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LelaK
10-30-2012, 10:42 AM
Yesterday, I asked: "What makes you feel feminine? What arouses you?" And I asked a bunch of related questions. I think there were too many questions. So I want to try again.

The main thing I'd like to know is what (clothing, makeup, etc) makes you feel most feminine? I want to get better ideas about what might make me feel more feminine. My panties don't do it much. My short fluffy skirt helps, but only while I'm seeing it or touching it with my hands.

Mother's scarf felt nice when I was very young and satiny dresses did when I was older doing plays. I have a big scarf, but not much else that feels very feminine just wearing it.

I plan to shop for something next week. I'm considering getting some footless nylons with panty tops and a satiny(?) negligee or slip, maybe also some satiny panties. I don't want to get anything for outerwear yet, but I'd still like to hear what else anyone thinks feels most feminine, like dresses, bras, wigs, makeup, purses etc. What makes you feel most feminine, just from feeling it on you while wearing it? What about sunglasses? I might get a pair of those too.

EllieOPKS
10-30-2012, 10:51 AM
for me it's panties, pantyhose, and lipstick

Stephanie47
10-30-2012, 11:12 AM
The spectrum of cross dressing is so broad it is difficult to plug everyone into the same hole. Since cross dressing is simply the act of wearing an obvious article of clothing normally worn by the opposite sex, where do you want to be on the spectrum? I personally do not categorize a man who likes to wear feminine hot pink panties a cross dresser. I consider him to have a fetish. What makes me feel feminine? The question is "What does Stephanie wear when she appears?" And, "What does she wish to achieve?"

Stephanie goes all the way. It is a pretty bra, panty, hosiery, full slip, dress, heels and a wig. Nothing less! If there is one article of clothing that really stirs my desires, it is a lacy full slip.

Stephanie wants to her male side escape the stresses of life. Relieving stress by cross dressing seems a logical choice over drug and alcohol abuse or patronizing women of the evening.

~Joanne~
10-30-2012, 11:50 AM
I don't get "aroused" while dressed at all. Way back in the day....maybe, but not anymore. This to me is just an extension as to who I am. What makes me feel feminine? Heels and pantyhose. Nothing makes me feel more feminine than a pair of heels clacking across the floor ;)

Mandyrcd
10-30-2012, 11:53 AM
Yes I would say panties I have a fetish with silk, and heel s have to be something as well it help you walk fem. but what turns me on still after years are when I shave my leags I dont know why. but oh well.

bobbimo
10-30-2012, 12:34 PM
Out of all the things that I do, I would have to say that having my toe nails polished with a special pretty colr makes me feel feminine even if I an wearing greasy overalls.
Just something about looking down and seeing color on my toe nails.

Daphne Renee
10-30-2012, 12:46 PM
probably pantyhose. I do like to keep my toes polished though.

Tracii G
10-30-2012, 12:55 PM
For me its jewelery my nails are most always painted so thats normal for me.
Panties don't do much for me just an under garment.
Dressing doesn't arouse me in a sexual way.

outhiking
10-30-2012, 01:11 PM
It's not so much arousing, but painted toe nails make me feel wonderfully feminine. Any sort of hose would come in a close second.

CONSUELO
10-30-2012, 01:17 PM
Anything that drapes on the body and moves seductively with your body movements. So, slips and dresses and skirts that are light and flowing and slip and slide across the skin. Of course you have to have the stockings and heels and makeup etc. Also I love the feel of earings and they make me feel very feminine too. I have a pair of "screw and post" earings that are much better than clip on type but I need to get my ears pierced so that I can wear long dangling earrings. That would feel really good

linda allen
10-30-2012, 01:58 PM
It's my boobs. Having boobs, even if they are stuck on makes me feel feminine.

Persephone
10-30-2012, 02:00 PM
Getting warm "girl smiles" from other women. Having men hold doors for me. These are a few of my favorite things ...

Hugs,
Persephone.

Marsha Marsh
10-30-2012, 02:05 PM
I have to agree with Linda. They just make me feel so great.

Terri6082
10-30-2012, 02:26 PM
It's not anyone thing. It's the whole package and just feeling like my true self when dressed. Even when I just wear a cami and panties under my male work clothes, I feel so relaxed, warm and open

swati.crossy
10-30-2012, 02:26 PM
i just love bra, panty n a tight t shirt(. .) i have male boob so after wear all this i presserd them hard which gives me ultimate fem feeling.

vikki2020
10-30-2012, 02:34 PM
yeah, it's the whole thing for me! Just getting ready, and as each item goes on, then the make-up ritual, wig, and presto! I guess you might say when we wear our feelings!

