My Quandary.......???

[chloe44c]

I know this has all been probably been said before but I really am stuck and not sure where to go or what to do..... I have always known that I like dressing in fem but have only really embraced it in the last couple years... I have told a few on my friends that are girls and the have all been great in helping me with anything I need. Giving me lessons in make up and everything. I even started this summer to go out a little... the biggest problem I have is that I live in a small town like less then 5,000 people I help do a lot of stuff at the school and am out in the public a lot. When I go out in fem is when I go to a different town about 4 hours away. But recently the urge has been so high it is driving me nuts.... I will be at work and all i can think about are wearing my 5 inch heels!!!! I dress all the time when I am at home but I just do not know what to do make the urges at a lesser degree or so that I don't feel so conflicted all the time....!!! Any thoughts would be helpful......

[Alexisninsar]

I understand the "joys" Sarcasm, of living in a small town. What has helped me is, under-dressing, Cami, panties and socks, also girl jeans all, I think I only have one pair of guy jeans left.

[sherri]

you're just going through a patch of pink fog. the daily reinforcement doesn't help. just try focusing on other things and save the femme stuff for your trips to the city.

[Beverley Sims]

Stay away from your home town and live safe..... 4 miles away.
It will be less frustrating.

[Karren H]

I grew up in a small farming village of 1,400.... and it was awful.... everyone knew everyone else's business.... and gossiping was an olympic sport.... I'm so happy living on the outskirts of a smallish city (1.1 million being smallish) and love being able to go out somewhere minutes away and not know anyone.... so personally if you have nothing like a wife and family to tie you down.... consider moving......

[Megan Briana]

I understand the "joys" Sarcasm, of living in a small town. What has helped me is, under-dressing, Cami, panties and socks, also girl jeans all, I think I only have one pair of guy jeans left.

I have been doing this for a while, and it goes a long way.

[kimdl93]

wow...not sure how to handle that. Perhaps underdressing might help.

[JamieQ]

How about living in a town of 900? I did but now live in a town of 15,000. I know alot of people but hardly ever bump into anyone I know. The majority of my crossdressing is done an hour away after college. I have walked around my town in the neighbourhoods and the parks. I do not believe I would even be recognized by anyone. :D

[noeleena]

Hi,

A little different.

We have 3 500, people here in Waimate , & i was known by quite a few 18 years ago. as a percived male . best wording i can use,

At the same time i told Jos i was really a woman. intersexed. so not long after that i said there will be a few changes, so that took place,
about 4 / 5 years ago i joined up with our group we dress in Edwardian clothes & are very well known . & we do a lot of things with other groups as well so we have a good name. far & wide,

On one morning we went to a church meeting there were 11 of us mixed in with other church goers, some 60 , after the service the chaplin was talking with me & said do i get dressed up for the group & i said oh yes im part of the group. he then asked as a male you dress just for the group. well yes & im allso a woman.......oh .....i thought you were a male , i said well yes & no, im intersexed, . oh...... that explains it then. he thought i just dressed for the group. & was a male.

So you see being different can be fun. well it is for this kid,. so what does that say , you can be accepted like i am ,

Or you can get all hot under the coller & say not nice things & be thought of as an idiot & be one , or help others to know we can be different yet get on with others in a way that says wow, these people may be different yet they are so nice,

any way a little more to share,

...noeleena...

[Foxglove]

I live in a very small town, too. I hesitate, I waffle, I don't know what to do. Sometimes I tell myself, "Sure, it'll be OK, what's going to happen? This is a nice, quiet town." Then at other times I say, "Are you insane? Do you think the people of this sleepy, little, one-horse town are going to like that kind of stuff?"

So I don't know. I'd like to get out, but you only get one chance. If they don't like it, things could be tough afterwards.

Annabelle