Second time out....

[Nichola]

Well it's taken just over a year for various reasons, but I finally managed to pluck up the courage to leave the house again. Nothing too risky, I just went for a drive & got out a few times for little walks on Saturday night, but it's still such a big thing for me. I was out for around 2 hours & I'll be honest I LOVED it:heehee:

I just wore some black leather look leggings, black boots & a black vest top but it was cold, so I finished it off with a black Pea coat & a silver grey metallic patterned scarf.

There were a couple of nerve wracking moments, but all part of the fun I suppose.
I was at a roundabout & a Police car going the other way made an abrupt U turn. I was nervous incase they pulled me over, which left my heart beating a little faster but thankfully nothing happened. Then, when I was waiting at a red light at a rail crossing, there was a workmans van & some guys working right near my car & I knew they were looking. The train seemed to take forever to pass.
I even got lost at one point lol, I could have just switched the sat nav on, but it didn't even cross my mind.:heehee:

It was great getting out for the walks too & not sure if anybody noticed me or not. All the usual stuff, heels clicking on the pavement, wind in my hair etc, it felt great. The morning after my feet were aching from the heels but I kind of liked it:) One of the funnest parts for me though, was catching a glimpse of my face madeup in the rearview mirror because it made realise me I'm actually out of these four walls as my 'girl' self.

So it was fun, exciting although a little lonely, but at the same time it just felt so right. I know it's not much, (I'm not too brave yet) & probably nothing to some here, but it's a start so just thought I'd share it :)

[paulaprimo]

so glad you got a chance to get out, even if it was for only a short time.
the guys in the work van were looking because they saw a beautiful woman...
the pictures are great and you look so awesome...as always!! :)

[Jana]

Sounds like you had a good time, Nichola, good for you!!!

[Andi CD]

You look pretty feminine to me as always and it sounds like you had a good night out. Btw fancy swa

Oops I cut my reply short. It was supposed to say by the way do you fancy swapping cars.

[STACY B]

Its always funny to me when people go out an other people look at them an WE think there looking at us for dressing as a woman but we are always dressed to the nines an they are really looking at us being dressed nice not for dressing like a woman for being a Well dressed woman ! Hope you had fun ,,You are Beautiful !

[BillieAnneJean]

The trick is to go out dressed simlar to the other women. I go out a lot and the best way to not get noticed is to not give them anything to notice.

[TeresaL]

The trick is to go out dressed simlar to the other women. I go out a lot and the best way to not get noticed is to not give them anything to notice.
Yep, and that usually means "not in a dress" unless it's a special or formal occasion where most women are in like attire. Study the unspoken female dress codes in your locale. Hmm I'm indicating that you are going "daytime" enfemme anytime soon. Enjoy what you have been given.

[BillieAnneJean]

I am going to lunch and shopping at the big mall tomorrow. Enfemme.

[Barbara Ella]

Congratulations Nichole. you are a very pretty girl, so you should have no problem with stranger's glances. Put the feeling this trip generated into your treasure box, along with the first, and remember them whenever you aren't able to go out, and use them as reinforcement to convince yourself to go out again.

Barbara

[SatinSarah]

Thanks for sharing - I'm 24 hours away from my planned first outing so this has given me some encouragement. I am nervous already but you look great.

[Beverley Sims]

I bet the third time out will not be that far away?
Great look great car, watch out for guys hitting on you. :)

[cjlegs]

Unfortunately, I have to be VERY careful due to family situations and work situations that prevent me from going out like I want. I have managed to go somewhere private and change into my female clothing, then drive to my favorite adult store nearby. They are VERY cool about it and in fact, encourage it. I always have a fun time when I'm there and have been surprised at the number of men who are interested in playing with me, when they are not when I'm there as a man. Interesting. :-)

CJ

[stephNE]

Hi Nichola, you look great and very passable! And yes it really is fun being out, isn't it? Steph.

[Tracy - new dresser]

a car trip will be my firs outing, whenever that happens lol. omg what car do you have???

