Sit or stand?

[Missy]

When at home and in female mode when nature calls do you sit as a women or stand as a man to pee? This is and has been a question that in my head for a while. Please forgive me if this sounds rude. As for me I sit all the time at home in both modes, and stand while in mens rooms away form home

[Tristen Cox]

Hmmm.... That's an odd question to ask. At home and dressed, I sit, but I just feel this to be proper for a lady or even a girl. Why be different?

[mmandy31]

:D 90 % of the time i sit dressed either way :D

[cuttie]

I sit all the time.

[LilSteff]

I sit when I'm in femme mode.

[crispy]

I always sit.

But if you're not wearing Y-fronts or boxers you don't really have a choice, do you?

Do you know what, I find sitting to have a pee gives me a chance for a quiet philosophical moment. :rolleyes: You don't have that advantage if you stand and have to concentrate on what you're aiming at. :(

[Karenscott]

It has now become subconscious for me to sit . I almost never stand. I feel I am beginning to THINK femme more and more. I am also tucked and or taped almost all the time now, which makes it necessary to sit anyway.

[pedebra]

I always sit when at home or at the office, whether dressed or not. The only time I stand is when en drab in a public restroom.

Debra

[cuza]

i allways sit unless i a in public or at a mates house

[carolynhcd]

I only stand if I have so little time that sitting would be impossible. Since I work in television, that occurs far too often for my liking. How I'm dressed has no bearing on sitting or standing. I read of an Australian medical study a year ago that found that there were significant health benefits for men (of which I must grudgingly admit we are a subset) to sit whilst urinating. Specifically, there was an increase in the amount of urine expelled from the bladder due to the sitting posture and thus lessened the risk of bladder and prostate problems. So, girls, you should all sit all the time and if anyone gives you grief, tell them to piss off.

[Christine1960]

I dicided never to stand again back in the mid 1980's and I have been sitting everywhere and all the time since. ;) The only time I did stand was in Ghana, West Africa at a common male latrine at a rest area where there was no place to sit, everyone M and F would have to straddle or squat over the drain in the floor. :o

[Alicecd]

I sit all the time unless out and the sit downs are dirty and have to go real bad. It just feels more natural to sit now.

Alice

[Debbie61]

Sit.

[SilkenPrincess]

Hi girls!
I have a little secret that I'm wondering if anyone else here shares. It is difficult to put in "proper" language, so I wont try. Simply put, "Do you sit or stand while peeing?" I usually sit, myself, it being the proper way for a lady to do her business. How about you?

[Tristen Cox]

Hi Stephanie, I have answered this one before so I'll give you the link to that thread
Sit or Stand (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1830&highlight=stand).



Love
Tristen

[SilkenPrincess]

I wasn't aware that the topic had come up before! My apologies.

[Melissa A.]

I definitely feel more girly when I sit. But sometimes......have to admit it's quicker and easier to stand sometimes, rather than pulling pantyhose all the way down and back up. Hate to admit that....feel I should always sit. sometimes expediency just gets the better of me. Sorry, girls.

Hugs,

Melissa :)

[Holly]

Sitting is the only way to pee.

[rachel_jean]

I always sit while en femme.

Just seems like the right thing to do.

Rachel Jean

[ChristineRenee]

Sit when at home...stand when in public in male mode.

[Danny]

Always stand....however dressed.

[Tracie Lynn]

I always sit no matter where or derssed or not it has just become natural for ne over the years and when not dressed it keeps me in touch who I am.
Love & Hugs Tracie Lynn

[Wenda]

I started sitting when I had to get up in the middle of the night. As long as you can find the seat, you don't have to turn on the light, so you don't have to wake up!!. Impressed the hell out of my GF the first time I was at her house. I usually sit at the office, but I always stand in public washrooms. wenda.

[Wenda]

I started sitting when I had to get up in the middle of the night. As long as you can find the seat, you don't have to turn on the light, so you don't have to wake up!!. Impressed the hell out of my GF the first time I was at her house. I also usually sit at the office, but I always stand in public washrooms. wenda.

