I would love to look as beautyfull like the cute girls!

[Gena Gurl]

Ok, like most of us here I think that we want to fraternize with like minded people, right! My question is this, do you (or me) get jealus of some of the really cute and femenine girls here that could be mistaken for GGs? I for one just like to come close to looking like them. I love to go trough the photo sections and admire some of those babes. I know that we have to live with the hand we where dealt, but I try as best as I can to look as good as I can, but fall short. Now don't get me wrong, I love the whole dressup thing and embrace it. How do you feel or am I the only one that feels this way.

[Roni Lynn 68]

:D Ditto :D

For some of us it was not meant to be. Maybe in another life.

[Christie ann]

yes I would love to be a pretty girl but the mirror, photos and even my shadow all scream otherwise.

[CATgirldo]

No Never, I never feel jealous... well except for the Asian girls, they are so gorgeous and petite ... maybe the really skinny girls that were genetically lucky and look like GGs and have smooth arms and legs... and Perhaps the girls that have gone on hormones and had fantastic results... Fine... yes I can hardly stand it some days....<sigh>

Sherri

[Jocelyn Quivers]

Jealous, yes all of the time but in a good way (No mal-intent or anything) more like inspired and motivated. The motivation leads to me saying "I will be as pretty, small, and have as good skin as her one day!!!" "I just have to try a little harder, and practice, practice, practice!!:D

[Gena Gurl]

Jealous, yes all of the time but in a good way (No mal-intent or anything) more like inspired and motivated. The motivation leads to me saying "I will be as pretty, small, and have as good skin as her one day!!!" "I just have to try a little harder, and practice, practice, practice!!:D

Jocelyn, me too I do not mean any mal-intent either and yes me too, makes me try harder, but time is not on my side.

[Michaela42]

Inside of me beats the heart of of a girl who can eat anything, wear anything, and always look fantastic! Unfortunately, the outside looks like a guy who has had a hard life and who cannot so much as sip a beer without adding another inch to the belly. 'sigh'

But it takes all types, right?

[Cynthia Anne]

It would be great to be beautiful! I wouldn't say I'm jealous of the pretty ones! I would love to look that good but, oh well I'm happy for them!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Gena, There are a hand full of ladies on this forum that are way beyond beautiful and then there are the rest of us girls.

[Ashley D.]

I do look at some if the T-girls and think why not me? but I do the some thing with all GGs.
My self I don't care if I'm gorgeous. I would love to be seen as the fat girl,tall girl,ugly girl,or all of the above. all I care about is being seen as a girl!

[paulaprimo]

i'm sure you're not the only one who feels this way, i feel the same way!! there are lots of beauiful woman on here that make me sooooo jealous!!
but thats a good thing because it does make me try harder. all we can do is be ourselves and try our best...:heehee:

[Heather Daniels]

Out of all the members here that have posted pix in the past, I'd say there are only about a half dozen that really,really look good enfemme. Completely passable. Am I jealous....no. Am I impressed...ABSOLUTELY !!

[STACY B]

Yep ,,,Its hell to be so Dam Beautiful ,,, Cursed ,,,Cursed ,,I tell ya ,, Ya win some ,,, An ya lose some ,,, We all cant have the Gift ? Its just Put upon the Chosen Few that can handle real Beauty an Fit an trim Body of a School girl Cheerleader ,, Yes,,,Yes,, I Do feel Bad for all the Ugly Ducklings Out in the world ,, Just crying till there non water proof mascara runs allover there pretty eyes ,,, But the truth of the Matter is strutting down main street Platforms clicking Mini skirt whipping ,,The Faint Swish of Nylons rubbing together hair blowing in the breeze Makeup perfect ,, All the Cat Calls ,, Whistles ,, An of coarse the always Dreaded FLASH-- FLASH--FLASH--Of the Poperrazzis Camera ,,, Is almost to much for a Girl to bare alone ,,, Bam--Bam--Boom--BOOM---BOOM-- WHAT ? Oh Musta drifted off there ? What Day is it Gov ??? Day ? Yes ? Why its XMAS DAY !!!! Sorry ,, Sometimes I drift off while Im on !!!

[Marleena]

Yep..I envy them! All GM's are at a disadvantange right out of the starting gate. Gotta work with what you got to create the illusion. Some GG's feel the same way too when they see a GG prettier than them. It's making plastic surgeons rich.:)

[RADER]

You could gather up the best 100 Plastic Surgeons in the world;
They still could not make me look like one of those petite girls.
Rader

[Karren H]

Passing and being cute is so over rated! So I hear.... lol I never have had that problem going out enfemme...... not that I wouldn't mind it.....

[Kathi Lake]

But if I were beautiful, I doubt I could have attracted my wife. She likes her men, . . . men.

:)

Kathi

[IngeInCO]

But if I were beautiful, I doubt I could have attracted my wife. She likes her men, . . . men.

:)

Kathi
Nice Kathi! And you are cute too

[evadan]

Not jealous but often impressed. Although, I'm 49 now and I'm sorry I missed out on my younger years when when I could have "dressed the part" so much better.

