can't get the men out of my head...

[J.Meredith]

Ok is there any one else here that finds men attractive? I'm married right now but I have no for attraction for my wife. Now if I see a cute hunk walking down the street I'm doing my best not to stare. I want to put on some heels, a nice dress and go out on the town to find myself a nice man to take care of me.

[anastasiaprincess]

Ok is there any one else here that finds men attractive? I'm married right now but I have no for attraction for my wife. Now if I see a cute hunk walking down the street I'm doing my best not to stare. I want to put on some heels, a nice dress and go out on the town to find myself a nice man to take care of me.

I felt that for many years hence why my marriage failed i have always felt like a woman now i have "Come out" my life is so much better ! I can go out dressed as a woman, Attract guys and live my life as i want :)

[Bree-asaurus]

Have you told your wife you want to go out and find a man? Is she okay with that?

What does this have to do with being transsexual? Only asking because you are talking about your sexual preference... which might be better in the lounge or something.

[AngelaMichelle]

I have always found men attractive. I was BI way before I started crossdressing. For me the 2 go hand in hand.

[J.Meredith]

Before I met my wife I was just short of living full time in had a full woman's wardrobe. My marriage has been off and on for the last 5 years, I'm not sure if I'm going back to her this time. I'm rebuilding my wardrobe now.

[Bree-asaurus]

Thanks for the additional info :)

You need to do what's right for you. If you're not attracted to her and you don't love her... find someone you actually want and somebody who will want you for who you are.

[JohnH]

I guess I'm different. I find the idea of getting intimate with a man utterly disgusting. I still love and am attracted very much to my wife. That is ins spite of being on M2F HRT for over a year.

John

[Bree-asaurus]

I guess I'm different. I find the idea of getting intimate with a man utterly disgusting. I still love and am attracted very much to my wife. That is ins spite of being on M2F HRT for over a year.

John

I love men! They're so strong and cuddly at the same time!

Thank god half the population likes men and the other half likes women... otherwise we wouldn't exist!

[Sophora]

I love men! They're so strong and cuddly at the same time!


OMG! yes! I wish I could be with one right now. For some reason, the trans part has been scaring them away tho. I am kinda getting depressed about it.

[MaryAnn40c]

I am also bi and I do find some men goodlooking. I did have a great b/f years ago and even lived with him. I was able to dress everyday as a women and he was a great lover/friend/sole mate.

[Badtranny]

OMG I am soooooo straight. How could anyone want a hairy man gross.

Just the thought of a huge man looking at me with lust in his eyes and grabbing me with his giant hands and even though I struggle I am so tiny in his huge arms and then he'll want to do things to me with his huge tool and .... whatever, I love women so much!

[Jorja]

Jorja walks over to J.Meredith opens the escape hatch on her pretty little head and watches 15 guys climb out and go merrily on their way. All better now sweetie?

[Bree-asaurus]

OMG I am soooooo straight. How could anyone want a hairy man gross.

Just the thought of a huge man looking at me with lust in his eyes and grabbing me with his giant hands and even though I struggle I am so tiny in his huge arms and then he'll want to do things to me with his huge tool and .... whatever, I love women so much!

Oh sorry... just got back from petting my man's furry belly :D

If you like women... wouldn't that make you a lezzy? ;)

[Tracii G]

You people are so funny LOL

[LisaMallon]

You beat me to it Jorja, I was going to post something similar. Must be rwally irritating when they play football in there :battingeyelashes: And when they fart .....:brolleyes:

[J.Meredith]

Thanks, it's just what I needed. I think I even slept better because of it thanks.

[ReineD]

Before I met my wife I was just short of living full time in had a full woman's wardrobe. My marriage has been off and on for the last 5 years, I'm not sure if I'm going back to her this time. I'm rebuilding my wardrobe now.

Were you living your life as a woman, or did you simply have the wardrobe? I ask, because you've just posted a thread about being excited over Halloween costumes. Usually it is the CDers who are closeted, who love Halloween since they believe it affords them the opportunity to go out without being questioned. Transsexuals are out all the time (you did post in the TS section initially), hence there is no need to hide behind a costume.

Also, what does ending a marriage have to do with rebuilding a wardrobe? Sorry, but it looks as though you are replacing one with the other and it seems rather shallow. In addition, your sexual orientation has nothing to do with gender identity. You ask if anyone here is attracted to men. Some people are, and others are attracted to women ... depends on individual wiring. And last, what on earth makes you think that it is a man's role to take care of a woman? lol They don't do that anymore. The vast majority of partnerships are dual-income. :p

[Aprilrain]

Just the thought of a huge man looking at me with lust in his eyes and grabbing me with his giant hands and even though I struggle I am so tiny in his huge arms and then he'll want to do things to me with his huge tool and ...