[Maddie Knight]

As girl I sit and as a gut I stand. I don't realy think about it maybe its my subconscious I do a lot of thing different when fem without thinking.
How do I know ?
My fiance points them out to me.

[Kassandra]

I'm a setter, not a pointer!

God, that's aweful, sorry... :o

*giggles*

Tris

[iseiai no okama]

Always sit. Always had.

[Wendy me]

deponds ;) .................... :) ............................. :cool:

[Vickie-CD]

I always sit, regardless of how I am dressed.
Vickie

[Vickie-CD]

I'm a setter, not a pointer!

God, that's aweful, sorry... :o

*giggles*

Tris
Trista, not aweful, I thought it was cute.
Love,
Vickie :)

[Georgette]

Always sit, it is very unsanitary to stand as I have stated before when standing you can splash up to 18 inches, that is about 50cms for you UK girls and that I think is not good hygiene for anyone.

[MissBosie]

I always stand and I'm a gg! Well my mother warned me about all those germs on public toilet seats and standing got to be a permanent habit for me, even at home. :)

[Georgette]

I always stand and I'm a gg! Well my mother warned me about all those germs on public toilet seats and standing got to be a permanent habit for me, even at home. :)

This I would like to be a mouse in the corner and see how you do it. :)

[MissBosie]

This I would like to be a mouse in the corner and see how you do it. :)


I'd describe it for you Georgette if I wasn't a lady, but it's easy, believe me. In fact some public loos in the UK were thinking of installing special toilet bowls to enable all women to stand. I have yet to see any, but then I don't need them, :) .

[Priscilla1018]

I jump up and down and wiggle and shout...

Hmmm, things could get messey. Thanks for the laugh.

Love and Hugs,

Priscilla :D

[angelique179]

I always sit.

[Rachel Ann]

I read of an Australian medical study a year ago that found that there were significant health benefits for men (of which I must grudgingly admit we are a subset) to sit whilst urinating. Specifically, there was an increase in the amount of urine expelled from the bladder due to the sitting posture and thus lessened the risk of bladder and prostate problems.Quite so. Forgive the indelicacy, but as men get older, we have to pee more often, and it takes more effort to get it all out. I have found that sitting rearranges the internal organs in such a way as to put more pressure on the bladder, lessening the problem.

Besides, it makes me feel more feminine!

[Sandra H]

Hi Missy.

I always sit when at home either dressed or in drab, it feels right.

[Sweet Susan]

I used to always stand, but I recently passed out while peeing at night. The doctor told me that standing and peeing can cause lightheadedness, especially when awoken from a deep sleep. So, I've been sitting most of the time ever since. Incidentally, for those of you who have never passed out, such as myself, it is a dreadful experience, and one that can cause permanent bodily damage, such as what happened to me. I twisted my knee, my ankle, and bashed my head thrice on the way to the floor. I hope to never do that again.

[crispy]

how to do it standing up? :confused: I've forgotten. :cool:

[donnie123abc1]

It looks like the "SITTERS" are the real WINNERS here! The last time I tried to pee standing up I made a mess of everything. I must have a lousey sense of direction cuz I was hitting everything but the toilet!
It only makes common sense to be sitting down, thats what the darn thing was designed for. Thats why they put a seat on it. Besides doing number one usually leads to doing number.......( Well you know which number that is ). And nobody wants to do that standing up with your ass facing in the opposite direction!!!!!

Dawn Marrie (Thats Who I Be !)

[BecomingBrooke]

I always sit

[JanineSoCal]

and have from a young age.

I remember that a few people (live-in girlfriends, family, male roommates) have at some point seen me sitting while peeing and asked why I pee sitting down. It was done unconsiously as a preference and not thought of as a distinct feminie activity until pointed out...and no I don't make a practice of going to the restroom with the door open, but sometimes it happens.

I found myself twirling the back of my hair the other day as I observe ggs doing all the time driving and was wondering if any of you find that dressing female has brought out female mannerisms that occur without consious thought? or other mannerisms? Not the question of this thread, but related.

