Education Needed ?

[STACY B]

Tell me all of you Wonderful Lady's ,, An you may not be able to answer this Honestly ? But after you transition all the way or part of the way an you are just a Mental case or Nut Bag like some people here ? Lets just say ME ! I have been a Goof ball my whole entire life an Trust me when I say I will NEVER change Woman or Man ,,I just have that CRAZY gene I guess ? But back to the question if I were to get some Boobs ,,Breast ,, Ta,,,Ta's ,, What do ya think will happen after I get them ? Just say I grew them ,,I have small ones now but if I some how ended up with a decent pair ,, Do you think that OUR MED'S would prohibit me or my mind from showing them off to people even though I don't drink any more ? Cuz I know how I am an if someone said ,,Hey you look like you have Boobs I will bet the farm that as crazy as I am that I would still take them out an shake them at them for a good laugh . I just don't think that those MED'S could fix STUPID ? An don't take this the Wrong way, I think I maybe a Woman or Girl one day ? But I don't think I will EVER be a LADY . LOL .. Guess that is taught ,, But I am OK with it ,, signed BAD GIRL !!

[Beverley Sims]

I am interested to see what replies you get from this forum on your questions.
From past experiences with a couple that transitioned they went through exhibitionism, being extrovert, and a lot of hating anyone in the world that looked at them.
A quick quizzical glance could get you a mouthful of abuse.
These girls looked good and that is why they attracted attention.
But bloody mindedness, mental cases and nut bags certainly described them for about eighteen months.
I could never refer to myself as anything but a man.
Why, because I was not transitioning and became some sort of freak at times.
Other times I was embraced as one of their girlfriends.

[Laurie Ann]

I may be dense but I do not understand exactly what the question is education relating to what?

[Ashley D.]

Like OMG!
I could really see you doing something like that.
Me I would do anything laugh but I won't do that. Lol

[Jorja]

You are right Stacy, the Meds can't fix stupid! They also won't cure who you are as a person. You are uniquely you. You will still be as crazy or as straight laced and uptight as you personality allows. Besides, I can remember a time or two back when I was young, the boobies might have just slipped out into view. ;)

[Alicew]

Never cease to amaze me with your posts stacy so manic .
To the question i honestly dont think theres many real lady's about these days , but if your proud of your body showing it offs no big deal i supose, im just starting out down the path so the idea of actually showing a single person outside my doctor any part of my anatomy brings out shame and massive embaressment but if eventually i could get the body i think its suposed to look like i could see me getting the twins out for a laugh.

[STACY B]

I had to Bolt but I am back for a min ,, Let me straiten this out a little bit ,, I was in the Doctors office a while back an had leg surgery ,,But before they do it you must under go Ultrasounds ,, For those who DON'T know it is a Camera that looks inside your body ,, So they had to do one on my legs an the lady said here put on this gown so you won't be nude in the room or whatever ,, So I told her don't worry about it an just jumped on the table an covered up with the sheet . Next I had a lump in the ol sack an when I went back to the Doc for my leg check up I told him that I had a lump an he said do ya want me to look at it ? Me an my wife were both in the room an I said sure ,,So I whipped it out an he said where an I grabed them an said here feel right here . He sent me to a urologist so I went in an there was a Woman nurse Prac ,, That came in an ask me what was wrong so I whipped them out again with the door open an people walking by ,,She said we need an Ultrasound so I went down the hall an jumped up on the table an whipped them out again . So I have no problem whipping it or them out where ever or when ever it is nessasary ,, So why would my Boobs be any different ,,I just thought that the Meds mite change my Whipping Habit ? But yall answered it ...THANX !

[Inna]

Hey Stacy, I have read quite a few of your replies here on the forum, you are perky and sort of off the wall personality, don't change that, however when you started on this here subject I couldn't help but be concerned!

Please don't take this wrong, but as I seem to read between the lines, your comedic approach to the subjects at hand may actually reveal a fear of the possibility of which you may not want to acknowledge.
On the other hand, when you speak of meds is it HRT, or something completely different. Taking this thread at the face value, the only educational though that comes to mind is that having body parts often phantasied by fetishistic individual will simply lead to further incongruity of expectation versus reality.
For the fact I know of the individual who, as I have learned was not a TS woman, but a fetishistic TV male, after slew of surgeries and looking like barbie he is in turmoil and we all fear for his sanity.
Body parts will not buy you happiness, further more, this may lead to greater confusion and disappointment and eventually to grave regret!