MELISSA!.......get ahold of yourself......your drooling!

I too was wondering what the OP has to do with anything, please elaborate.

[J.Meredith]

I'll explain later on today. I will put my story on my profile page, promise. I just don't have the time to type it out while here at work.

[kimdl93]

People make mistakes. And perhaps your marriage was a mistake. It seems that your interests lie elsewhere. I'll be interested to read more of your story.

[Marleena]

People make mistakes. And perhaps your marriage was a mistake. It seems that your interests lie elsewhere. I'll be interested to read more of your story.



Same here! We need "the rest of the story"... *Gives J.Meredith a shake, snap out of it!* There I feel better now.:D

[ReineD]

Let's just listen to what people who feel this way are saying, rather than trying to excommunicate us from the TS community because we do not fit into the cookie-cutter stereotype of a common theory.

Assuming this refers to me since it is below a quoted post, I'm not excommunicating anyone. Just asking the OP to clarify certain statements and also speaking out against stereotypes.

[abigailf]

A gay friend once told me, if you never tried it, how do you know you don't like it? I looked at him with a blank stare for several minutes - good point!

My wife and I are discussing separation (in a good way). All I could think about is, I am so going to try being with a man.

[cyndigurl45]

I'm not into hairy men, my BF shaves and our GF likes him shaved as well, her and I well were expected to be soft and smooth were quite the trio :-)

[Raquel June]

omg i am soooooo straight. How could anyone want a hairy man gross.

But when i'm dressed like a girl, just the thought of a huge man looking at me with lust in his eyes and grabbing me with his giant hands and even though i struggle i am so tiny in his huge arms and then he'll want to do things to me with his huge tool and ....

fyp :)

[J.Meredith]

Ok, you girls wanted the full story so here is my best stab at it. Almost 25 years of hurt, and confusion.

I come from a home where my mom brushed and blowdried my hair tilll I was in high school. Dad wasn't around much at all, and when he was i got yelled at for crying, and to grow up. In his mind nine year olds didn't watch cartoons. When I played like the other boys I knew I got yelled at for being too rough by both my dad and mom. Most of the time that resulted in my boy toys being taken away, leaving me only with my stuffed animals. The clothes that I wore were slim fitting and girlish,, which I was harassed all through school, I had no saying what i wore. I went into cubscouts and only then did my dad take a interest in me. I made my way through middle school on a wing and a prayer, I had one Guy friend and he didn't even want tohang out withme. I had plentyof Girl firends to hang outwith. At this time I wentinto boy scouts and within a year I had my first gay sexual relationship it lasted for about 2 years. I loved him, but his family moved away. By this time I was willing to try to get agirlfriend because everybody else had "one". I kept getting shot down, girl after girl they just wanted to be friends. All the time sincelosing my gaylover I started wear women's clothes. Sometimes justunderwear, other times other clothing. By the time I graduated high school I had given up on girls. I started reading the gay newspaper atthecommunity collage. I started growing out nails and savingmy money to buy clothing without my parents knowledge. I finially went away to collage 4 hours away within 2 months I had enough girl clothes in my closet that I no longer had to wear my boy clothes anywhere. The only time I didn't wear my wig and heavy, makeup was in class. Soon ask got outofclass on went the wig and some more makeup. My roommates though I was weird, and didn't know what to do withme. After the first year of living like this atschool I wantedto live like this all the time. I went home with the intent to tell everyone, including my parents I wanted to change my nameand start living like a girl.

What happened was I went home andmy friends set me up with my future wife. I though maybe that it might work out so I got rid of all my ggirl clothes. This began a up and down cycle, buying and purging over 7 years each time the hurt and depression afterwards getting worst. Finially I couldn't take it anymore and I had a one night stand with a hunk of a man and loved it that was just over 2 months ago. 3 weeks ago after I finially came clean that I had one night stand she kicked me out of the house.

So now I'm at my aunt and uncles on the edge of going down the road that I started going down so long ago.

Well that is the best I can do for now, oh and sorry for the space bar, my tablet doesn't get it sometimes. I hope this answers some peoples questions.

[flatlander_48]

Thanks for the additional info :)

You need to do what's right for you. If you're not attracted to her and you don't love her... find someone you actually want and somebody who will want you for who you are.

Understand that these 2 notions are not necessarily coincident...

[Bree-asaurus]

Understand that these 2 notions are not necessarily coincident...

I wasn't assuming she felt both, I was saying IF she felt both. All she said was she's not attracted to her.