When you least expect it...

[BrendaChristine]

Do you ever find your female side showing up when it probably shouldn't. I find it happening from time to time. not long ago I was out at the local joint with a couple of pals and a drop dead gorgeous business type walked in. Navy Blue Suit, Silk Blouse, Slingback Heels, and a killer ankle bracelet. (I simply adore ankle bracelets). Anyway my pal said"Will you look at that!" My response: "Cute Shoes". Then just last week I was watching CSI with a GG friend who is not clued in. one of the regular characters (Who Brenda has a crush on, coincidentlaly, came on wearing a mustache, that simply isn't working. I made a remark that would have made Nathan Lane raise an eyebrow. Luckily, my male persona is famous for his brillantly irreverent , and sarcastic(not to mention modest) sense of humor. Point being... I forgot. Oh yeah. do you find times when you wish there was a lock on the closet door?

[Vickie]

I haven't had a slip up yet lol, but I do find when I am out as my usual male self that I look at women and say to myself what a beautiful outfit, dress, skirt, jeans, top and what a beautiful body she has I wish that was me! I saw a couple of women today that I just said to myself God I wish I had that body and clothes too!

[RachelDenise]

No, I haven't done it YET, but I'm sure sooner or later that it will happen. Sometimes Rachel doesn't know when nto hide!

[Veronica E. Scott]

No just an open share policy.
Took the wife for a ride on the bike this weekend she wanted to pick up a few things for a friend that is expecting shortley so we went to the carters outlet at Vijhas casino & shopping ctr. so any way we finished with the baby thing and ended up at the Dress Barn where she picked out a few things and went to try them on came back out of the dressing room went over to another rack and the wife said to me you know I dont have a clue of what to get you for Xmass my reply was everything in the store. My wife knows about my CDing and doesn't approve got a nasty look for that one I should learn to keep my mouth shut.

[Bonnie D]

My wife used to catch me looking at girls a lot when we were first married and we would argue about it and then I would apologise to her because it was rude. What she didn't know though and I couldn't tell her because she didn't and still doesn't know about my crossdressing is that I was never interested in the girls I was looking at, I was interested in what they were wearing, they're hair style and how they were moving and was feeling envious. Of course that wouldn't have made my wife feel any better but then I wouldn't have appeared so rude.

One incident I recall vividly concerned an attractive girl who worked in my area. She had on a nice black skirt and a black blouse that particular day. My wife and I have worked in the same building ever since we met, so she had seen the girl that day and was trying to tell me something about her on our way home. She said, "You know that girl who works on your floor, she was wearing a black dress today, ..." I said, "Oh yeah her, actually she was wearing a skirt and blouse, ..." :rolleyes: Big mistake!

I've learned to keep my eyes and comments to myself when with my wife. It can be quite difficult though. There's so many beautiful clothes for women it's hard not to look.

Bonnie

[Rebecca Petersen]

I have two distinct voices, one for her and one for him. The last few months "Her" voice has been creeping into conversation way too much. The other day I answered the phone in the wrong voice and my son said, "sorry, I have the wrong number." I said "Okay" and hung up rather than explain.
Rebecca

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM anklets:D

[SandraInHose]

My wife used to catch me looking at girls a lot when we were first married and we would argue about it and then I would apologise to her because it was rude. What she didn't know though and I couldn't tell her because she didn't and still doesn't know about my crossdressing is that I was never interested in the girls I was looking at, I was interested in what they were wearing, ...

That is EXACTLY the same scenario I found myself in when I was newly married. Although she didn't find out until year 17, she still doesn't appreciate it when I 'notice' a well dressed woman.

As far as my other side coming out, sometimes when we see a woman who is dressed, I will comment on her outfit or accessories, but it comes out sounding like a woman (according to my wife). Usually something like, "I'd never wear those shoes with that dress" or "Wow, I wish that was available in my size". Every now in then she'll nudge me with her elbow to let me know it's time to 'be manly'. :)

[Christina Nicole]

No problem. I'm a gemini. We're into dualities. So keeping two personalities straight is trivial. Either that, or after a few decades of sales work, I can keep straight the different BS I tell people. Whatever!

Although I expect that some people I know suspect. That halloween a few years ago was just to easy and natural for that to have been my first time.

Warm regards,
Christina Nicole

[CammyT]

Going past the MAC counter and eying the display a bit too long?

Shopping with the wife and pulling a particularly enticing dress off the rack and putting it against your body for a look?

[AlysonCD]

Too many times to count. But I don't worry about it