Eva

[docrobbysherry]

Personally, Gena? I don't think CDs care any more about their beautiful looks than GGs do! Because if looks was all they REALLY wanted, they would do more! I care about looks and I'm over 60. Do I cheat nearly every way possible? Yeah! Do I care? NO! Because I LIKE the results!

But, most of u DO CARE! And in the end, MOST r content to simply RESEMBLE females! I understand completely! U aren't willing to spend the time, effort, and artifis I put in to look GOOD! I don't blame u!

PS: You're RITE, CAT! It's the ones with those long thin arms, legs, and NECKS! I just can't copy them and that drive me NUTS!

[Angela Campbell]

When I was little I was told I could be anything I want to be if I tried hard enough......I don't think this is what they had in mind, but I am trying really hard to look like a real girl. And yes I am soooo jealous of the ones who do.....oh I wish I knew their secrets.....tee hee

[Janine cd]

I would love to be as beautiful as some of my "sisters", but it was not meant to be. Even when I was a lot younger, the very physique of my body prevented me from ever believing that I could pass as a real femme.

[Diane Smith]

I am not jealous. I am happy for the girls who look that good, and their appearance gives me both practical hints for what I might do to look better, and an inspiration to try.

- Diane

[Lady Panda]

As a GG ....I am so jealous of some of those Beautiful, gorgeous TG/CD girls ...man some of them are absolutely drop dead gorgeous even compared to GGs. But I don't become obsessed with them.....I am happy for them too....

I have some of the great attributes that they may not have....I have a wonderful brain full of great info, A wonderful caring heart, average looks, beautiful full head of RED hair, and green eyes..and long legs, curvy body (hour glass shape ...perhaps a little to big of an hourglass, good health ....just a little short for my weight ...but alas can't have everything.

[FeliciaK]

As a GG ....I am so jealous of some of those Beautiful, gorgeous TG/CD girls ...man some of them are absolutely drop dead gorgeous even compared to GGs. But I don't become obsessed with them.....I am happy for them too....

I have some of the great attributes that they may not have....I have a wonderful brain full of great info, A wonderful caring heart, average looks, beautiful full head of RED hair, and green eyes..and long legs, curvy body (hour glass shape ...perhaps a little to big of an hourglass, good health ....just a little short for my weight ...but alas can't have everything.

no such thing as too much hourglass figure! take it back i say! (but if u're willing to share i'd gladly take some off your hands :battingeyelashes: )

[Lady Panda]

no such thing as too much hourglass figure! take it back i say! (but if u're willing to share i'd gladly take some off your hands :battingeyelashes: )

I like my hourglass shape i would just like to be a size 10 again.....Still tryign to loose weight ...but i'm having trouble w my thryoid again and put back on 45 of the 65 I lost:sad:
Would gladly donate some of my booty for you if you would like ...i've been told i have bdunk a dunk. lol

[Tara D. Rose]

Yes, I will admit that I have become just a little jealous of some of the pretty gurls on here. I have also become just a little jealous of many cd's I have met in person as well. I know that I shouldn't be, but I do get those envious feelings. It is a little funny though, we will get all dolled up and look in the mirror and think, WOW girls you look good, then we get on here or we go to a transgender event, and then ,well, some jealous feelings come rolling in.
I remember some words I read a few years ago about attending SCC. The words were about go there and be all you can be. Feel free from your closeted binds, emotionally, personally, and spiritually. Do not get jealous if you see others that get the look that you wish you could achieve. And to keep in mind that there will always be others that look better than you do. And for us to keep in mind that there will always be ones that have the better female walk, and talk, mannerisms, but to think in terms of congratulations, for looking like you do. Give applause to those reaching that look that I think we all would love to accomplish, and some of us on here have accomplished this.

I haven't achieved the look that I feel inside yet, I don't think I do too bad, but still a long way from where I wish I was on that scale. I think most of us have felt it in some form or the other. Some cd's are blessed to have what it takes to become a passable woman. But we are all on a scale. I feel that I fit somewhere in the middle,,,,and that good, for when I look at the many,,very attractive passable cd's on here and also at the TG events,, looking upon those that are doing what I wish I could do, I have the first thought of jealousy, but then I quickly change my thought, to congratulations gurl, congratulations with a smile, that I feel in my heart. The thought patterns go just like this, and they fall within seconds, you see the gurl, she looks good, she looks better than you, you feel jealousy, envious, quickly it changes to admiration, respect, a smile, then congrats gurl, you're an inspiration.
On the other hand,,,,,,,,,

[Candice Mae]

It's all because of age and genes. Being younger means you usually have good skin. Genetics if your lucky, you can be a reasonable hieght and smaller framed.

I'm finding every year my shoulders and back seam to get a little wider.

