Sexy................NOT

[Inna]

Well Inna did the unthinkable! just some time ago I started to go through my attic and have found a bag, full of sexy things I had during my denial/crossdressing days.

Gees, I still have that stuff???!!!

But contrary to my first reaction, which was to throw everything away as it is probably way too big and I simply don't even have an ounce of urge to put anything cumbersome and complicated on, I decided to go through and select few really high quality pieces. When I was a CD I had tons of money for that kind of stuff. Ironic isn't it lol :)

And so after a while of selecting came the time to measure for the fit.........................but this time experience was not a least sexy as I had remembered it from way back.

I had on pretty exquisite garments yet thoughts of inadequacy were poking at me throughout the process. Oh my, look at that, my butt is so flat, no way does that look sexy, Oh my, look at that tummy, who would want to look at that out of the clothing.
Not an ounce of feeling sexy, in fact I felt way more sexy without the garments, bare, nude, simple, fresh.

And so the experience was interesting especially because I have experienced the other side some time ago.

[Cynthia Anne]

I find that quite interesting! It's kind of funny how much we change with age without even realizing it!

[Marleena]

Hi Inna I can totally relate to this! You see I have two identical leopard print minidresses in different colors (black and brown) that I still adore. I bought them in the juniors section because they just screamed out at me. You see they represent what could have been and the missed youth when I decided to reject who I am. I conformed and lived the typical male role instead. So here I am in my late fifties trying to recapture that lost youth through them. When I go out now I do dress age appropriate because I need to blend and not stand out. I'll tell a little experience in the CD section instead about my favorite dresses.

I don't and won't ever be ashamed of being CD/TG for awhile and neither should you as I think it's a natural progression into femininity for some of us.:)

[StephanieC]

Inna, I think this just shows the progress you have made. I consider this a journey: you can't just blink your eyes and get to the destination, you have to pass through many landscapes and I think the experience helps us grow. I think this just shows the growth you've had.

Marleensa, I don't happen to think we need to dress age appropriate ALL the time. Sometimes a girl has to have fun: we're not dead. But I think I know what you mean as a general rule.

-stephani

[STACY B]

They way I see it is just like your parents or grand parents going threw old stuff from back in the day ,,,Times change an so do people ,,You don't feel funny while it is going on cuz everyone else is doing the same thing . Now if you do it now an it's not all the rage than your just going against the grain . Save it might come back in style ,,,Never know ???

[Jorja]

I think the thing is here is it is not just something to do or a game for you. It is reality now.

[Kate Simmons]

If it came to the choice for me to feel sexy or being a woman, I would choose the latter my friend, no contest.:)

[Pexetta]

It was when I developed an interest in unsexy women's clothes that I began to get an idea about who I really was.

[Tammy V]

I used to wear sexy things to help give me the feeling of a sexy woman or to take pictures in them to get reactions from men online or maybe to tease them. Now I only wear sexy things for my boyfriend and for the most part that includes heels also.