Wives Who Embrace

[Paula_56]

I often read about accepting wives, but are do any of you have wives who prefer and encourage this side of you? Also I often wonder if there are any wives who are Bisexual and have found a perfect partner?

[MsRenee]

From my side I can say nothings ever perfect,there are time when she doesnt want to see me dressed and then theres time like the other day were she complimented me on my outfit. She doesnt have many g/fs so I kinda fill the void as we both know how to have fun and enjoy being out.She does refer to being bi when were out and ppl ask that rude little question so that puts them in there place andshe loves it. hehe.
Renee

[Marissa V]

My gf is bisexual and she absolutely loves both of me :p Her friends told her that aswell that she now found the perfect partner for herself. She's also the one that gave me that last push from clothing only to make up and the likes. And she's the one that named me.

[Lady Catherine]

My fiance has always told me she was Bi, but I never thought about it until just now. I wonder if that is why she's been so supportive. I'll have to ask.

[Tina B.]

I don't know how much she embraces it, but it's not uncommon for her to say, we have nothing going on tomorrow, why don't you take the day to yourself and dress. I think it's more that she knows how much it means to me, and she is just being supportive.

[Eryn]

I can't say that my wife prefers this side of me, but she has certainly encouraged me to explore it further than I would have without her prompting. She is often the one who suggests that we go out, and has done great things for my confidence simply by encouraging me to put myself in different situations.

[Laura28]

i guess i am lucky, my like me dressed and encourges it, however we do have kids so i mostly underdress. She has purchased me many things over the years. I know she isnt bi has had a few expereiances and said it wasnt for her. However she says beside i have you and that is enough for me. She likes me smooth and to wear my underwear to bed. we havent gone out as i wouldnt pass at all. But is something we both enjoy and i get to shar it with. We have been togther for 30 years and she has known about it from the start. i went a lot of years not dressing for while but now i do often and feel so much better.

[heatherdress]

My wife supports and enjoys my crossdessing. I try to make it inclusive. She actually initiated my dressing when I showed interest in her shoe purchases and she insisted that I buy a pair of high heels for myself. We work at communicating and trying to make each other happy.

[Angelofsomekind]

My wife enjoys it. When she first found out one of the things she said she was worried about was if she came over and there I was all dressed up and she would feel akward. But now if I'm not wearing some article of women's clothing she gives me a sad look like I let her down.

[wilt575]

I can't say that my wife prefers this side of me, but she has certainly encouraged me to explore it further than I would have without her prompting. She is often the one who suggests that we go out, and has done great things for my confidence simply by encouraging me to put myself in different situations.

Eryn, My wifes acceptence has gone so far as to suggest I get breast implants.

[Launa]

My SO is not bisexual at all. She doesn't find the girl side of me attractive at all but she encourages it because she says it makes me a better person. I think it really helps that she was always around the fine arts culture as a teen and through university years.

[sissystephanie]

My late wife was not Bi-sexual at all. She just loved the real me! Clothes do not change your sex, even if you are dressed completely feminine!! If you have thoughts of being a woman when dressed enfemme, that is all in your head! My wife did enjoy me dressing up, but she always knew that I was still her MAN under that satin and lace!! And she never encouraged me to get breast implants since my natural breasts were bigger than hers!!

[Kate Simmons]

I'm not sure what the difference would be if one truly loves their SO Hon.:)

[GeminaRenee]

I often read about accepting wives, but are do any of you have wives who prefer and encourage this side of you? Also I often wonder if there are any wives who are Bisexual and have found a perfect partner?

My ex is bi, and that is one of the reasons things worked. She felt like she was able to get the best of both worlds all under one roof. Unfortunately, we turned out not to be the 'perfect partner' for one another. Other issues came to the fore, and we've since gone our separate ways. Turns out that acceptance or embrace of crossdressing does not automatically a perfect partnership make.

I will say this, though: having someone who not only accepted Kali, but was also attracted to her, made for some of the most treasured memories of my life. My time spent with her not only gave me hope that there are women out there like her, but also the confidence to know that I don't have to settle for anything less, either.