ArleneRaquel
10-30-2012, 02:35 PM
I'm wearing my new black tights, I'm feeling soooooo good wearing them, forms, red wig and full makeup.

AlyssaE12
10-30-2012, 02:37 PM
To tell the truth I love wearing my underwear but I also love to wear my uggs and leggings...so girly its great...heels are fun but sometimes flats can feel even more feminine, especially the leopard print ones i have. the common thread i guess for me is shoes :)

Dami
10-30-2012, 02:47 PM
I feel most feminine when my toes are painted and I have heels and a short skirt on with my forms on.
I tried wearing some pants and it just doesn't do it for me.

EllenJo
10-30-2012, 02:56 PM
For me it is many different things not just one. I feel very feminine when I shave my legs. The feminine feeling of a silky nylon stocking going up on a freshly shaved leg. The feeling of a full silky slip not only as it swishes around my legs and body but feeling all the beautiful lace makes me feel very feminine. Of course panties with pretty colours and floral prints make me feel very feminine. A cool fall evening breeze blowing up my skirt as I walk around outside in my very private back yard. As the song says, "These are a few of my favourite things". And they all make me feel like a woman.

Misty52
10-30-2012, 03:01 PM
I feel most feminine when I wear pantyhoes on my shaved legs. But putting the whole thing on is the BEST. I feel complete as a female.

wilt575
10-30-2012, 08:31 PM
It's my boobs. Having boobs, even if they are stuck on makes me feel feminine.

Love having my "real" Boobs, got tired of the stick on and went with implants love the sensation and senseitivity, in a bra with nice tee shirt or tank top and curvy jeans with some bling feel really fem when out in public. Also the natural movement when braless in thin top.

Joanna Maguire
10-30-2012, 08:45 PM
I have been a CD for many years. Still love it. For me the garment I most love wearing is my tightlace corsets

docrobbysherry
10-30-2012, 08:56 PM
Oddly, feeling fem is not arousing for me. However, looking fem is! That requires a complete transformation in my case.

So, it's a little like asking me which of the items that went into the cake I like best? Flour? Sugar? Yeast? Etc. The individual ingredients r nice, but I like the CAKE best!!

mike~the~islandman
10-30-2012, 09:34 PM
Wearing leggings or stockings will make me feel most ladylike. Also, slipping into high-heels is a really lovely feeling!

Albeit, invoking the inner feminineness can require a lot more than just those few things :) But it's not a thing for arousal, at least for me. It's becoming a new person. Being drunk with glamor!

Angela Campbell
10-30-2012, 09:36 PM
Not arousing for me either. The thing that makes me feel most feminine is the whole package, being completely transformed, I really do not think I look anything feminine until I have my makeup and wig on so maybe that is it.

heatherdress
10-30-2012, 10:38 PM
Make-up provides the most significant feminine transformation for me.

Paula T
10-30-2012, 11:23 PM
that nylons and heels are the items that most make me feel feminine. Because I suppose its because its the one thing that men just can't wear:)

donnatracey
10-31-2012, 01:58 AM
Lipstick and eye makeup......not arousing just makes me feel more fem before I dress......

reshma
10-31-2012, 02:02 AM
peep toe heels, nail polish...

prene
10-31-2012, 02:08 AM
I would say it is 3 different things.

1) having breasts/ wearing attached forms and the feel of them pulling on my body.
2) Love the feel and look when I tuck well and have a smooth crouch(I waer gg jeans).
3) With the nice tuck .. having a nice corset and having a small waist and hips.

linda allen
10-31-2012, 06:23 AM
Love having my "real" Boobs, got tired of the stick on and went with implants love the sensation and senseitivity, in a bra with nice tee shirt or tank top and curvy jeans with some bling feel really fem when out in public. Also the natural movement when braless in thin top.

As great as that would be, I have to be a man sometimes and hiding a pair of DDs would be a problem.

MeganHenry
10-31-2012, 07:46 AM
For me...shaved legs, painted nails, boobs, wig, makeup, and a sexy outfit and under things :) yeah it's a complete thing...

Slip Affinity
10-31-2012, 07:48 AM
Bra's, panties, full slips, nylons and nighties are what do it for me.

