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Kelli Ca
11-27-2012, 12:20 PM
So this week has been rather interesting. For a long time my wife and I have been wondering how my step daughter would take the news about my dressing. So the other night we start talking about cd and how she feels about it, well one thing leads to another and I just put it out there that I wear dresses and heels and such. Her reaction was great! She has no problem with it, and even is on board with shopping, she turns 21 in April and says she wants to hang out with us. So needless to say I have been very content this week, I now am totally out and have no fear about dressing at home. Its funny how things turn out.

GabbiSophia
11-27-2012, 12:30 PM
Congrads on a great outcome. Looks like you have a new shopping partner.

kimdl93
11-27-2012, 12:34 PM
Wonderful. I told my 20 something step daughter last year and have been dressed around her a few times. She, like your daughter, has been very accepting. Congratulations. Enjoy the new freedom!

Stephanie47
11-27-2012, 12:36 PM
I thin it's a combination of your daughter being (1) of a younger more accepting generation, and (2) she knows who you are as a person. Happy it's working out for you.

Rebecca W.
11-27-2012, 12:38 PM
Hi Kelli,
It must be a wonderful feeling not have worry about how she would accept your dressing. Now, take her out on a shopping trip and enjoy each others company and create a new stronger bond between the two of you. Dress and be happy!

Best Wishes to you and your family,

JamieG
11-27-2012, 12:40 PM
What a wonderful result!

sue ellan
11-27-2012, 01:14 PM
sounds like that you got an early christmas present so enjoy it. we could all be so lucky.

sue ellan

wear nice lingerie beause life is to short.

Alice B
11-27-2012, 01:57 PM
That is a truly great outcome and will make life easier. I also told my grand daughter, who was the last family member that did not know.She was also OK with it at age 17. Great feeling.

Barbara Ella
11-27-2012, 02:09 PM
Kelli, I am so glad for your contentment. You deserve it, as Stephanie said, your daughter has been introduced to it appropriately and knows you as a good person, so this cannot be a bad thing.

Barbara

Kelli Ca
11-27-2012, 02:16 PM
Thank everyone the blessings keep coming, it is great a little whie ago he was helping me pick out clothing for sat, see post in upcoming events,

bridget thronton
11-27-2012, 02:56 PM
Very happy for you and your family.

Lady Catherine
11-27-2012, 06:38 PM
So happy for you. I told my step-daughter last week and we've since been for a manacure together and I feel she has been more supportive then anyone else. Enjoy your time together.

MssHyde
11-27-2012, 06:42 PM
:battingeyelashes:Kelli I bet she liked your shoes

psion128
11-27-2012, 06:50 PM
Congratulations on the break out with a cherry on top. ;D I think a lot of the younger people are comfortable with the topic these days.

justmetoo
11-27-2012, 08:04 PM
Congratulations! I came out to many of my family members this year (in addition to 2 I came out to a few years ago). The amount of love and support I have gotten humbles me. :)

Persephone
11-27-2012, 11:55 PM
Congrats Kelli! Guess I'll be seeing you and your step-daughter in the valley malls!

Hugs,
Persephone.

Beverley Sims
11-28-2012, 12:01 AM
Talk about opening the flood gates, that is life changing, congratulations on a great outcome. :)

Kelli Ca
11-28-2012, 08:00 PM
Thanks again, yes it is life changing. She is actually better with the whole thing then my wife. My wife told me my daughter is happy to have a girlfriend to shop with. Warmed my heart

Vanessa Amber420
11-28-2012, 11:38 PM
Happy to hear its all working out for you!

AnneB1nderful
11-29-2012, 12:15 AM
Kelli,

That's awesome. I told my sister last week. She's 42 ...errrr.....uuhhhh.... I mean 29. Don't tell her I slipped out her real age. She's like me though. She doesn't look it. Showed her some pix. She said it's weird to see her brother dressed as a woman, but I'm beautiful. She too wants to meet my new girlfriends and go out with us. Unfortunately, she's already committed to a birthday party on the 1st. Next time...

MonctonGirl
11-29-2012, 12:39 AM
...now you'll know where your missing dresses and stuff went. You'd better hope she's a different shoe size. lol

Kelli Ca
11-29-2012, 12:48 AM
LOL totally different size, wish I was her size

Diversity
11-29-2012, 01:22 AM
Good for you, Kelli! You are so fortunate to have such an accepting family. Your daughter sounds so mature and well balanced. Enjoy your lives together!
Di

natalie_cheryl
11-29-2012, 06:51 AM
THAT IS AWESOME!! so happy for you that it went well whe you guy had your talk.

DAVIDA
11-29-2012, 07:04 AM
It is a great feeling to be accepted!:D
When I got married, I was blessed with a daughter(step) and two grandsons.
My daughter was the second person to ever know about me.
She has never had a problem and she is a great shopping buddy.:thumbsup:
That was 22 years ago.
She lives in Louisiana now.:sad:
She also came home last night and we are going shopping today.:D
So, I can attest to the happiness that comes with acceptance.:)

vikki2020
11-29-2012, 09:25 AM
That is so encouraging to hear, Kelli!! Good for you--and her! I'm on the verge of starting to tell people, but, not quite there yet--so, post's like this are really helpful!!

jackielou
11-29-2012, 09:30 AM
congratulation kelli you are a lucky man ,,i wish i could get my girlfriend of many years just to look at me in a bra and touch my breast ,she knows i wear a bra and panties and has no problem with it as long as i am dressed male (i underdress all the time due to my large breast) but she will not look at me with just a bra and panties on i would love for her to shop with me or buy me a bra but she never has