[RADER]

My wife usually tells me to "Go and put your Bra On" when I get a little grumpy
or out of sorts. She says that it has a calming effect on me.
Rader

[Babeba]

Some people who are bisexual may not find this an ideal mixture. Some partners who are straight may be able to bend a bit to make this work. Personally I am not fond of labels like that, because a) there are so many factors involved with desire and b) it seems kind of unrealistic to look for someone based on whether they identify as gay, straight or bi rather than whether they identify as being into you.

[Stephanie G]

Sweet Paula, My wife of 10 years has become totally accepting of and attracted to my feminine side. At this point I would not say that she is bisexual because she is not interested in men but only her Stephanie. In essence we are a lesbian couple and love to dress up together. Because of my size (especially the big feet) and the area we live in, my cross dressing is limited to our home but it brings joy and peace to our relationship. She gets way more satisfaction from her lady Stephanie than she ever did from a man. And I love loving her and feeling her joy.

[PretzelGirl]

Prefer is probably not a good word. My wife prefers me in whatever form and that is probably at the root of her complete acceptance. She does encourage me to take it as far as I want. So she doesn't suggest specific things, she just tells me to do what I want as it doesn't matter to her. She has made it clear that she is here for the long haul and I have done the same with her.

[sue1965]

Well in my case, I thought we had a perfect relationship. She loved dressing me up. But at some point she had an affair with her girlfriend. She surprised me with a threesome and during that time. I noticed they were way to comfortable with each other for this to be there first time together. Afterwards, she admitted about the affair and within a year, filed for a divorce. She decided she wanted to be with her real girlfriend more than me. Who, no matter how much I dressed as a girl, was still a man underneath.

[Allison Chaynes]

My wife is sexually bisexual but does not want a relationship with a real woman. She is accepting right now in the bedroom but outside of that she's not that into my femme side. We are seeing a counselor right now and it is helping so I hope that changes.

[linda allen]

I don't see how a wife (or husband for that matter) can be "bisexual". You give that up when you make a commitment and get married. Assuming a man marries a woman, they are now both "heterosexual". There might possibly be some sort of lesbian fantasy when your wife sees or has sex with you dressed as a woman, but, you are still a man, you don't have a vagina.

[MissVictoria]

Its funny actually, that we were just speaking about her acceptance of me befpre we went to bed the night. I do sometimes question the complete acceptance of me that she has, mostly because of the stories I've read here of the intolerance to towards us by our SO. But my wife encourages me to be Kimbely, to get out of the house, and experience the feminine side of the world. I now go out weekly to a club for us ladies, and she waits up for me to hear how my night went. This next part is what makes me question he acceptance: After 2 months of this weekly clubgoing, there has been an admirer who appreciates the feminine side of me. I have zero interest in him, but feel flattered nonetheless. My wife loves to hear how he dotes on me, and why I wont flirt along. It is,after all, part of being a girl. So yes, my wife loves this side of me, privately and publicly. But it still leaves me questioning her motives sometimes. I guess I really am feminine at mind!

[kimdl93]

My wife acceptsand supports, but I guess we're passed the encouragement point, as I need none;). I do think wearers a good match in terms of being able to meet each others desires. But I think we pretty much abandon pretenses or labels during intimacy.

[PretzelGirl]

Linda, just trying comparing it to us. The inner feeling of sexual attraction is part of your being (sound familiar?). You may not exercise a part, for example a bi man who marries a lady may not have sex with another man. But he is still bi because that is where his orientation lies as an internal component of his total make-up.

[Violetgray]

I don't see how a wife (or husband for that matter) can be "bisexual". You give that up when you make a commitment and get married. Assuming a man marries a woman, they are now both "heterosexual". There might possibly be some sort of lesbian fantasy when your wife sees or has sex with you dressed as a woman, but, you are still a man, you don't have a vagina.

Umm no, it doesn't work that way. Being bisexual is being attracted to people of both sexes. Marriage does not effect that. If it did, then gay men who marry women to conform would then cease to be gay. Sexuality is about feelings, not action.

