bondage and dressing

[Shari]

So, how many of you girls like to be tied up when in your fineries?
Does your SO participate, or is it a private thing?

For me, it's the icing on the already tasty cake. Feels wonderful to be the captive damsel and just let it all go.

Can't get out of your clothing if your hands are tied.

[Beverley Sims]

No I have just cleaned and ironed them.
The only time I might get tied up is if a couple of burglars invaded my home.

[Joanna Maguire]

I love being put into bondage while I am dressed> My wife has fun too keeping me under her control

[Leann68]

Shari, you have asked a question that I too have wondered about, but I am new here on this Forum and was not sure if I could ask without offending any one.
I for years have enjoyed bondage ,especially when dressed. unfortunately my wife does not enjoy it, or understand the feelings that I get when dressed and tied up. It is a special feeling the I have found no equal too. I enjoy tying up someone else also because I know what they are feeling and that in its self gives me pleasure.

[suzy1]

I have just finished reading 50 shades of gray. [All three books] but that’s all I am going to admit too.:heehee:

[Karren H]

The only bondage I enjoy is a tight corset and a girdle.....

[xdressed]

I enjoy dressing and bondage, but I don't normally combine the two very often (anymore at least). Bondage is purely a sexual thing, dressing is something much more personal and important than that to me

[Marissa V]

what Karren Hutton said ... :D

[EllenJo]

Gee, Never tried bondage while dressed. Sounds like it might be fun so I will put it on the bucket list.

And Karen, I agree, I do love the confining nature of a corset and girdle. I know that is fun.

Love
EllenJo

[shawnatex]

I enjoy been in bondage no matter if I am dressed or not but I do enjoyed it more being dressed.

[JenniferUK]

Yep we take it in turns, got lots of toys to play with lol

J

[bridget thronton]

Sorry, i do not care for bondage or degradation

[linda allen]

i do not care for bondage or degradation

Same here. Old fashioned, I guess.

[EllieOPKS]

My wife and I do bondage in a very seductive way. Who ever is the "captured spy" is restrained but never securely. i.e., the hands may be wrapped to the headboard but not tied. Who ever is the captive gets to enjoy a very intimate time.

[diannecourtney]

Agree with all on the corset and girdle, but I have added several items which definitely do something to the psyche!!!!

[Jamie Christopher]

I'm with Karren - corsets and shapewear for this girl, but I've met some I would love to lock up....

Jamie

[Lady Catherine]

If there were to be bondage while dressed, I'd be a Dominatrix.

[suzy1]

If there were to be bondage while dressed, I'd be a Dominatrix.

Can I come round your place?

A panting Suzy getting all hot and bothered.:heehee:

[Desiree2bababe]

Haven't tried it yet but knowing Desiree, she'd probably get into it.

[LelaK]

Since I'm an older virgin, all I have are occasional fantasies. Like Lady Cath, I've only considered the dominatrix role. Actually, I thought of myself in the guy role, binding my beautiful wife or GF and then inviting other men to rape her nonviolently, but degradingly. I shared that recently. Since it's a fantasy, I believe both the beautiful wife and the dominator and rapists are myself, and the fantasy gives me pleasure because I was conditioned to feel loved by my parents when I was obedient, and in this fantasy I'm obeying their wishes, which are that I suppress my feminine side and act out my masculinity.

When I think about it in this way, it seems that acting out an agreed script might be able to help liberate us. I mean liberate us from suppressing our femininity. Those who tie each other up loosely so the other can escape might do that, i.e. liberate themselves in their subconscious minds.

I've seen a lot of porn involving bondage. They can be quite degrading. But now such porn just suggests to me how strongly society, usually parents I think, has ingrained in men to suppress their femininity and in women their masculinity.

Has anyone noticed any psychological healing after engaging in bondage roleplay or the like?

By the way, I'll have to consider corsets and girdles next week when I go shopping.

[RADER]

I will stick to a corset. Tighter the better.
Rader

[Foxy Lady]

My wife has been ting me up for years. the best part is when she ties mtankles and loops the rope over my feet and heels.

[paulaprimo]

what myrdin said...... :D

[LilSissyStevie]

Bondage and crossdressing are only erotic to me in the context of femdom. Being tied up does nothing for me in itself and I often CD just to feel "feminine" although I will admit there is a subtle eroticism involved there also. But my "kink" is emasculation. There are infinite ways that can be accomplished but if it involves being tied up and petticoated then all the better.


Has anyone noticed any psychological healing after engaging in bondage roleplay or the like?

There was a discussion on another board about autogynephila (AGP) and one person offered the theory that AGP was the result of the fetishization of childhood emasculation trauma. Most vehemently disagreed with him including me. But I only disagreed that it was true for everybody. In my case, it is highly plausible. I could probably write the book on childhood emasculation trauma. So I find erotic emasculation/feminization strangely cathartic and healing. It's much more than just sex to me. My wife is a willing and enthusiastic partner in all of this but she gets something completely different out of it.

I might add, for the narrow minded lot, that erotic degradation is to real degradation what playing cowboys and Indians is to Custer's last stand.

