Sooo... Am I a dyke then?

[Myojine]

Before someone starts going "LABELZ ARE BAAAADDDDZ" lets be a bit immature here, and think... Why do labels aka Stereotypes exist, and why am i asking if im a part of one?

first things first stereotypes are bad if they portray a negetive canotation(i cant spell so sue me later) right? but they can be helpful in keeping someones own indentity with in recognizable sectors.

Example, the boy girl binary. As much as we hate the biological gender definition, there is without medical doubt difference between sex organs we are born with, Male and female configurations, without this difference there wouldnt be a hominid that could reprouduce, point made, yes biological male/genetic male these are lables to be applied through unchanging or historical singificance correct?

Now reapply this position to other things. For example Sexual Orientation

Identified male that prefers sexual relationships or mutually benifiting relationships from females is Heterosexual, aka "straight."
Indentified female whom prefers sexual relationships or mutually benifiting relationships with those whom are identified Male are heterosexual.
Correct?

So expand this out and...

A Male to Female transexual whom desires sexual and mutually benifiting relationships from those who identify as female is a homosexual?
^This is the lable im indentifying with.
But Also behavoir, wise. I dont tend to wear girly things, unless i want to wear skirts.
Wears tshirt and pants, hates make up and high heals, prefers to fight and brawl, over being pretty n pink...Cant help her self when it comes to women, hates men only views them as good enough for casual sex and nothing more.

So yeah, Am I a dyke?

[Stephenie S]

Yeah, I guess so.

S

[Bree-asaurus]

A Male to Female transexual whom desires sexual and mutually benifiting relationships from those who identify as female is a homosexual?

...

So yeah, Am I a dyke?

Gay. Lesbian. Lezbo. Dyke. Carpet muncher. Whatever you wanna call it. If you're a chick and you like chicks, that's you! :D

[docrobbysherry]

---------------------------------------------But Also behavoir, wise. I dont tend to wear girly things, unless i want to wear skirts.
Wears tshirt and pants, hates make up and high heals, prefers to fight and brawl, over being pretty n pink...Cant help her self when it comes to women, hates men only views them as good enough for casual sex and nothing more.

So yeah, Am I a dyke?
Since I'm not interested in individuals with penises, u can call yourself a lawnmower, or ANYTHING ELSE, as far as I'm concerned! But, try telling GGs that u wish to date you're a dyke and u MAY receive arguments about that, Myo!

If I understood your post correctly, you're ok having casual sex with men? Nothing lesbo about THAT in my book! I'd usually think u were bi. But again, if u prefer to be called a dyke, "dyke" it is!

[jsunic_1978]

I don't like to penetrate vaginas, but I'm attracted to FEMALES I cross dress part time. am I in the wrong body or do I prefer a T girl since there isn't anything for me to penetrate? If I date pre op, am I considered gay? thank you.

[Bree-asaurus]

I don't like to penetrate vaginas, but I'm attracted to FEMALES I cross dress part time. am I in the wrong body or do I prefer a T girl since there isn't anything for me to penetrate? If I date pre op, am I considered gay? thank you.

Or maybe you don't like your penis?

Interesting thing: One girlfriend I had (6 years I think) said she wished she could have a penis temporarily so she knew what it was like to be the penetrator.

[EnglishRose]

I hate labels too.

/signed a married parent femme trans dyke rock gamer thirtysomething woman

Oh and what Bree said. Your presentation doesn't enter into it (re: my femme partial identity up there)

[jsunic_1978]

No offense taken :) I LOVE MY PENIS. if i were to transition, id still need it so I can play with all of the high heels of women that "ONLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS", its most of them I meet. I really wasn't able to date even before I came out in the open. Its OK with me. I dont stress that. I don't know how to seduce a woman. They shouldn't have to be, they should just be attracted to a man, of course when hese in man mode. I always say id like a friend and possible dating, BAD MOVE!!!! what am I suppose to say???HEY, WANNA TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS??? if i didnt dress, ID BE DEAD FROM A STROKE :) YOU ARE REALLY PRETTY. i cannot tell your a t girl. Id like to date you :)

[abby39]

Or maybe you don't like your penis?

Interesting thing: One girlfriend I had (6 years I think) said she wished she could have a penis temporarily so she knew what it was like to be the penetrator.

"THE PENETRATOR!" The star of the next AVENGERS movie!

I'm attracted to any gender, binary or not. But yeah, I would wrastle THE PENETRATOR, as long as I didnt have to do any of the penetrating. Not into that. No way, NOT ME!

[Bree-asaurus]

i cannot tell your a t girl. Id like to date you :)

I'm not a 't girl.' I'm a woman who happens to have a penis... for now ;)

I'm also a huge b****... I sometimes wonder why my BF stays with me :D


"THE PENETRATOR!" The star of the next AVENGERS movie!

I'm attracted to any gender, binary or not. But yeah, I would wrastle THE PENETRATOR, as long as I didnt have to do any of the penetrating. Not into that. No way, NOT ME!

OMG...

http://www.buzzfeed.com/gregs11/the-avengers-staring-nicolas-cage-4x67

:D :D :D

[Traci Elizabeth]

Call me whatever you want but just know I always keep a smile on my face.

[jsunic_1978]

woman has a peinis or not, there still women to me :) I'm prob, idk what that trem is. it isn't exactally gay nor BI

[CharleneT]

Myojine,

You can label yourself any way you want ;) Lesbians (aka dykes) are not going to take kindly to you calling yourself a dyke if you are also having sex with men. From what you said it would seem you are bisexual.