[Marleena]

Nichola gets an "atta girl" from me.:) Congrats on being out and about again, it will keep getting easier, but it can become addictive!

[Roberta Young]

Nichola, I think all of your worries are in Your head, A very pretty one i may add. You look stunning! Hugs Roberta

[LauraBird]

You look great, Nichola! Great outfit - I wouldn't have batted an eye at it. Congrats on the outing. I've only been out a few times myself but it's fun every time!

PS - love the Cayman! :)

[Julie Denier]

Congrats on the adventure -- you look great!

[~Joanne~]

I often feel that way too, you get up the nerves to go out and drive around for a while, and while that is a great feeling, you feel so damn alone it almost tears you apart. I can't wait to conquer these fears and do more things while enfemme. Still you had a very nice few hours past the walls and that's worth it' weight in gold :) Thank you for sharing your adventure :)

EDIT: Ps, you looked great :)

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Nichola

It may take you some time to get used to the fact that people are looking at the pretty lady

Great outfit too :)

[LadyPilot]

Good for you girl! Baby steps and pretty soon you will be going out all the time. You look great so you should have no problems, enjoy. LP

[TeresaL]

Being on my iPhone, it's kind of hard to see what you look like. So I checked your pictures out on the picture and video section. You are a quite charming and attractive young lady. No doubt that you wI'll continue to enjoy your trips out and about.

[ArleneRaquel]

A beautiful lady deserves a lovely night out.

[Jamie Christopher]

Nichola:

What a fun story, and what a fox you are to boot.....nothing to worry about here girl! Congrats,

Jamie

[MssHyde]

you look too much like a GG to ever worry about ever being made

[Danielle_cder]

you look great! there is nooooo better rush than getting out and about it feels gr8 right! what kind of car do u have? it looks fan c eeeee :D

hugs GF

-d

[Carla Stevens]

Congratulations Nichola. :thumbsup:
Great feeling aint it! :D
I got nervous when people seemed to be looking at me when out, but had to remember what I'd been told: People look at other people on the street, not because they think there's something different about them, but because that's what people do. Remember that when your in guy mode, you'll be looking at others.
You certainly look fantastic & anyone looking at you will just see a pretty girl.
Last Saturday I had my second shopping trip whilst dressed. I headed to Chester for some 'retail therapy'.
A little un-nerving due to the amount of people about doing their Xmas shopping. I was in such close proximity to other people I was sure I'd be 'made', but all went well.
Can't wait for the next chance to get out.

["Mary"]

That's so great Nichola. You look so sophisticated in black! I love to Dress&Drive, too.

[kimdl93]

It's a great start, or reboot if you look back a year. The world kept right on spinning, the cops weren't on alert and the guys were just checking out the cute babe in the sweet ride. Next time ramp it up a notch and stop for a cup of coffee or do some shopping. You looked great...no surprise there!

[Jorja]

Great job! Such a rush isn't it? Don't worry about people looking at you. They are admiring a pretty woman.

BTW, did you notice your steering wheel is on the wrong side of the car? :)

[Nichola]

Thanks for the support, hopefully I can be a little braver next time & I'm in awe of those of you who get out regularly:)
I bet the third time out will not be that far away?Great look great car, watch out for guys hitting on you. :)Well I hope it doesn't take me a year again & hehe I'll watch out:o


Hi Nichola, you look great and very passable! And yes it really is fun being out, isn't it? Steph.It's great fun & think it could become addictive:)


a car trip will be my firs outing, whenever that happens lol. omg what car do you have???Good luck Tracy, the car's a Cayman.


you look great! there is nooooo better rush than getting out and about it feels gr8 right! what kind of car do u have?Yeah it felt fantastic & as above for the car.


