Crossdressing, Libido and Relationships.

[Wildaboutheels]

Not applicable at all to... some folks. Perfectly understandable... so IF it doesn't apply to you, no reason to respond.

What if I simplify it?

How about IF I remove the CD component? Make any difference?

And include everyone, both males and GGs and just ask how many LTRs have you had where you and your partner were pretty much on the same page libido wise?

[Angela Campbell]

Matching libido in a relationship? Like winning the lottery. I had it once. It was a very hot relationship that burned very fast and died young. It lasted about 2 years. I feel lucky to have known her at all. Never had one like that before and will probably never have one like that again. Yes she did know and support my crossdressing, she loved it. I wonder if she thinks about me from time to time. I have not seen her or had any contact with her for about 15 years now.

[Laura28]

We have been m,arried for 30 years and together for 38, matching libos is a myth...LOL needless to say mine is much stronger then her's, however that is not to say we dont have a great sex life, me dressing also gets her in the mood as well.

[Kate Simmons]

The relationship should be listed first. If that is a winner, the other two can't help but follow. Appreciating your partner and working as a team is what it's all about Hon.;):)

[kimdl93]

I've been in two LTRs...marriages both...and fortunately for me, both my first wife and present wife have been very good matches for me in terms of their libido and their open minded attitude towards CDing.

I'll take the "if I removed the CD component" to mean one of two possibilities. If it was never there...not present in me, then I'm sure both wives would have been perfectly happy with me as an average guy. The second meaning - that I had to keep CDing out of the bedroom - probably wouldn't have worked for me. I'm afraid it would have been difficult for me to isolate that part of myself from the intimacy of a long term relationship.

[kendra_gurl]

Great answer kim

Married 44 years myself and have always had a stronger libido than the wife. Luckily my CD'ing has been incorporated into the bedroom as long as I am totally kendra in appearance.

When I am Ken she wants Ken in the bedroom not Ken wearing panties or a night gown but no makeup or wig

Libido's being equal....even if that existed I doubt the timing would always be right. I have found that healthy happy sex is either spontanious ( starts with a showing of affection then leads to sex), or is planned in advance by some special occasion ( date night or a planned night out with me fully dressed).

Only when we were first married do I remember either of us just asking or saying to the other You feeling frisky tonight?

[sometimes_miss]

Nearly all relationships have the guy as the one with the higher libido; having lived through that, what made it easy to live with, was simply making every single sexual experience absolutely fantastic for the woman I was with. When she knows there's extensive, ecstatic foreplay, and orgasms to come, few women have any problem with lots of sex. Make it worth her time and she'll love it EVERY time.

[kimdl93]

?...Luckily my CD'ing has been incorporated into the bedroom as long as I am totally kendra in appearance....



Thanks, Kendra. BTW, Its much the same for us...fully en femme or not at all, although its seldom the latter.