that is my motivation plus I love the feel of wearing sexy lingerie under a nice short dress. I take pictures to remind me of the fun and post some on flickr so I guess I dress for others to see from a distance. Would love to dress up with my wife, a fantasy so far but a girl can dream.