View Full Version : My dream come true!
emmicd
08-31-2012, 06:40 AM
Tuesday I will go to work for the very last day as a male and sadly this will be my last day of employment.
Wednesday I will go to a new job and will be dressing as a woman in public for now on. I have been completely accepted as who I identify as from within and I will be given complete control in how I dress within the guidelines appropriate for a woman professional. I will be working in a medical practice as a controller and will be accepted as Emily from day one.
This is big and I am on my way to transitioning to become a female.
I am so very happy and so excited.
I just need to learn how to address all of this with my teenage son and still be his loving and caring father even through my male to female transition.
I will always love and care for my son.
I will always love and support my wife too.
I just need to be Emily too!
Emily
Pamela Kay
08-31-2012, 07:54 AM
Congratulations Emily!
I'm so glad the fog is clearing and the sun is coming out for you. It's a long road but somehow we are able to find our way even if we sometimes take the occasional detour.
I'm glad things are working out for you.
Serana
08-31-2012, 08:09 AM
It is good to know things are looking up for you honey, and I'm glad you managed to find a new job that is more supportive of your decisions too. Even if they are, sometimes getting a new job is so much easier, because there's less people who know you (or none at all) and it makes life oh so much easier!
As to the family? All I can say is good luck in that respect, and to wish you the very best and hope for it all to go nicely for your sake, and your family's sakes too.
All the best,
Seri-chan~
kimdl93
08-31-2012, 08:10 AM
That's really wonderful, Emmi. I know its difficult to leave a job under these circumstances, but how great it is to be able to start out fresh. I hope every step in your transition goes along as smoothly!
arbon
08-31-2012, 09:51 AM
Wow! That is great. Congrats!
StephanieC
08-31-2012, 10:04 AM
Congrats Emily. Being a Controller is an assume role. I wish you the best in your newest endeavor and a new chapter in your book.
-stephani
That's so wonderful! Congratulations! :)
Diana L
08-31-2012, 10:23 AM
I am so happy for you!
Diana L
I somehow have the feeling that Your son out of all the people you have shared your love with, will be the one who shows you the LIGHT. Don't be afraid for if you cherish with love same shall be granted to you. I speak from experience, my own son who now is 18 calls me MOM, not because I requested such nor even alluded to it, he does it because he sees me for whom I always was, but not the confines of the responsibilities as a male parent, but my love to him, the only pure thing I had to offer deep from my female soul.
Regardless how they address us, if that love was present there is no worry of that love still being there, such is eternal!
Veronica James
08-31-2012, 12:43 PM
Wow you are such an inspiration. Good luck to you and your family and I wish you all the best!! Be proud of who you are and good things will follow!!
Kerigirl2009
08-31-2012, 03:06 PM
That is just wonderful that you are beginning this new chapter in your life. I wish you all the luck I can with your son and your wife.
Are you still married to your wife and how is she dealing with the new you. Does your son treat you with respect or does he not know.
I hope that Emily and family are blessed with love and understanding for eachother
Badtranny
08-31-2012, 03:21 PM
CONGRATULATIONS and welcome to Full Time!
It's the hardest and most wonderful thing you'll ever do.
ColleenA
08-31-2012, 04:24 PM
Given how transition affects every single aspect of one's life, it is wonderful and worth celebrating when any part of it goes smoothly. I am happy to hear that your job situation is working out so well, and it's so nice to see all the support from others here.
Frances provides a good reality check in the thread http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?179984-Transition-process, showing that despite how well one area might proceed, no one has an easy time transitioning. So again, congratulations to you, Emily, on such a major move forward.
:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :eg: :GD: :thumbup: :twirl: :yahoo: :yippee:
emmicd
09-01-2012, 02:07 AM
thank you girls for your continued love and support! i truly appreciate it!
here is emily's fb page!
http://www.facebook.com/EmilyIannielli
Claire Cook
09-01-2012, 05:24 AM
How marvelous that you have found such an understanding employer. All best wishes for the new position ... and the new life.
Marleena
09-01-2012, 05:30 AM
Congrats Emmi! This is a big step for you and you should be proud of yourself. I know I would be!.:)
CharleneT
09-01-2012, 06:25 AM
Good luck, chin up! Congrats !
emmicd
09-01-2012, 06:34 AM
i will wear a nice skirt suit on my first day of work as Emily! I am so happy and so very excited. I will also be the subject of a documentary on what it is all about being transgender that is being discussed and aimed at our community. I have a lot to say and share!
emily
Mia-Ts
09-05-2012, 10:04 PM
I am so excited for you! Congratulations!
emmicd
09-06-2012, 04:59 AM
Today was my very first day of work in Manhattan with the medical practice and as Emily. It was wonderful! I am so happy! I will have great responsibility in my position which I take very serious;y. I also will be reporting to work each day as Emily. This is my life long dream finally coming true! I am grateful to so many who care, who truly care! love,
emily
morgan51
09-06-2012, 07:12 AM
Congratulations Emily ,May your new life be filled with happiness!
Jennifer Marie P.
09-06-2012, 07:23 AM
Congrats Emily on your new self and Im here for you.
emmicd
09-09-2012, 07:56 PM
Thank you girls! i am so happy to finally be me and not have to hide. I will always look forward to sharing with you and listening to you all!
emily
Sandra1746
09-09-2012, 08:57 PM
Best wishes for the new job Emmi. Good luck in your journey.
I wish you all the best of life.
Hugs,
Sandra1746
Rachel Smith
09-12-2012, 05:30 AM
Congratulations Emily, rock on. I am so glad you have finally made it. :cheer::clap:
Love Rachel
Breanna Jaqueline
09-12-2012, 06:07 AM
Emmi, it's Wednesday! I hope you have a super wonderful day and enjoy your new job!
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