Went out, met an admirer last night!

[Alice Torn]

Secont time i have met one. I modeled three of my sleeveless dresses , with hose and black high heels, and my longer blonde wig. Danced in front of him. He as serious leg, back problems, and couldn't dance or walk much. I let him massage my legs, and i massaged him some, and shared soe touching, and talking. I left after a few hours, and drove home, in my dress, and stopped at the post office, looked in my po box, then drove home, and walked to my door, at 6 Am. Oh, i had emailed a lot with him, and decided he was a safe person. We met at the motel he was staying at for the weekend, as he was visiting from another state, for a wedding. Being cautious is always best, and i was.

[whowhatwhen]

Congrats!
Sounds like you had a fun time, but I have to ask... Was he hot?

:P

[Alice Torn]

The fellow has a lot of health problems, , just an average middle age fellow with a spare tire. He has had a tough life, lots of physical pain. He enjoyed the touching.

I would much rather meet a female admirer, than a man. I still am very leery and cautious about men. It was fulfilling a need, to model three dresses for a man, though!

[paulaprimo]

good for you! nothing wrong with that as long as you felt comfortable and safe.
i think its reassuring when a man notices and takes some interest!
and since he has leg problems i'm sure that you could of out run him if things got outta hand...lol :)

[dragdoll]

Yeah that's pretty cool. I usually get creeps that have no idea how to approach a CD/TV/TS or just the "thousand-yard stare". Female admirers are always nice so long as they aren't doing that patronizing "you go girl!" BS.

[Cynthia Anne]

As long as you both enjoyed the time together, that's all that really that matters!

[Beverley Sims]

If you are both enjoying each others company and you feel safe in what you are doing, go for it.

[Alice Torn]

I won't be seeing him again, as he went back to another state. Some of it was not comfortable for me, and i feel i compromised my standards a bit, and that was my responsibility, but it was fairly comfortable. I would sure prefer a Gg . I may not meet any admirers again, or for a long time, still have conflict about it, but am glad this one went ok.

[Carol A]

In all my years I will admit I have been pick up a couple of time at Christmas partys and Holloween and yes been kissed in that way you know what he wants. At one time I almost got so worked up I wanted to try something but never had the nerve to go through with it,wonder what I may have miss a long time ago.

[kimdl93]

Sounds as though you handled the situation appropriately. Glad that it afforded up you the opportunity to get out dressed and show off some outfits.

[Paula T]

It is nice to see that you had an enjoyable evening for a change especially with all the problems you have been having with your relatives. I congratulate you hope it made you forget them for a little while anyway.

[Vickie_CDTV]

I don't say this in any way to be mean, but meeting him for the first time in a private place was a really bad idea. People can say anything in email or over the phone, and you never know what you are going to get. I am glad it worked out for you this time, but next time who knows.

Believe me, I am more than sympathetic when it comes to wanting to be desired and wanting to have someone to be with; I am terribly lonely too, and it really hurts :sad:

[GinaD]

Sounds like it could be the beginning of something nice. I find it exciting to be on the other side of the man/woman relationship sometimes, as long as things go slow and I the other person is a kind and gentle. Just don't throw caution to the wind and see where it goes.