Diana L
08-24-2012, 10:19 AM
My wife has known about my crossdressing since before we were married over 30 years ago and has been mostly tolerant. I have struggled with it my whole life in my effort to accept who I am. It has caused a lot of problems in our marriage and I have been on drugs for depression and have seen several therapists. With the help of my MD and therapist I think I have finally made a breakthrough and can now can finally accept that I am transgendered. My therapist has helped me to see how unhappy I have been and that I need to discuss it with my wife. I love my wife dearly and haven't wanted to hurt her feelings so I have spent several months trying to figure out how to approach it. I finally hit on the idea of researching the web for transgender, gender identity, and gender dysphoria sites. I talked to her this morning and she is going to do some reading and then we will sit down and talk. I don't see surgery for me but I do want to be more open about the woman inside of me trying to get out.
I will post more after we talk.
Diana L
I will post more after we talk.
Diana L