Great job! Such a rush isn't it? Don't worry about people looking at you. They are admiring a pretty woman.
BTW, did you notice your steering wheel is on the wrong side of the car? :)lol, thanks Jorja, & yeah it's a great rush:)

[NyssaF]

Hooray for you!!! Y'all are gonna inspire me yet. :)

[AllieSF]

Congratulations. As you will find out, it gets easier to get out and the little things that gave you scares seem to disappear. Thanks for sharing, one of these days you will find yourself in a bar or club talking to a complete stranger and truly enjoying yourself. It can be addictive.

[LaraPeterson]

Nichola, you look wonderful in the black, but you look hot in the red dress and heels. Don't be afraid to express yourself in whatever way makes YOU happy. If you don't doubt your beauty, no one else will either.

[Maria in heels]

Nichola....I always think that you are beautiful, and have nothing to worry about when going out. I should talk, because I feel the same way inside. And, from what I can see of your car...WOW, no wonder why the guys were staring at you - a hot girl in a hot car driving around all alone? is that a Cayman?

I just saw your answer, and it only confirms why they were looking at you when you were waiting for the train to pass...me I would have been staring at you!

[erickka]

Congrats, Nichola. You have broken the barrier. It will only get easier each and every time from now on. Get out and enjoy yourself and whatever life has to offer. After all, life is too short to be a prisoner in you oun castle! BTW, I love your outfit and your ride.

[stacycoral]

Wow girl,:eek: congrats on getting out, by the way what you doing on the passenger side of the car:doh:,Only Kidding i know you drive your cars on the right side, and a great set of wheels, you can tell your were having a good time by your smile, thanks so much for sharing with the rest of us girls. love those boots:thumbsup: i can see it now Nichola THE NEXT BOND GIRL!!! :2c: hugs

[HannahF6]

Like many others, I'd like to know what kind of car you drive? Is that a Porsche?

Hannah

[Nichola]

Thanks for the support, hopefully get more daring next time though:)
Might even brave it in daylight sometime:heehee:
& Hannah, yeah it's a Cayman.

[NatashaCD]

I think I know why the work guys were looking lol.

[rachaelsloane]

So happy that you were able to get out and BTW you do look great.

[RenneB]

Might even brave it in daylight sometime:heehee:
.[/QUOTE]

It took me a while to become a daywalker. Although looking back, I really had nothing to fear. The hardest part was getting passed the door. Once I took a bunch of baby steps, I just kept stepping out. Going a little farther and being a little bolder... Each success builds your confidence and once you've got the 'tude, there is nothing stopping ya girl...

Renne.....

[Kaz]

Nichola.. you rock! The police will have clocked the car not you...but you know that! Just get out again soon while your confidence is high... you will have a fall.. we all do... but confidence is key.. build it! And there is only one way I am afraid!

[rocketscientist]

SEE! I told you so! LOL. Congrats Nichola. It will only get easier the more you do it. You are one of the most beautiful girls here and a sweetheart for sure. The only one who can stop you is YOU. You'll be shopping and hitting the clubs in no time. And yeah, the little silver rollerskate is nice! Hugs,Tonya

[joannemarie barker]

you look too much like a GG to ever worry about ever being made

I agree :) she is so pretty :) well done hunny :) xxxx

[lauriejean]

You look so pretty and natural in that outfit Nichola. I totally want your boots.

Glad you had a fun night out.

[Erica Marie]

You look so amazing. Such a natural beauty. Love that outfit.

[clair]

Hi ya, very nice photos as always, and brave driving the car out as I would be worried about being seen by someone I know, I have a DB9 and wouldnt take that out dressed, luckly I have another car less attention drawing...which part of the UK do you live in?

[Melanie Sykes]

I'm glad you enjoyed it - you looked lovely!

[Nichola]

Hi ya, very nice photos as always, and brave driving the car out as I would be worried about being seen by someone I know, I have a DB9 and wouldnt take that out dressed, luckly I have another car less attention drawing...which part of the UK do you live in?
I know what you're saying. I was worried about the neighbours seeing me the most, but I had to do it & I know I'll have to again. I just switched my driveway light out & waited for the coast to be clear:heehee: I'm from the North.