minalost
09-11-2012, 04:26 PM
First observation:
During a friendly banter match with my wife the other day she made a comment about not liking my hairless “privates” or, more specifically, saying she preferred hairy ones (Over the past year or so I’ve slowly began shaving and epilating away all the hair on my body (from the neck down anyway…). Her comments to date have been more on the order of “observations” than opinions or complaints). She wasn’t making a big deal about it, and she said it with a smile :D, but I’m sure she was serious.
Second observation:
It took me three months to erode my wife’s resistance to me getting my navel pierced (from “No Way!” to “Don’t come to me if you have problems…”).
Third observation:
My wife flat refuses to “let me” get my ears pierced. Sure, I could do it anyway, but I’ve decided to respect her position on this one.
First question:
Would I get the same degree of resistance to shaving, piercing (or for that matter wanting to wear woman’s jeans because they fit better) from my wife if I were not a cross dresser?
For example, my wife owns a number of men’s shirts and wears them without a second thought. They just happen to be a style and color that looks good on her. Nobody calls her a cross dresser. But if I were to tell her that I like a (insert feminine apparel here) and wanted to wear it in public (or ever in private) the fact that I am a cross dresser would, based on my observations, color her opinion.
Back to my specific examples above – all of these things are traditionally feminine forms of grooming or ornamentation; but more and more mainstream men (non-cross dressers…) are doing them. But being cross dresser seams to actually make it harder for me to get away with doing them, at least with regard to my wife.
Does anyone else feel that they have a harder time getting this type of thing past their SO just because they are a cross dresser?
Second question:
Do women actually find hairy privates attractive :devil:? Really:eek:?
During a friendly banter match with my wife the other day she made a comment about not liking my hairless “privates” or, more specifically, saying she preferred hairy ones (Over the past year or so I’ve slowly began shaving and epilating away all the hair on my body (from the neck down anyway…). Her comments to date have been more on the order of “observations” than opinions or complaints). She wasn’t making a big deal about it, and she said it with a smile :D, but I’m sure she was serious.
Second observation:
It took me three months to erode my wife’s resistance to me getting my navel pierced (from “No Way!” to “Don’t come to me if you have problems…”).
Third observation:
My wife flat refuses to “let me” get my ears pierced. Sure, I could do it anyway, but I’ve decided to respect her position on this one.
First question:
Would I get the same degree of resistance to shaving, piercing (or for that matter wanting to wear woman’s jeans because they fit better) from my wife if I were not a cross dresser?
For example, my wife owns a number of men’s shirts and wears them without a second thought. They just happen to be a style and color that looks good on her. Nobody calls her a cross dresser. But if I were to tell her that I like a (insert feminine apparel here) and wanted to wear it in public (or ever in private) the fact that I am a cross dresser would, based on my observations, color her opinion.
Back to my specific examples above – all of these things are traditionally feminine forms of grooming or ornamentation; but more and more mainstream men (non-cross dressers…) are doing them. But being cross dresser seams to actually make it harder for me to get away with doing them, at least with regard to my wife.
Does anyone else feel that they have a harder time getting this type of thing past their SO just because they are a cross dresser?
Second question:
Do women actually find hairy privates attractive :devil:? Really:eek:?