How can i pass better?

[KTevolved]

Im pre hrt and am in the process of coming out to the world. What should i do to make myself appear more feminine?

[AudreyTN]

Im pre hrt and am in the process of coming out to the world. What should i do to make myself appear more feminine?

well, until you get on hormones, and start removing that facial hair with laser or electrolysis, there's only so much you can do.

1.) shave everything! except the hair on your head...no not the head down south...the one up north. use the best shaving razor that gets as close as possible, use a good shaving gel or cream, or since im apparently allergic to shaving gel's and cream's i use a body shampoo and it works wonders.
2.) learn to apply makeup.


moisturizer - this goes on first after you shave and rinse/dry your face
Derma Blend - camoflauge creme (it's a rub on type)
concealer - dk brown or red (hides the blue tint of facial hair)
eye shadow base - white
apply a slight amount of derma blend under the lower eye lids on top of the es base
powder
eye shadow
eye liner pen
mascara
lipstick
bronzer - apply over the cheeks in a diagonal motion from the tip of the ear lobe to about 2" from the corner of the mouth, use a medium width sized brush to apply
dk pink or lt red blush - same as above, but just dab real light to give slight color to your cheeks. the diagonal application will highlight your cheekbones and make your face appear a little narrower and more feminine.
carry spot liquid concealer with you to apply later on as your facial stubble grows out during the day. then put a little powder on over it, good to go for a little longer
use a good makeup remover soap each night when you take your makeup off, and then dry your face off real good and then use a clearasil or other facial cleanser at night before bed, and again when you wake up.

clothes


dress properly for your size. get a lady friend who has great taste and knows what you would need to accent your figure properly in a feminine manner.

the rest just takes time, hair removal, hormones, ffs, breasts, and learning how to walk, talk, carry yourself, move your hips naturally when walking, how to "glide" like a lady and not lumber around like a man.


oh and master the tuck as quickly as possible. the better you hide it, and learn to keep it in place, the more believably you will be. :)



good luck!

[Aprilrain]

Start hair removal yesterday!

[Traci Elizabeth]

Do what Audrey wrote. If you are overweight or obese, loose weight. If you lift weights to build muscle mass - stop. Work on your feminine voice night and day and NEVER go back to your male voice. Don't flip flop between presenting as a male and female. If you want to be a female, then be one 24/7. Get your name legally changed. Have all you identifying documents changes to you new court ordered female name and have an "F" for female on your documents for sex.

Oh you don't want to do all of that? Then I suggest you to back to being a CD.