[Rachel Morley]

OMG yeah .. I am jealous of the girls here that are so feminine. They are always younger than me, they're face is more feminine, and they have a slimmer body... but l do agree with Marleena when she says "Gotta work with what you got to create the illusion" and I also agree with Evadan when she says "I'm sorry I missed out on my younger years when when I could have "dressed the part" so much better." OMG ... tell me about it! ..such a missed opportunity for me. Oh well ... it is what it is :)

[Ellyn]

I know I could look good----if I didn't have a pot belly, wide shoulders, narrow hips, short legs, a receeding grey hairline, and a mustache. Reminds me of a situation on a Little Britain show: The "boys" enter a dress boutique dresssed in long gowns and want to try on wedding dresses....."do we have one to fit a short fat bloke with a mustache?"
I would love to be as beautiful as some of my "sisters", but it was not meant to be. Even when I was a lot younger, the very physique of my body prevented me from ever believing that I could pass as a real femme.

[Marleena]

As a GG ....I am so jealous of some of those Beautiful, gorgeous TG/CD girls ...man some of them are absolutely drop dead gorgeous even compared to GGs. But I don't become obsessed with them.....I am happy for them too....

I have some of the great attributes that they may not have....I have a wonderful brain full of great info, A wonderful caring heart, average looks, beautiful full head of RED hair, and green eyes..and long legs, curvy body (hour glass shape ...perhaps a little to big of an hourglass, good health ....just a little short for my weight ...but alas can't have everything.

Lady Panda I'm sure many of the TG girls are envious of you too.:) I can't count the number of times I have seen a GG and wish I could be her. It's crazy stuff for sure.

[Kate Simmons]

It's nice to look nice but looks aren't everything. If anyone would would expect this gal to be a passive fashion plate they have another think coming. I may look like a girl but never said I was a lady and can curse and tussle with the best of 'em. Pretty much what you see is what you get with me. ;):)

[pennitkr]

Tara's comments were spot on!
There's always gonna be somebody:
Richer
Smarter
Faster Car (Guy stuff I Know!)
Prettier
Be the BEST you can be! Thats all ANY of us can strive for....

[donna_tgirl]

I truly believe every gurl is beautiful. A few are physically beautiful, but all of the gurls I've met are beautiful in their own way. It's all in the way they carry themselves and their personality. Maybe I'm in the minority here, but a great personality really turns me on.

[suzy1]

We all want things we can’t have in this life and beauty is only skin deep Gena.

The trick is to let go of what we can’t have and enjoy what we can have.
[Like the 4” heels I have just got off ebay.]:)

SUZY

[noeleena]

Hi,

You have to open my door to see the beauty its not on show ,& sometimes you have to stand back a bit to see it all .

because we dont all have the same beauty = look.= we can admire what each of us has to offer.

...noeleena...

[zorianacd]

Ugly gurls do not exist, just lazy ones. ;)

[Gena Gurl]

We all want things we can’t have in this life and beauty is only skin deep Gena.

The trick is to let go of what we can’t have and enjoy what we can have.
[Like the 4” heels I have just got off ebay.]:)

SUZY

Susy, yes I agree that beauty is skin deep, but what I'm talking about here is visual beauty. Sure we all do the best we can, but if truth be told we all strive to look as beautiful and femenine as we can with what we have to work with. Example: why do a lot of us go (or wish we could go to)to make-over services? well, because we want these services to use all the tools in the box to make us look as good and femenine as possible and most perform miracles. All trhis said I know that most of us will never achive that and are happy to be who we are. I not only believe this true of cute CDs, but GG are no different as their ultimate goal is to look as beautiful as possible (magazines, advertising, movies, tv and so on.)and any one that denies it is just not honest. PS I'm jealusof you I can't wear 4" heels any more. Thanks Gena.

[Bethany_Anne_Fae]

Getting what you want can be a blessing and a curse at the same time. I don't do too bad for almost 50, but because of my youthful face and how I dress for the club scene... I get mobbed a lot of the time so I have had to downplay both just to be able to enjoy dancing.

*hugs*
Beth

[ReineD]

Hmm, jealousy. Maybe I'm an odd duck, but I've only been jealous of the women that my SO, um, admired when we were out somewhere together if I thought that she was developing a crush on them :p Even then I wasn't jealous of these women, I was more annoyed with my SO. lol

To be honest, it took me a while to figure out my SO's motive for admiring these women and they weren't the same motives that propel other men/(women) to have a double take. So all is good now. :D

I see women all the time who are younger than me and beautiful, and it doesn't occur to me to want to look like them. That's because I know that after the first impression, once you get to know someone (no matter the gender), it is their inner self that colors how others perceive them more than their appearance. I've spoken to gorgeous women who really didn't have much to say or who maybe had rather negative personality traits, and I've spoken to beautiful, kind, and intelligent women who would never win any beauty contests. I'd much rather spend time with a beautiful soul.

I know this is trite, but beauty really is much more than skin deep. :)

[IngeInCO]

I've spoken to gorgeous women who really didn't have much to say or who maybe had rather negative personality traits, and I've spoken to beautiful, kind, and intelligent women who would never win any beauty contests. I'd much rather spend time with a beautiful soul.

I know this is trite, but beauty really is much more than skin deep. :)

So well said Reine! I totally agree there is a connection we all make with others. That's what people do and that's how we find friends.