Amy R Lynn
11-18-2012, 09:28 PM
Its been a while since I've posted here. I've been reading, and hiding in the wings. I thought I would share my adventure that I had yesterday. I went out in public for the first time yesterday! (Yay!!!!) I went up to Cleveland to walk in the Transgender Day of Rememberance vigil.
This was a ceremony to honor all of our brothers and sisters that are no longer with us due to ignorant acts of violence. It was quite an enlightening evening. It really put into perpective the challenges that we all face when it comes to acceptance not only in the US but arounnd the world. I walked with a sign representing Menakshiammal from Krishnagiri, India. She was burned and had her throat slit in April 2012. All because of how she presented herself. Its sad that people in this world won't take the time to find out who we are. While acceptance has come a long way, we still have a mountain to climb. God bless those that have fallen, may they rest in peace and never be forgotten!
On a happier note, yesterday was my first time out in public. After the TGDOR ceremony a group of us went to a club that was having a celebration to honor those that have fallen. I was very nervous at first. The dress that I wore was a bit on the short side, and I was very self concious about it. I put it on thinking yeah this will be fine, but as I started driving (took me about 40 mins to get there) I started having second thoughts. Thought it might have been a little too short. As the night went on, and I started getting compliments, I really felt good about what I was wearing. It was a huge confidence builder for me! Only regret that I have is that I didn't get more pictures. I only have one of me.
On my way home, I had to stop at the drug store to get some contact lense solution, as I was out. I could have waited until after I got home and changed, but it was already late and the only 24hr pharmacy close to me is about 15 minutes away. After getting changed and everything it would have been another hour or more. So I decided to just stop and get what I needed while dressed. That was pretty exciting. I did get a couple of looks, but no one said anything to me. So I had a great confidence building day!
I'm posting the one pic that I got. I hope this doesn't violate some forum rule because its not in the pictures section. I appologize if it does...
This was a ceremony to honor all of our brothers and sisters that are no longer with us due to ignorant acts of violence. It was quite an enlightening evening. It really put into perpective the challenges that we all face when it comes to acceptance not only in the US but arounnd the world. I walked with a sign representing Menakshiammal from Krishnagiri, India. She was burned and had her throat slit in April 2012. All because of how she presented herself. Its sad that people in this world won't take the time to find out who we are. While acceptance has come a long way, we still have a mountain to climb. God bless those that have fallen, may they rest in peace and never be forgotten!
On a happier note, yesterday was my first time out in public. After the TGDOR ceremony a group of us went to a club that was having a celebration to honor those that have fallen. I was very nervous at first. The dress that I wore was a bit on the short side, and I was very self concious about it. I put it on thinking yeah this will be fine, but as I started driving (took me about 40 mins to get there) I started having second thoughts. Thought it might have been a little too short. As the night went on, and I started getting compliments, I really felt good about what I was wearing. It was a huge confidence builder for me! Only regret that I have is that I didn't get more pictures. I only have one of me.
On my way home, I had to stop at the drug store to get some contact lense solution, as I was out. I could have waited until after I got home and changed, but it was already late and the only 24hr pharmacy close to me is about 15 minutes away. After getting changed and everything it would have been another hour or more. So I decided to just stop and get what I needed while dressed. That was pretty exciting. I did get a couple of looks, but no one said anything to me. So I had a great confidence building day!
I'm posting the one pic that I got. I hope this doesn't violate some forum rule because its not in the pictures section. I appologize if it does...