dadt

[shellie marie]

sorry new this site what does this stand for I feel stupid

[ArleneRaquel]

Don's Ask, Don't Tell-DADT...Means don't ask about my sexual orientation. President Clinton started this police in regard to the U.S. Armed Forces. In many situations CD's with spouses or significent others adopt this policy.

[shellie marie]

thanks should have known that as I was in the military

[KellyJameson]

In my opinion there are no stupid questions.

Don't Ask Don't Tell

Out of sight out of mind kinda of thinking.

[Alberta_Pat]

For levity. I thought it meant "Dad transgender". ;)

[Kaz]

Hi Shellie... just want to emphasise... there are no silly questions... there may be silly answers... but no question is out of place...! xx

[linda allen]

Basically, for crossdressers, it means that your wife or SO knows you crossdress but doesn't want to see or talk about it. Better than trying to hide it from her, but not as good as her tolerance or acceptance of you dressing in front of her.

[shellie marie]

thanks for the warm responses,now i know that is the type of relationship I have

[Laura912]

But ask yourself if being in that sort of relationship is wise. Keeping something from your SO can be worse when they find out. Explore other threads in the archives about telling ones SO.

[shellie marie]

she knows just does not want to see it

[giuseppina]

Shellie, the only stupid questions I know of are those that don't get asked at some point.

[Beverley Sims]

If you don't know the answer how can the question be stupid.
I was helping set rabbit traps when I was very young, I asked what bait do you use.
Yes rabbit traps are banned these days, they are a cruel way to trap any wildlife.

[Jana]

Others have answered your dadt question. For future reference, give this a shot: an acronym finder (www.acronymfinder.com/). It can come in handy!