XO,

Janine

[sarah]

Allways sit its the girly thing ;) to do ....

[Elinor]

A Lady sits at all times.

[Tonia]

sit all the time...........:)

[paulaN]

always sit unless in a public reast room. it's natural now.

[Vanessa kitty]

Yes i sit no matter what

[eleventhdr]

I stand most of the time but can sit to pee and it would be a lot better anyway to do this that way really if men could do this i sure would al of the time i'd love to have that equipment myself to be able to do that all of the time sure would be a great relife in more ways then one no pun intended. Suzy!.

[Tristen Cox]

This may help you gals decide :D

[donnie123abc1]

Thats a classic!!!!
lol

Dawn Marrie (Thats Who I !)

[Richelle]

At home I always sit. That way my wife can never accuse me of leaing the seat up. ;)

An most of the time when out in drab mode I also sit. Mostly out of habit I think. When out enfem I sit like the good girl I am :p

Richelle

[Tiffany Tuesday]

I always sit.

But if you're not wearing Y-fronts or boxers you don't really have a choice, do you?

Do you know what, I find sitting to have a pee gives me a chance for a quiet philosophical moment. :rolleyes: You don't have that advantage if you stand and have to concentrate on what you're aiming at. :(


Hey Tamara,

how perceptive of you, i know exactly what you mean, to sit does give a quiet little " pee-time me-time" contemplative moment.

Thanks sis,
hugz xx

[michelle-jean]

what you are saying about sitting or standing?it is better for your body to sit (bladder) what you read i very true.so girls when you can sit.

[StephanieCD]

I've almost always sat 'most' of the time. It's even been a point of contention in a relationship or two. I find it is nice to just take a break for a second. I do, however, stand in public or when in a rush.

I must admit, oddly, that *sometimes* when dressed and the outfit lends to it I stand... for some reason the juxtaposition is sort of amusing for lack of a better word.

[crispy]

Hey Tamara,

how perceptive of you, i know exactly what you mean, to sit does give a quiet little " pee-time me-time" contemplative moment.

Thanks sis,
hugz xx
Tiffany dear, you big sweet dollop of femininity,

I'm not really tamara's alter ego, you know :rolleyes: ;)

............ hey, how do your toes taste I wonder? I haven't had a nibble for ages. I'll bet they're all freshly pink and tender, like a perfect prawn. < :D >

[Serena]

I sit whenever I'm dressed as a woman. I stand sometimes as a man, but not usually anymore.

[Jeannie9]

At home it's either/or. When out it's always stand as I can never trust the cleanliness of the seat. Seen to many of them that were, well, not very clean.

[Rachel Ann]

But if you're not wearing Y-fronts or boxers you don't really have a choice, do you?Well, actually, you do. Guys have been wearing flyless briefs for decades now. When they first turned up in the 70s some called them "man panties".

But that's beside the point. I sit whenever I can.

I have forgotten who first pointed this out, but if you get up to pee in the middle of the night, and you sit, you don't have to turn on the light. So, you don't awaken as completely and it's easier to get back to sleep.

[crispy]

Well, actually, you do. Guys have been wearing flyless briefs for decades now. When they first turned up in the 70s some called them "man panties".

But that's beside the point. I sit whenever I can.

I have forgotten who first pointed this out, but if you get up to pee in the middle of the night, and you sit, you don't have to turn on the light. So, you don't awaken as completely and it's easier to get back to sleep.
I know, I was only looking for excuses to sit down ;)
Since I was old enough to buy my own clothes I have never bought a pair of underpants with a fly of any sort. In the early days, before I admitted to myself that I liked feminine undies, I always bought nylon jockey briefs. Then somebody must have decided that they were unhygeininc 'cos they disappeared from mainstream shops.
And I agree with you about sitting down in the dark. No accidents. I don't like turning on the light either, it kind of wakes me up too much.