Lady Catherine
10-31-2012, 10:34 AM
My shaved legs....and other areas.

MsRenee
10-31-2012, 11:01 AM
Its more like what i dont wear it alk has that effect on myself.
Renee

Sandy Banks
10-31-2012, 12:51 PM
Wigs make me look feminine, jewelry makes me feel feminine and tights and leggings just make me feel good!!!

Roberta Young
10-31-2012, 01:01 PM
Makeup,and Red Lips send Me over the top! Hugs Roberta

NicoleScott
10-31-2012, 01:21 PM
Big eyelashes, high heels and lipstick.

Rosabella
10-31-2012, 09:01 PM
I mostly love wearing my many different colored tights and my different heels that are really cool.

sissystephanie
10-31-2012, 09:12 PM
Wearing my panties and a bra makes me feel feminine. Of course I feel even more feminine when I add a pretty skirt and top!! BTW, I didn't add forms to the list because I don't wear any! I have natural 40 B's!!

Samantha43
10-31-2012, 09:20 PM
I have no idea what it's like to "feel" feminine. I do love my makeup though!:battingeyelashes:

Vanessa Amber420
10-31-2012, 09:24 PM
I feel feminine when i'm wearing panties and a bra... Especially when I have smooth shaved legs

anastasiaprincess
10-31-2012, 09:30 PM
I love to go to bed in my pink silk slip with some nice tights (pantyhose) and my girlfriend excepts this I also like to get up a couple of hours before work and just go about in one of my short skirts and my heels i seems to prepare me for the day ahead :D

jigen32
10-31-2012, 09:30 PM
A bra or anything that excentuates the breast area. Also skirts and dresses.

Carol P
11-01-2012, 12:16 AM
Tights(pantyhose),and a lined skirt.

paddy
11-01-2012, 12:42 AM
Corset and stockings - the corset creates a wonderful figure and creates cleavage. Stockings look good and feel even better!

Elsie
11-01-2012, 05:07 AM
At the moment stockings and panties

rookiemistake
11-01-2012, 05:59 AM
Classic Black Patent pumps. Closed toe. I can wear them with my male mode clothes and still feel very feminine.

GinaD
11-01-2012, 08:43 AM
Matching lace thong, garter, bra and silk stockings under a short skirt and blouse, with high heels. Can't feel more feminine than that!

CarleyR
11-01-2012, 09:17 AM
Red polished fingernails
High heels, preferably strappy sandals
Dangly earrings
Thigh highs and garter belt
Panties and bra
A good fitting slightly frilly top, which shows off my boobs
A skirt and belt
Makeup and a great wig
Necklace and bracelets.

I think they make me feel good in that order.....but the combination REALLY makes me feel good!

Gina Rose
11-01-2012, 09:54 AM
I love wearing these cute wedges, thong, skirt or dress, bra, and of course make-up. :)

HannahF6
11-01-2012, 10:06 AM
For me, I don't feel feminine until I put on a bra. But there are other big things too, as someone else mentioned having a guy hold a door open for me is great affirmation of femininity.

Hannah

Beverley Sims
11-01-2012, 11:15 AM
A bra does it for me. Being fully dressed is what I strive for these days.

Aylineira
11-01-2012, 11:42 AM
Pantyhose for me. But of course that leads to... well I can't just wear my smooth tights without my panties.. and now I can't just go without my heels.. and now I can't just have those on without a nice dress or skirt on... and now I can't wear my dress or blouse without a bra to fill it out.. and now of course my face doesn't match the body so on goes the rest!! phew!! What was the question again?

Rachel05
11-01-2012, 12:10 PM
A nice matching and very lace bra and panties does it for me, love heels and love stockings but bra and Panties is most definitely my thing

britney
11-01-2012, 12:13 PM
for me its undies. nothing makes me feel better than putting on a pink thong in the morning!

Megan b
11-01-2012, 05:18 PM
It all starts with a pair of panties and pantyhose for me then comes the bra, boobs, slimmer, shirt, top, makeup, wig, heels and jewelry pretty much in that order. It used to be pantyhose and heels but now it takes all those things to make me feel my most feminine.

Daisy41
11-01-2012, 06:08 PM
I would have to say that I don't really feel feminine until I put my wig on. Once I do that and add an accessory, I truly feel pretty. It's amazing what a different styling of your hair can do to your look!