[AllieSF]

I think that you have gotten a few good replies here. So, now I will try to make mine as good as theirs. First, similar to what Beverly said and from personal experience with a TS friend of mine, she did flash her new man made breasts at me a couple of times when we were first chatting on line and getting to know each other. After two or three times, I told her that I did not need to see them, because I had seen them already and that was good enough for me. From that experience and talking with others, I think that was a personal situation for her where she had finally got a female appendage, which was a validation of who she was inside and she needed to then further prove that to herself by also sharing their beauty and the fact that they were hers with other people. I think she stopped doing that after awhile.

Then there is the situation where someone is just an amateur exhibitionist and likes to show their privates not so much for sexual gratification, but more for the shocked looks they get from some innocent victims to their easy flashing. That is what it is. Now, there are others when in medical situations where they feel no shame to reveal their naked body or parts thereof to those that need to do their job. I think that you might fall into this last category and maybe a little of the amateur exhibitionist one. It generally is harmless and since you have been doing whatever all your life that probably won;t change much. However, for a potential receiver of your freedom of expression, I do not need to see someone else's boobs, new, real, artificial, remodeled or otherwise, unless I am in the mood for it, which probably means with someone I care about. Freedom of expression is a right, but it can and occasionally does intrude upon others' freedoms of peace and quiet.

[kellycan27]

I'll admit that when I got my implants I did tend to flaunt them at times, bra-less, tight fitting, low cut tops, but after a while ..... the novelty wears off as does the attention that comes with doing it. After some time i actually became a little self consious when people seemed to be staring at, or "talking to my breasts" rather than to me.

[Jorja]

I'll admit that when I got my implants I did tend to flaunt them at times, bra-less, tight fitting, low cut tops, but after a while ..... the novelty wears off as does the attention that comes with doing it. After some time i actually became a little self consious when people seemed to be staring at, or "talking to my breasts" rather than to me.

This is the one thing that really upsets me, people (men in particular) talking to my breast instead of me. I have thought of drawing little faces on them and a mouth that moves as I speak.

[kellycan27]

This is the one thing that really upsets me, people (men in particular) talking to my breast instead of me. I have thought of drawing little faces on them and a mouth that moves as I speak.

And.. they are so obvious about it. I was walking in the mall one day and I had to keep looking down to see if perhaps something was "hanging" out LOL

[kellycan27]

I may be dense but I do not understand exactly what the question is education relating to what?

Educating Stacy on boob etiquette perhaps LOL

[Marleena]

Educating Stacy on boob etiquette perhaps LOL

We got an education from Stacy on whipping out the family jewels too.. If you got 'em whip 'em out, don't be shy.lol.

[STACY B]

Fetishstic TV Male ,,,Ohhhhhhhhhhhh Inna B haiveeeeeeeee ,,,, Your making me Blush,,,, I was just wondering if I would get a little more Calm is the word maybe ? Hummmmmmmmm ? Ya feel me Sisstah !! Not so willing to do a little show an tell ? You know ,,I see where ya coming from an you know dam good an well it's hard as hell trying to splain things of this nature on this box when you are shall we say Limited ,,,LOL,,,,, That's the Educational part ,,But thanx Ladys it is well appreciated ,,,SEE what I mean ?? LOL,,,,,,

[Tracii G]

Could you repeat all that? LOL
I can see you doing something crazy like that just let me be there to film it.

[Inna]

LOL, Limited you are not! Funny and quirky...maybe, but not limited. As to spillin your guts here, well, there is a place here around the corner called safe heaven, it is a good place to show and tell and listen, but mostly tell, as it is telling which gets us closer to ....well, US!

[ReneeT]

I'll admit that when I got my implants I did tend to flaunt them at times, bra-less, tight fitting, low cut tops, but after a while ..... the novelty wears off as does the attention that comes with doing it. After some time i actually became a little self consious when people seemed to be staring at, or "talking to my breasts" rather than to me.

