Ya know.. I saw him as her...

[thewife/soon2bex]

For the first time I saw him as her. He does not know I saw him. :shush: I think he actually looks alot like his sister. I wasn't sure how I would react if I ever did.. but, I think with the support from everyone here .. it was not what I expected. It was not weird, strange or any of that. I actually smiled and thought "Good for him" . He finally is being who he REALLY is. :clap:

:2c:

[AllieSF]

Yes, you see how the initial shock may seem a bit over rated now and a more common sense wait, listen, read, research and then see approach may just help one cross over from the totally unaccepting to a position of better understanding. Glad to see that you are maybe finally getting there. I hope you feel as good as your post seems to portray you right now. Thanks for sharing because a lot of DADT CD's out there can see that maybe patience and taking the go slow approach on their part may just help them over the long term. Please keep posting, the good and bad experiences. It really does help most of us.

[Wildaboutheels]

ALL of your posts from the very start, indicated you were an intelligent, sane, rational person. One who would eventually realize that ONE aspect of a person probably will not change the person inside.

Too bad there are not more Humans [in general] like you and females in particular.

I hope your journey with him turns out to be a great one. He's a lucky guy.

[kimdl93]

That is a remarkable reaction and pretty generous, under the circumstances. A lot of soon to be exe's are considerably less charitable.

[Diversity]

That's nice, and it is wonderful that you are supportive. Hopefully you both are fine, as your name 'soon2bex', indicates to me that all is not as smooth as I am hoping for the two of you. Good luck!
Di

[kristinacd55]

Very nice reaction.....kudos to you! It seems he/she will have a nice relationship with you that's ongoing :)

[thewife/soon2bex]

Very nice reaction.....kudos to you! It seems he/she will have a nice relationship with you that's ongoing :)

He does not want any contact with me. That is fine. I am just very happy for him that he will be able to finally be who he was meant to be.

[Kate Simmons]

You are a good person my friend. I hope things are going well with you.:)

[Maria 60]

I am so happy for you both and you seeing him happy and being himself really sounds to me that you care for him. Love the post one of those feel good stories. Made my day. THANKS.