my feminin side is slipping through.

[jules]

We were going out to a movie with friends last night and got into a tiff. She asked if I knew where j was going I said yes. But I used my navigation to make sure. ( I would get lost in a box :)
Anyhoo long story short my wife looked at me and told me you bitch like a girl. Did not even realize it. :o .
Now I'm even more nervous talking to her. Christ I'm a mess.:sad:


Julie

[Kate Simmons]

That wouldn't bother me Hon. When they start telling me that I throw like a girl, I draw the line though and would say something like:"What you talkin' 'bout, Willis?":heehee::battingeyelashes::)

[ChelseaErtel]

My wife now sees the feminine "things" in me where she didn't before. My mother says I move very fluidly, very womanly - what a nice thing to say. I chat and bitch like a girl too, how lovely.

[jules]

So far to date ive been told I walk like a girl sometimes. Sometimes my action are like a women according to my lovely wife:)
The best one was when j picked up my new glasses and had to write my name on the bill. I went to the car to grad my bank card and when I got back the lady look at me commented how my signature was really nice it's looks like a girl wrote it. I was so proud :)


Julie

[Beverley Sims]

It's great to make progress towards your feminine side.
My wife doesn't comment these days when I try something new, she just accepts it.
I was wearing a mens polo shirt the other day and she suggested I wear a blouse and my white shorts instead as they looked better on me.

[RenneB]

Oh yea gotta hold the tounge.... the SO will be watching that wedding dress show and I have to bite my tounge when I walk in and see some GG wearing a scoup neck when she should be wearing a ...... I mean I say, hey that looks good.

But other parts are slipping through.... en drab, I use the same deoderant as the SO, I wear chic jeans and chic sneakers, and .....

LOL...

Renne.....

[ArleneRaquel]

Having a female is a wonderful way of life. But IMO its best to act upon your feelings. Love !

[ChelseaErtel]

My feminine side seems to be "tearing" through now. I was so used to hiding those feminine gestures, and movements that the hiding/suppression was normal for me. But since my realization of being TS, those feminine characteristics hidden for so long just come out.

So, I'll cross my legs in the way that is most comfortable - lady like. I'll gesture in a manner that comes naturally - most often in a feminine way. I think it's because since I finally know who I am, that's who I want and need to be. My niece came to dinner in a real cute outfit. I would have just loved to tell her all at once I just loved the jumper, scarf, and shoes (wedge high heel sandals - oooh, loved them) but since I'm not out to my whole family yet, I couldn't. I did, however, through out the day get in my "likes" in bits and pieces.