StaceyXOXOX
09-24-2012, 12:53 PM
Fair warning this might be a long and rambling post.
I've just started to come to terms with my cding side, I've been in the closet for almost 20 years. That's a very long story which I'm sure no one wants to hear all the details. I have not told my wife about this yet and at this point I dont think she would be very acceptive about it. I have been throwing feelers out and they have not come back postively.
Onto the meat of the topic, one of my wife's friends/coworker throw a big halloween party every year which is a big deal for my wife. It's one of the few times a year she really lets her guard down and cuts loose. A few years ago we went as a pimp and his ho. Which was a complete hit at the party. I had on a great pimp outfit, complete with hat and cane, my wife went as the ho and was dressed like a great high dollar one. This year, and to my amazment, I suggested we do the same thing but switch roles, and she said that would be amesome. I'm so giddy about this because for the first time ever someone else will see me "dressed up" and I can still hide my secret for now.
Now my question(s) about this might seem a little strange. As since I've been hiding this side of myself for almost 20 years all I've ever done is wear the clothes, shoes and lipstick. I've never owned a wig or done makeup. My main concern is how far do i get into caracter? I would like to go the whole nine yards. I have a goatee and want to shave it off but my wife hates it when I shave it off. I would also like to shave my legs (for the first time ever) but my wife has already said no on that one. I'm so giddy about the whole thing that I can't stop thinking about it. We have said we weren't going to tell anyone till the party to make it a hit but I've already don't a couple of people just because I can't wait.
So I guess to sum things up, what are some tips you ladies can give me?
How far do I let this thing go without totally outing myself?
What are some ways to cover up facial and leg hair?
oh yeah and I can't wait to buy my dress, my wife is gonna take me shopping for that. even tho she said it would be at goodwill, i still cant wait to get a new dress. She said she is also doing my makeup, thank goodness cause I have no idea how to. and we are going to purchase a wig at a halloween store, I know it wont be the best wig but it's gonna be a first for me so I'm still excited about it.
Sorry for the rambling, hope some of it made sense.
I've just started to come to terms with my cding side, I've been in the closet for almost 20 years. That's a very long story which I'm sure no one wants to hear all the details. I have not told my wife about this yet and at this point I dont think she would be very acceptive about it. I have been throwing feelers out and they have not come back postively.
Onto the meat of the topic, one of my wife's friends/coworker throw a big halloween party every year which is a big deal for my wife. It's one of the few times a year she really lets her guard down and cuts loose. A few years ago we went as a pimp and his ho. Which was a complete hit at the party. I had on a great pimp outfit, complete with hat and cane, my wife went as the ho and was dressed like a great high dollar one. This year, and to my amazment, I suggested we do the same thing but switch roles, and she said that would be amesome. I'm so giddy about this because for the first time ever someone else will see me "dressed up" and I can still hide my secret for now.
Now my question(s) about this might seem a little strange. As since I've been hiding this side of myself for almost 20 years all I've ever done is wear the clothes, shoes and lipstick. I've never owned a wig or done makeup. My main concern is how far do i get into caracter? I would like to go the whole nine yards. I have a goatee and want to shave it off but my wife hates it when I shave it off. I would also like to shave my legs (for the first time ever) but my wife has already said no on that one. I'm so giddy about the whole thing that I can't stop thinking about it. We have said we weren't going to tell anyone till the party to make it a hit but I've already don't a couple of people just because I can't wait.
So I guess to sum things up, what are some tips you ladies can give me?
How far do I let this thing go without totally outing myself?
What are some ways to cover up facial and leg hair?
oh yeah and I can't wait to buy my dress, my wife is gonna take me shopping for that. even tho she said it would be at goodwill, i still cant wait to get a new dress. She said she is also doing my makeup, thank goodness cause I have no idea how to. and we are going to purchase a wig at a halloween store, I know it wont be the best wig but it's gonna be a first for me so I'm still excited about it.
Sorry for the rambling, hope some of it made sense.