[Janelle_C]

In my younger day I used S&M as a way to get what I wanted, to dress. I used to tell my wife it was just part of the submissive role. I know that she knew better but it was more about me excepting that part of me.

[luscious]

corset ,5 inch stilettos and tucking is bondage.

[Terri]

I enjoy bondage and a good spanking while dressed from time to time.

[biggirlsarah]

cant say anything at the moment , my hands are tied on this subject.

[CONSUELO]

Bondage and S&M are not degrading to those who find they enjoy that activity. It is very liberating. I first began to explore my feelings by experimenting with nipple clamps and then bought leather corsets and skirts. I did visit several dominatrices. One in particular was very good. She had been trained as a psychologist and knew how to get into your mind. I have never had such an intensely sensual and arousing time in my life. It was wonderful and I found that I loved to be the "bottom" and being one was very calming. I surrendered myself to this person completely for a few hours and it was a catharsis. Later I had to do a lot of work in London and I found an S&M club there where people gathered to chat and have a drink and, when the mood was upon them, indulge in some S&M. People were very considerate and there was no ogling or unwanted advances. They were some of the nicest people that I have ever met and the atmosphere was so calm and accepting. If you have no desire don't even think of trying it but don't judge the S&M community by the ridiculous characterising that it receives in the popular media. It is a mental journey of exploration that is undertaken very safely and does not resemble the silly representations to be found on poor quality porn films.
There is a lot of fetish wear in the 'scene' and for a cross dresser that can be a lot of the fun. So, I think that it is great and recommend it to those who have strong leanings in that direction. Join a group and learn more about it. Don't dive in head first whatever you do.

[docrobbysherry]

I was involved in self bondage 25 years before it occurred to me to try on ladies things.

Turns out, Sherry inherited my love of being constricted and constrained! 2 years ago, we began experimenting with some of, "The Perils of Sherry", photo sessions. NOT porn! Just art-y and fun.:o

Those photos, like topless, and nude photos r not permitted here.:thumbsdn:
However, if u wish to see Sherry in some knotty predicaments, visit my home page!:eek:

I have recently joined Fetlife and gone to some meetings hoping to find a helpful playmate. As Consuelo says, the people I've met that live this lifestyle seem to be very considerate, helpful, and friendly. Much different from what I expected!:)

[Pamela girl]

Have never had anyone to tie me up but think that would be fun. Years ago I was really into self bondage and cross dressing, I was home and wife was at work, I dressed completely and was wearing a ball gag and tied myself all I could and then put on a pair of handcuffs behind my back. My plan was to make it take as long as I could to just get loose and still have to get undressed. Then the phone rang! It was the good old days of answering machines where you could hear the message as it was being left, the person leaving the message was someone I really needed to talk to! I was on the floor squirming to get loose to get to the phone but it just didn't happen. 15 min later when I called them back I told them I was tied up and couldn't make it to the phone. Little did they know it was the truth

[rookiemistake]

Bondage was actually my first passion. I first became interested in cross dressing as a way of supporting my bondage fetish. There are multiple sexually arousing things happening in my fantasies, including being forced to become a woman (a manly mans greatest fear), but also being forced to submit to the will of another is a tremendously arousing thought. Magically being transformed from man to woman? That's the ultimate.

[suit]

one of the things that made "the old" girdles seem sooooo interesting was that they came with hooks & eye clousure with a zipper to finish them . the fact they were modled by perfect 20 year olds with real hips helped. Any boy that played outside had a zipper jamb. just imagine ! anything decribed as fits 26 " wastine and hips 8 to 12 inchs larger,satin pannles,high waist, long leg, side zipper. ( well that must be needed to get into it.....and out ! )add some old cartoons of loonie toons , snidly wiplash, gone with the wind lacing secine, tarzan,wildwild west,>>ooh corsets>>petticoat junction.corsets> ties behind the back! ooh yummy shape !
so speakingof bondage; a back hooked long line bra, long leg high waist panty girdle and a back laced corset = Bondage. and damb fine looking bondage at that! might as well top it off with dark panty hose and a one peice stretch taffeta bathingsuit from Cole of California...now get undressed in less than 10 mins!
I thought about hand cuffs ...but thats too much like cops.. then some where, a few years ago I saw a pic of a armbinder..wow ! scarry...wow....mmmm....scarry....how does that strap work....?no way to do it your self.....mmmm electric locks ? power off free? or some sort of pull pin even ? imagine !
imagin ; a rubber catsuit on first filled with some sort of lube so all the molding forces would be unrestricted. girdle and bra of your choice, a corset that would slide across the girdles smooth fabric and no bunched skin in the small of your back from the corset as it's nearly teflon lined. what ever top clothes you like...and basicly electronicly pre timed hand cuffs or mittons. bondage~excuse to squirm as the endorphines run wild....what if "____________" stops by! and the saft release pin bounces across the floor under the bed!

[Shari]

Think Lady Catherine would take TWO customers?
Now Suzy has me all hot and bothered :)