[abby39]

I'm not a 't girl.' I'm a woman who happens to have a penis... for now ;)

I'm also a huge b****... I sometimes wonder why my BF stays with me :D





OMG...

http://www.buzzfeed.com/gregs11/the-avengers-staring-nicolas-cage-4x67

:D :D :D

HA! I just watched an old movie RUMBLE FISH with the N. Cage in it! He used to be so good....what the hells happened? Nick Cage as THE PENETRATOR....yeah...think I'll skip that. :D

[Tracii G]

Call yourself whatever you prefer but dyke is just kind of crude IMO.
I would consider you bi sexual.
I had my times I thought I was bi/maybe gay but I like women, kissing a guy is not fun for me.
I have dated a few guys and had a few want to stick me with their pork sword but I said Ewwwww take me home.
I will admit I didn't mind getting felt up down there when I had a good tuck that felt pretty good.
That guy wasn't sure if I was pre or post op so he had to check and he did ask you are post op right because it looks like it.
Would I date a T girl sure if I was in boy mode.I do like dating women in girl mode so call me a lesbian.

[Barbara Ella]

I know my feminine is overtaking my masculine. i still love my wife and have no attraction to men. I don't know the label,and don't care, but when i am woman, it will still be my wife. that's life.

Barbara

[jsunic_1978]

I like women period, T girl or GG :) I feel more of a spiritual connection even more so when im in girl mode and I would consider kissing another dresser, has to be 100 percent passable, sorry, no offense while im in girl mode also. Maybe I need that real human connection to be able to go all the way with a GG, but Iv had a lot of clean and consented fun with them :) A lot of my best friends now are GG, THAT FEELS GREAT :) I appreciate everyone's input.

[jsunic_1978]

It feels GREAT exploration the female world shopping for clothes. I sometimes shop for women's clothes in guy mode ;) I tell the sales ladies, yes, there for me and I show a picture of me as Jen. ther are VERY FRIENDLY and glad to help. This may build my confidence to interact while I'm Jen. All the rest of the shoppers smile, COOL, this is something different. I carry my self and appear not to like men, but I'm classy as well. you gals have all been a huge help. sometimes people have small children with them I still get a little embarrassed, but the adults smile like, its ok, just passing by and I get commented, CHOOSE THE OTHER TOP :)

[Amanda_P]

I always called myself a lesbian. But sometimes when Im enfem mode I think about what it would be like to be with a man. Maybe just to be treated as a woman. But as for the penetrater I don't really think I could go that far.

[Myojine]

This thread....made me laugh.



I think yall miss understood. I dont think men are worth a god damn. Casual sex if I had a vagina... MAYBE if he was nerdy...and played video games with me...yeah its called credentials....


CHRIST i still wanna know it it feels like, but men are so god damned ugly DX

[CharleneT]

"So yeah, Am I a dyke?"

in a word, no.

[jsunic_1978]

I wouls be with a cute gat guy if he looks good in a dress :)

[Rianna Humble]

I have two reasons for believing you are not a dyke - the first has already been mentioned by others and that is that you consider men good for casual sex

The second is that your use of the word in this context would appear to me to have the same negative connotations as when I hear men or straight cis-women using the term. I cannot see any positive reason for you to choose that word rather than lesbian but can see negatives to your choice.

[Myojine]

I have two reasons for believing you are not a dyke - the first has already been mentioned by others and that is that you consider men good for casual sex

You guys have REALLY need to pay attention to the English being written..

No I dont think men are good for casuall sex, I think that the only thing men are worth is casual sex. CONTEXTUALLY SPEAKING i think men are a buncha filthy ****in pigs and should all buzz off. unless I want to have sex with one of them...then he better be nerdy...and skinny...


I dont think men are good for anything, except well for making babies...kinda need them for that.

[Bree-asaurus]

The second is that your use of the word in this context would appear to me to have the same negative connotations as when I hear men or straight cis-women using the term. I cannot see any positive reason for you to choose that word rather than lesbian but can see negatives to your choice.

I call myself a tranny... it's a negative word in my mind... and I'm pretty sure I'm a tranny :P

[ColleenA]

... hates men only views them as good enough for casual sex and nothing more.

Let's see. The OP included the statement above. Post 24 included the following:


You guys have REALLY need to pay attention to the English being written..
No I dont think men are good for casuall sex, I think that the only thing men are worth is casual sex. ...
I dont think men are good for anything, except well for making babies...kinda need them for that.

Rather than criticize everyone else because we "miss understood" the statement from the first post, why don't you try rephrasing and clarifying what you mean when you say "only views (men) as good enough for casual sex" and "I dont think men are good for casuall sex, I think that the only thing men are worth is casual sex"? Because I (and apparently many other readers) don't understand the distinction you are trying to make.

What exactly does "the only thing men are worth is casual sex" mean if it does not mean "the only thing men are GOOD FOR is casual sex"?

[EnglishRose]

I'm still trying to actually work out what this thread is about. My interpretation is: I have something in mind. Let's play a mind game. Try to see if you agree with my preformed opinion!

[Kathryn Martin]

The entire thread is abusive and reveals much about the OP. The entire purpose was to sideswipe same sex women, men ....... gratuitous violence


This thread....made me laugh.



I think yall miss understood. I dont think men are worth a god damn. Casual sex if I had a vagina... MAYBE if he was nerdy...and played video games with me...yeah its called credentials....


CHRIST i still wanna know it it feels like, but men are so god damned ugly DX

[Nigella]

and I agree Kathryn. We do have rules about being abusive to differing members, sexes etc and now this thread is done