Marlana
11-01-2012, 07:06 PM
The things that make me feel most feminine are my forms and bras...and panties under my lee jeans.

prettytoes
11-01-2012, 07:17 PM
I would have to say that painting my toes and shaving my legs and armpits make me feel the most feminine. I love the feel of the razor running across my legs, and the smooth feel when I'm done. And I really enjoy looking down at my toes and seeing a nice bright pink!

JamieQ
11-01-2012, 07:37 PM
Shiny lip stick tops it off for me.

jody smith
11-02-2012, 07:47 PM
For me I really like stockings and a garter belt and bra....feeling fem just thinking about it! Oh and I still get aroused when I dress. :)

swedish48
11-02-2012, 09:45 PM
For me, its the firm, bound, soft feeling of having a satin/lace bra around my chest. As I am an underdresser, I also enjoy suspenders and stockings

SamanthaC
11-02-2012, 09:48 PM
Can't go past my black and grey patterned satin romper/teddy with lace, with microfibre panties underneath. Heaven. Aside from nightware, a lacey shapewear cami really gives me feminine feel.

k lynn
11-03-2012, 05:01 AM
For me its my braand has been since age 7

Jessica86
11-04-2012, 01:57 AM
To me, it's anything satin. The most feminizing thing to me is the thing you least expect. The normal clothes. The things that make you feel....normal. When you look in the mirror, and you DON'T stick out. You look like another woman in the world. Not one so ****ty, or so innocent....just being you and whatever side of the spectrum you are on.

LunaDarling
11-04-2012, 03:30 AM
mine is hands down a corset and thigh highs. grrrrrrrr!

jamie-upstate
11-04-2012, 08:27 AM
panties high heels and a skirt work for me

adrienner99
11-04-2012, 09:05 AM
After many years of dressing it is very arousing still..My special girlish likes are high heels, lipstick or lip gloss and anything satin. And I never wear pants as a girl--skirts or dresses only.

CarmenSkye
11-04-2012, 10:40 AM
I love wearing my yoga pants.

Jenn A116
11-04-2012, 11:15 AM
For me its a bra, especially with forms.

Kristi5150
11-04-2012, 11:19 AM
Black bra, blue satin panties, tights, blue dress, wig, make-up, black pumps.

susangirl
11-04-2012, 12:46 PM
It's a a close tie between stockings with a six or eight hook garter belt and anything silk. Both feel so wonderful. A close second is 5 inch heels.

Bowmanls2
11-04-2012, 01:14 PM
My silk or satin lingerie. My new breast forms and nice lipstick help too.

wilt575
11-05-2012, 10:47 PM
A bra or anything that excentuates the breast area. Also skirts and dresses.

Thats why I got Implants, excentuates the area with or with bra.

Girl
11-07-2012, 12:52 PM
I feel most feminine wearing a wedding dress with sexy lingerie underneath.

Rhonda Ann
11-07-2012, 01:18 PM
The things that make me feel most feminine: stocking, something lacey (love the lace), a sexy bra, nail polish, and lipstick. I have breast forms ordered, excited about getting them. OH, and heels sexy open toe 5"heels and wig. Were we limited to one thing? Hard to pick just one. hehe

Leanne2
11-07-2012, 03:40 PM
I feel the most feminine when I am getting a roller set and style in a beauty shop with other women getting the same. I've done that hundreds of times over the last 40 years. Leanne

prescilla
11-07-2012, 03:41 PM
Stocking and lace panties. Corsets when i'm feeling naught.

Ericaxd
11-07-2012, 03:48 PM
A pretty bra, panties, nicely done makeup, and the wig as the crowning glory. That's when I feel most feminine, most myself. Then its just a choice of outfit for the day.

Tiffany Grace
11-07-2012, 04:05 PM
:)Nothing like vintage stockings and vintage garter belt. That does it for me, always has

Kati F
11-08-2012, 12:23 AM
A bra has always done it for me...

Cristine
11-08-2012, 03:49 AM
For me, it's slipping on satin lingerie over a freshly shaven body and legs with a pair of lacy panties on.....Oh My....Heaven as I slip between my cool cotton sheets. Princess Dreamland for sure!

shellie marie
11-08-2012, 03:59 AM
for me its makeup and any type of dress or skirt

sarahcsc
11-08-2012, 04:24 AM
Lingerie. Silky, and satin. Nothing else compares to it. ^__^