View Full Version : My name is Kim and I.....
Kimberlyfaye
09-10-2012, 09:21 AM
...find myself attractive.
I just have to confess that I have a crush on my femme self. I look in the mirror and not only do I think this is me and I feel right but I also think she's gorgeous.
Does anyone else feel like this?
And just to be clear, I don't think I'm that gorgeous that my ego gets boosted. Just enough to make me go wow! ;)
Beverley Sims
09-10-2012, 09:30 AM
You look good in your avatar and you seem to exhude confidence.
So go girl go!
Sallee
09-10-2012, 09:34 AM
I think that is a common cross dresser thought maybe part of being in love with the fem form
kimdl93
09-10-2012, 09:47 AM
I only wish I felt that way about my appearance.
Joanna41
09-10-2012, 09:47 AM
If I can get my make-up right so the beard isn't visible then I am usually pretty happy. My wife does my eyes for me....I look like Rocky the Racoon when I do them myself.
Joanna
Tracii G
09-10-2012, 11:00 AM
Interesting premise Kimberly.
I can't say if I look good or not because I still see the boy side in me.
Others say I look so different in girl mode nothing like my male side.
A crush? Can't say I have one on myself.
NicoleScott
09-10-2012, 12:00 PM
Yes. The girl in the mirror likes to dress and make up to please the guy looking in the mirror.
xdressed
09-10-2012, 12:07 PM
I get what you mean, I often look back through some of the photo's and think 'is that really me'? Wouldn't go as far as to say I find myself attractive but the thought 'I think I actually look better than my ex who hated this' as certainly passed through my mind a couple of times. Although that isn't to say the exact opposite doesn't come into my head sometimes either
Marie-Elise
09-10-2012, 12:26 PM
I wouldn't say I have a crush on myself when I dress. But I have looked at myself from the neck down in the mirror and thought that I would definitely not kick myself out of bed. Maybe I am just in lust.
Oh, and once I shave my goatee, add some makeup and shave my legs, I can't promise I will be able to keep my hands off myself. I have been warned. :)
Kimberlyfaye
09-10-2012, 01:04 PM
So many good responses. I think you should all have a crush on yourselves. You're all beautiful.
Beverly, I would say I am way more confident when I'm a girl. I just feel right. So the avatar and the expressions in my photos are far from my male side.
Joanna, I had to giggle at the racoon bit. I don't like people doing my makeup. I flinch :) Although I think I'll have to see what a GG can do at some point. My housemate wants to give me a makeover so maybe I'll take her up on the offer.
Traci, I don't see anything other than a woman in your avatar. But I guess it's the artist who is never happy with her work. You look great to me.
Nicole, that's true. Kim seems to like getting dressed up for me. And so she should, I buy her the clothes!
Madam Rose
09-10-2012, 01:16 PM
you do look pretty. I to have the smae reaction when I see myself. However O do have an ego though mostly because people wanted me to throw it away so they can make me what they wanted me to be.
When I have got it all right and it is working... yeah... I have never thought of it as a crush, but I do love looking at Kaz when she is on form. It is more kind of relating to her than a crush... I just can't wait to see her in the mirror again! I have posted this before, but often I feel that she is the real me and this guy person is the fictional representation... But semantics aside, I know exactly what you mean and the answer is yes!
Kate Simmons
09-10-2012, 01:31 PM
If we are really in touch with ourselves and our feelings, that is a "given" Hon.:battingeyelashes::)
KellyJameson
09-10-2012, 01:42 PM
Life is beautiful when we do not make it ugly and it is natural to want to be a part of that beauty by making our own contribution.
The ability to experience beauty makes the ugliness bearable, beauty is the antithesis of decay.
Gena Gurl
09-10-2012, 02:11 PM
I for one also think to myself "who is that cute girl looking back at me" ( I too don't think I am beautiful) and can not believe it's me and it is mainly because I look nothing when dressed as I do in my male self.
Ressie
09-10-2012, 02:19 PM
Sometimes I look so good (to myself) that I say out loud "you're so beautiful"! Narcissist? yes. But I usually find aspects about myself that don't quite get my best approval. And I'm not fooling myself either. I'm a man dressing as a female, doing my best to create the illusion.
heatherdress
09-10-2012, 05:08 PM
There is personal satisfaction, like an artist who has completed a beautiful portrait. We all should find our new image attractive and sexy.
terri_sandal
09-10-2012, 06:14 PM
Well I think I like myself dressed also but my wife says I look like my mother ,don't know if thats a good thing or a bad thing ?
Candice Mae
09-10-2012, 06:18 PM
A couple times I've had to stop and take a second look when walking by a mirror as Candice. Kind of one "who's that girl" moments when you don't recognize your self in the mirror. I have a huge thing for Brunette's, I do find Candice good looking... But I'm not attracted to my Fem self in a narcissistic way.
Anna B
09-10-2012, 06:23 PM
You do look good Kim.
When I look in a mirror, I think I look good, and nobody seems to disagrees with me!!!
Anna x
Michelle (Oz)
09-10-2012, 07:16 PM
You look good Kim.
Sadly, I see my maleness looking back but that doesn't detract from the joy of dressing. Just motivates me more to lose weight and get more expert with makeup.
It does place my emphasis on blending and makes me appreciate how accepting society is of me when I venture out.
Michelle
I cant quite say I find myself atractive yet, but I get closer and closer each time.
Glendy
09-10-2012, 08:13 PM
I think to myself the more I dress up and the more I practice with putting on make up the more I like what I see back looking in the mirror. So the answer if yes I do like myself in female mode.
Tabitha Storm
09-10-2012, 09:14 PM
I am the same way so I totally understand hat you mean. For the record I say WOW when I look at you too
Kimberlyfaye
09-10-2012, 09:47 PM
I say wow to those heels Tabitha! They're really sexy.
Thanks for all your lovely comments. When I get dressed up all I see is a woman. It's the feeling inside that I'm male which spoils it.
~Joanne~
09-10-2012, 10:58 PM
Unfortunately, when I look into the mirror I see me. I don't see a gorgeous woman staring back at me that's how I know I am not passable. Of coarse my makeup skills are horrible and is the wig I have. Maybe with practice and a better one, it may be different. I'll find that out in the next month or so ;)
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