[Meghan]

I often read about accepting wives, but are do any of you have wives who prefer and encourage this side of you? Also I often wonder if there are any wives who are Bisexual and have found a perfect partner?

Hi Paula,

Yes, I am lucky to be in both groups. Just tonight, she nudged me to play with makeup and a couple of specific looks we've been working on. Here's a good example of her help...I played with the eye-tattoo shadow tonight but didn't line the inside of my bottom eyelids with black like I usually do. She looked at me when I was all done and said..."I don't like the eyes". I grabbed a black liner pen, filled in the bottom and complemented the top lids and she loved it.

For some reason, that look works for me and she can tell when it's not right, even if she doesn't know exactly why.

And yes, she is totally bi. She often says getting to be with Meghan makes her feel like she's with someone completely different than me (ironically enough). I think we both knew this potential was there when we met even if we didn't know the specifics of how it would evolve.

All I know for sure is that she is a perfect compliment to me, and I am pretty sure I complement her as well. Sometimes it's hard to believe "this" is really happening.

Meghan

[ReineD]

I often read about accepting wives, but are do any of you have wives who prefer and encourage this side of you? Also I often wonder if there are any wives who are Bisexual and have found a perfect partner?

I'm a GG and feel the same way as Penelope Jo just above me. My SO's gender expression is a part of him/her and all her aspects make her the total person I fell in love with. However, if he didn't CD and never had, I would love him just the same since people are a lot more than just their gender ID.

I am not lesbian or bisexual since I have never been attracted to nor had any interest in being in a romantic relationship with genetic women, although I also say that I am bi when it comes to being attracted to my SO since s/he is not like other males I have been in relationships with. I do say that when it comes to my SO I am bi, but I say this out of respect for my SO's gender identity more than a reflection of which side of the binary I am attracted to. "Bisexual" implies having the ability to be attracted to men or women, and my SO simply does not fall under the standard definition of either.

Also, I do have a female friend who is bi and who has had relationships with both women and men. She once told me that although she is not limited to any one gender in terms of sexual and romantic attraction, she is not attracted to people who cross the gender boundaries. She likes her men to be men and her women to be women. Being bi does not necessarily mean instant acceptance of cross-gender expression.

[JiveTurkeyOnRye]

Also, I do have a female friend who is bi and who has had relationships with both women and men. She once told me that although she is not limited to any one gender in terms of sexual and romantic attraction, she is not attracted to people who cross the gender boundaries. She likes her men to be men and her women to be women. Being bi does not necessarily mean instant acceptance of cross-gender expression.

I recently went through this with a woman I was dating. She had initially expressed being a fan of how I dressed and used her bisexuality and fondness for feminine men as a line of thought for thinking we might be a good match, it was what initially led me to consider asking her out. But as we dated she became less and less attracted to my feminine side and said it caused her a lot of confusion when we would get physical because she couldn't mentally place me as either male or female and it bothered her.

Often I hear bi women touted as being the perfect partner for MtF's but that is a pretty dangerous path, it is very objectifying, it stops seeing them as an individual woman and instead as an ideal. Considering that a woman being straight doesn't mean she is attracted to all men also means that a woman being bi doesn't mean she is attracted to all people.

[Stacy Myrdin]

Ok, I must say something, although I am bisexual, I cannot live under 1 roof with another woman, but the feminine side I love with women I now found with myrdin so that's why my friends tell me we're the perfect match, I must say I find him and her both very attractive so I am very satisfied for both of us,
not saying that every bisexual woman likes crossdressing but I do,
xoxoxo

[UNDERDRESSER]

My GF is not bisexual, but she definitely has attitudes that are somewhat masculine, when compared to the general populace. She thinks of this as being feminist, in that what keeps other girls from tinkering with their bikes, is cultural and societal pressures and conditioning. She's right, for the most part. She is very happy for me to use clothing to express my own "gender performance" She appreciates my flexibility in societal roles, e.g. i don't think it's demeaning to me to do the dishes after she cooks a meal, or even when I've cooked! It's not a case of her "prefering" my clothing choices, it's more a case of it being an outward expression of my acceptance female equality.