[Tiffany Tuesday]

Tiffany dear, you big sweet dollop of femininity,

I'm not really tamara's alter ego, you know :rolleyes: ;)

............ hey, how do your toes taste I wonder? I haven't had a nibble for ages. I'll bet they're all freshly pink and tender, like a perfect prawn. < :D >


Eeeek b-lush throw another barbie on the prawn ... as our Oz sisters nearly say! :D

[sidney_girl]

I'm almost always dressed in my girls' clothing, and I've recently started sitting all the time. Sometimes, though, I forget who I am, and catch myself standing. :(

Actually, I think I'm going to start sitting even when I'm in boys' clothing. It's so much less messy that way!

[susanmaid]

I always sit; it would never occur to me to do anything else. I simply lift my skirt and slip my knickers down so there is no chance of accidentally wetting my clothes.

[Cindy K]

I sit, I feel more comfortable; the only time I stand is when in public loos in male mode.

[racheal]

Interesting question. But I have noticed lately that I subconciously sit, especially when I am dressed. Hmmm. Very intuitive question... :)

[janice4ever]

:) proper behavior is to sit. I feel feme all the time so I sit all the time except when in public bathroom.would rather sit but what would those male pigs think of me

[Tiffany Tuesday]

Sitting or standing ...

.. and the whole feminine ritual too:

1/ always "pay a visit" with a girlfriend (to gossip in front of the mirror as you repair your lippy)

2/ boys may go "splash their boots" or "point percy at the porcelain"
but us girlies are rather less brutal:

-off to powder my nose
-visit the little girls room
-need a quick pee (why do we say quick?)
-must go for a tinkle
-where's the little room?
.. what phrase do you use?

3/ and why do 10 out of 10 girls check their butt in the mirror? One reason i now know, is to check you have not tucked your skirt into the back of your pantyhose ... mega embarassing to wiggle out showing your pantied behind to the world :)


hugz x

[Stormgirl]

Mmm I usually sit down unless Im at school or any other place that isnt int he comforts of my house. Do any of you catch yourself putting your legs close together when sitting down?

[Wendy me]

like always setting da..........i mean that standing thingy .........well that just makes you a guy in a dress and thats like so wrong for like so manny reasons...............

[Stephanie]

Even before I started cd-ing and pretty much ever since I was a young kid, I've become more of a "sitter." I actually find it difficult to pee standing and it usually ends up going everywhere so I just find it easier to sit so with me cd-ing now it is not a new experience for me by any means.

[Samantha Jane]

I have been sitting for sometime now, what ever mode of dress I'm in (unless the situation warrents that I stand). The wife does not realize that I sit, she just thinks she has trained me well. Ie: putting the seat back down whe I have finished. :D :D

Charlotte xx

[AussieRhonda]

Sit
and when I`m out as femme and go to the bathroom I make sure I pee down into the water and stop and regulate ( as only boys can do ) so the gg`s hear . Do you ever get admiring, and jealous, glances for having fantastic PC muscle control!!
Rhonda

[Tiffy]

I sit, i think it's kinda subconsious, if you pee standing up you probably still see urself as a man more than a lady......that is unless you have to


This has never crossed my mind. It is a very good point. I have never sat down before. But I will tonight.

Thanks sis,
April

[Alison9009]

Hi.
I always sit when dressed. It is surely the only way to do it! It also adds to the atmosphere and I feel more girly.

Love and Hugs

Alison

[MsMichelle]

I think this question could in fact be taken a little further. When you are enfemme in public, which washroom do you use Men's or Women's?
If most of you are like me, when I am out in public enfemme I always use the women's washroom.
I have always believed that the best possible way to pass and present the best possible image is to blend in. That said, when in a Women's washroom how well do you suppose you would blend in if a GG came into the washroom and saw heels pointed at the toilet and heard the sound of tinkling? Needless to say she would most likely leave and come back with mangement or security. However, that said, at least in several Canadian Provinces (BC & Ont) the law is pretty clear since Gender Identity came to being. "You may use the washroom of the gender in which you are presenting yourself" So while you may well have law on your side, it wouldn't resolve the immediate issue of possible embarrasement.
Personally, I only stand in a Men's Public washroon while in drab mode.