molly1985
11-21-2012, 04:11 PM
First of all I am sorry for not being active the past 4 months, I just had a lot on my mind with work and life. Then forgot my password, so I'm back for now.
On October 20th, an old friend of mine had her birthday at a bar for people who are lesbiens, gays, bisexuals, and transgenders (LGBT). She's straight, but has alot of friends who aren't. I was there with a current co worker because we had a mutual friend who used to work with us. Anyways, the night was young we had fun and got to see people who are like us. My friend who I currently work with doesnt drive so I offered her to take her home.
On our way home we had "The Conversation." She told how she hates being a girl and how people treat her as one, that she wants to be a guy. I felt that it was time to come out to her, knowing that Ive been friends with her and worked with her for over 5 years. I told her that I have a secret I want to keep between us. Thats where I let it all out, I told her my history and why I do it. As shocked, she was glad to hear that she had another friend who was like this. The 45 minute car ride was all about it. Since then she talks to me more at work and texts me when she can.
She told me about this support group in Seattle that meets every Wednesday, and said if I was interested to research into it. I did just that and her and I went to our first support group together on October 24th. I wasnt sure what to wear so I wore womens jeans and shoes. Her and I plan on going to the Novmber 28th meeting, and hope to be full female there. It was amazing to meet other people who are like us. I felt so happy that it made me feel so comfortable being there.
On October 20th, an old friend of mine had her birthday at a bar for people who are lesbiens, gays, bisexuals, and transgenders (LGBT). She's straight, but has alot of friends who aren't. I was there with a current co worker because we had a mutual friend who used to work with us. Anyways, the night was young we had fun and got to see people who are like us. My friend who I currently work with doesnt drive so I offered her to take her home.
On our way home we had "The Conversation." She told how she hates being a girl and how people treat her as one, that she wants to be a guy. I felt that it was time to come out to her, knowing that Ive been friends with her and worked with her for over 5 years. I told her that I have a secret I want to keep between us. Thats where I let it all out, I told her my history and why I do it. As shocked, she was glad to hear that she had another friend who was like this. The 45 minute car ride was all about it. Since then she talks to me more at work and texts me when she can.
She told me about this support group in Seattle that meets every Wednesday, and said if I was interested to research into it. I did just that and her and I went to our first support group together on October 24th. I wasnt sure what to wear so I wore womens jeans and shoes. Her and I plan on going to the Novmber 28th meeting, and hope to be full female there. It was amazing to meet other people who are like us. I felt so happy that it made me feel so comfortable being there.