Truth be told, I have developed a fondness for tight T shirts when i am not out in public (for very long!). Even though they are on sthe small side, my boobs are real and they are mine! It is very affirming to look in the mirror and see the person with the body that conforms to how I feel looking back at me. I am sure this childeshness will fade over time. I got a tramp tamp a few months back and looked at it every chance i got. Now i hardly think about it. But when i do it makes me smile!

[StephanieJ]

Don't ever change Stacy B. I just love you exactly the way you are!!!!!

http://www.thezooom.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Real-Friends-Show-Me-Their-Boobs-240x230.jpg

(Of course don't show me your boobs on this site or you'll get blocked, but hopefully you'll catch the spirit of what I'm sayin'.)

[ReineD]

One of the TSs at my SO's TG support group had pics on her phone, post SRS. She was as anxious to show me the results (in great detail), as any mother with pics of her new born child. lol She even gave a detailed account of her recovery, just as any mother might regale her audience with a step by step story of her birthing experience. I was happy to oblige, told her how nice her genitals looked and I congratulated her thoroughly. But I've got to say that I'm not accustomed to seeing other women's genitals. p

Keep in mind though, that not everyone will be interested in seeing your boobs and so I would only show them when asked, and in private. If someone just notices that your breasts have grown and comments on them, a simple thank you is sufficient. A comment made in a social setting is not the same as an exam in a doctor's office. :)

[noeleena]

Hi,

Ill just recount my experance in Thailand,

Im not an exhibishinst = sorry if it spelt wrong. nore am i one whos all show'e even in my dress style im not a showoff . very conservitive . to the point of dont like any men looking at my breasts,

While i was over in Thailand i had my surgerys , after that & i was walking again i went down to Patong to see what was there, so i had my hospital driver take me as i was walking around i saw some Lady boys quite a few, some 18 or so . so was able to talk with some ( english ) well a few more came to see me & wondered what i was doing there, my door was my tag , well thier eyes light up oh you have surgerys, yes , can we have a look , well yes so the first group of 8 had a look as i pulled my top up. then said can we touch , yes ,,, then did you surgey down there, yes, can we.........so up goes my skirt. thier eyes & expression was so neat....

Down the road i went after a while saying hi to another group later i met with 7 lovely women . & was asked you surgery, yes , can we.........so again my top surgery & then up with my skirt.

WELL....... the delight on thier faces & expression oh it was so lovely just like it was so natural so lovely, to exprance this you would have to have been there. over the time i was there i met 100 people got to know some lovely women all with in 23 days.

So some of you may think oh yea exhibishinst,,,, well im not . i really am very embarrist showing my self to others , to women thats cool, to men red faced......or blushing. i just dont like it,

Any way it was a lovely time & with lovely people who accepted myself in to thier hearts, what more can i say,

...noeleena...

[Thera Home]

This is the one thing that really upsets me, people (men in particular) talking to my breast instead of me. I have thought of drawing little faces on them and a mouth that moves as I speak.

Wow.......................thats cool:thumbsup:

Thera

P.S. Thanks for the edgumecation thread Stacy:heehee:

[Brianna612]

Stacy B, you remind me of an old friend of mine who transitioned 13 years ago. Very fun to be with and could care less what others thought. She could fart at will, the SBD type (Silent but deadly). Believe me you rode in an elevator with her only once in your life. She was so much fun to be with if you are not easily embarrassed.

I'd say flaunt them if you got em.

[Megan Briana]

Keep in mind though, that not everyone will be interested in seeing your boobs and so I would only show them when asked, and in private. If someone just notices that your breasts have grown and comments on them, a simple thank you is sufficient. A comment made in a social setting is not the same as an exam in a doctor's office. :)

This might be the best way to go. Most of the men I know would jump to see them, and may get the wrong idea. (I am ashamed to say, among these men are my brothers).

ps- Ha for fun sake, I think when I am able to "pass" t.hat I will wait for them to start that stuff on me, then I could kick their a$$

[kellycan27]

I would only show them when asked, and in private. If someone just notices that your breasts have grown and comments on them, a simple thank you is sufficient. A comment made in a social setting is not the same as an exam in a doctor's office. :)

Anyone who asked or just people you knew? LMAO

[ReineD]

It was an off the cuff comment, bouncing off of Stacy's "whipping them out" description in her Low Down post #7. :)